ʻO ka mea hiʻi naniʻo ka moeʻuhane o kekahi wahine hou. A pehea paha ināʻaʻole i uku maikaʻiʻo'Āmakua iāʻoe me kēia mau kumukūʻai?
ʻO ka mea mua loa,ʻo keʻano o ka helehelena nani e hilinaʻi i keʻano o ka nohona, ka olakino a me nā loina o ka mālamaʻana. I mea e loaʻa ai ka hopena maikaʻi, ponoʻoe e alakaʻi i kahi ola olakino, eʻai pono, maiʻai nui i ka waiʻona aʻaʻole e puhi. I kēia lā, nui nā kaikamāhine a me nā wahine e hele i nāʻano likeʻole a me nā kikowaena. Akā, no ka mea,ʻaʻole i loaʻa i nā mea a pau nā pono a me nā kumu waiwai kālā.
No ka hoʻokō i kāu pahuhopu, hiki iāʻoe ke hana iāʻoe iho ma ka home. Ma keʻano maʻamau, no nā papa he pono e hāʻawi i ka manawa nui, akā,ʻike nā wāhine a pau i ka holomua o kā lākou pahuhopu, pono e hana mua.
Mai ka hopena, eʻai i nā mea momona, maiʻaiʻoe i nā meaʻai me ka paʻakai, nā pōpō likeʻole mai ka "cellar", a me nā meaʻai'ē aʻe. E haʻi i ka hopena o ka meaʻai wikiwiki, aʻo kaʻai wale nō ka mea ola wale nō.
ʻO nā papa kūikawā, e like me ke komoʻana i ke kakahiaka, e kōkua i ka hopena maikaʻi o kou puʻuwai, a me ka hoʻonāʻana i ka lā no ka mea e hana ka pāʻani i kou puʻuwai a me ka nani.
E noʻonoʻo i ka mea a mākou eʻai ai, he aha ka mea e hana ai, aʻo ke kiʻi maikaʻi? Uaʻikeʻiaʻo ka meaʻai maikaʻi kaʻai waleʻana i ka hua a me nā huaʻai a ho'āʻo i kaʻaiʻana i nā meaʻawaʻawa a me nā huahana'ē aʻe i loko o kēia mau mea. Pālaʻiʻia nāʻuala, nā hua'ōniʻoki - ka'āina, aiʻole ka pilaf e hoʻopau i kou kiʻi. No laila, inā makemake maoliʻoe eʻai i ka hulikaliki, maiʻaiʻoe, e hoʻopiha koke i ka tile, eʻai nui i kahi'āpana liʻiliʻi. Uaʻikeʻiaʻo kaʻaiʻana i ka waiūleka kahi e alakaʻi ai i ka hoʻonuiʻana i ke kaumaha,ʻo ia hoʻi ka momona. Iʻole e hanaʻia kēia,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kaʻaiʻana i kahi'āpanalekalekaʻeleʻele.
ʻO ka helehelena naniʻaʻole wale nō i ka meaʻai maikaʻi, akā i nāʻano nohona. No ke aha, he laʻana,ʻaneʻane kokoke i nā wāhine hānai a pau iʻeleʻele? ʻAʻole,ʻaʻole no ka mālamaʻana i ko lākou kiʻi, nā mea a pau mai ka puhi pua. Akā i kekahi manawa ua'ōlelo kekahi poʻeʻaʻole makemake lākou e haʻalele i ka puhi puaʻa, iʻole e momona. ʻAʻole kēiaʻo ka hihia. Ke hoʻopiʻi ka meaʻikeʻole i ka mea, akā,ʻaʻole i kēlāʻano. E hiki iā kākou a pau ke hoʻomalu iā kākou iho ma kekahiʻaoʻao aʻo kekahi. No laila, i mea eʻae ai i ka puhi puaʻa,ʻaʻole pono e hoʻolālā. Pau nā mea a pau ma kāu makemake. Ma kāu'ōleloʻana iāʻoe iho he "ʻaʻohe" e hōʻoleʻoe i nā meaʻeha, a, eia naʻe, e haʻalele i ka puhi pua.
Akā i kekahi manawa he mau wāhine wale nō kaʻoluʻoluʻole. ʻO nā poʻe i piha i ka pono, a no laila keʻano o ka moeʻana i ke kaumaha e like me lākou. Akā, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻoholo i kēia pilikia. I kēia lā, nui nā lāʻau lapaʻau kūikawā i keʻano "pilikia" i kou'ōpū, a hoʻomakaʻoe eʻai i nā mea liʻiliʻi.
ʻO ka pilikia nui hoʻi e pili ana i nā wāhine hānau. I nā wāhine wahine, he nui nā wāhine e manaʻo neiʻaʻole lākou e hoʻonele hou. Akā he manaʻo hewa kēia manaʻo. ʻAʻole hiki ke kaumaha ke kaumaha. Pono kēia,ʻaʻohe ikaika, a noho wale i ka noho,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻokō i kekahi mea. No laila, pono e mālama i kāu kiʻi he mea nui loa.
ʻO ka mua, kūʻaiʻoe i ka pōleʻa hauʻoli. ʻO nā haʻawina mau no kēlā me ka pōleʻele e hoʻihoʻi iāʻoe i keʻano kahiko o ka'ōpū, aʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo ka'ōpū ka hōʻailona mua o ke kaumaha. Hoʻomākaukau mauʻia i nā lā o nāʻiʻo, nā wāwae, a me ke kino. No ka hōʻoiaʻana i ka hopena kūpono loa, e kākau inoa no kahi kikoena.