He aha kaʻu e hāʻawi aku ai i koʻu makuahine

ʻO ke kohoʻana i kahi makana no koʻu makuahine he mea paʻakikī loa aʻo kekahi manawa mākou e 'ʻoki ai i ke poʻo, hiki ke hāʻawiʻia i koʻu makuahine. ʻOiaʻiʻo, uaʻike mākou a pau ka makana maikaʻi loa no ka makuahine ke mālama, ke nānā a me ke aloha, akā makemake nō naʻeʻoe e hāʻawi i kekahi meaʻoluʻolu, pono a pono ...

Ma mua o kou kohoʻana i nā mea e hāʻawi aku ai i kou makuahine, ponoʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kāna mea makemake, aiʻole i kāna mea makemake, makemake pahaʻo ia e kūʻai aku. ʻOi, ma nāʻano koʻikoʻi, e noi iā ia iho e makemakeʻo ia e loaʻa i kahi makana a hoʻopiʻi paha iā ia,ʻoiaiʻo ka nui o nā mākuahine, a me nā poʻe i makemakeʻole i nā mea nui. ʻO ka makuahine wale nō i makemake i nā mea kupaianaha a me ka noʻonoʻoʻole e hiki ai ke mahalo i ka makana i loko o keʻano he mea e kahaha ai. Akā,ʻo ka nui o nā makua, he maikaʻiʻole ia no nā pōhā. No lailaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka hoʻomaha,ʻo ia ka lā hānau, ka makahiki hou a me ka lā 8 o Malaki, e nīnau iā ia i ka makemake e loaʻa iā ia he makana. A laila e hauʻoli koʻu makuahine i kona manaʻo he mea nui iāʻoe, aʻaʻoleʻoe e noho kūponoʻole a me ka ponoʻole.

No laila, ua aʻo nuiʻoe i nā makemake o kou makuahine, he aha kāna e makemake ai e loaʻa i makana, a ke hoʻomaka nei kākou e hana! Inā paha he keikiʻoe a he mea'ōpiopio paha,ʻoiai, no laila,ʻaʻohe makana maikaʻi no kou makuahine ma mua o ka makana i hanaʻia me kou lima pono'ī. Hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi, e like me keʻano o ke kaulahao i kāohiʻia mai kahi pahu, e hana i ka herbarium, e hoʻonani i ka hale me nā balemole a me nā pelekikena me ka mahalo a me nā'ōlelo "mahana" no kou makuahine, e hīmeni i ke mele, e hana i kahi kāleka me kou lima pono'ī. Ma keʻano laulā, he nui nā koho,ʻo ia mea a pau e pili ana i kou manaʻo. Akā, inā he kūʻokoʻa kūʻokoʻa kūʻokoʻa kūʻokoʻaʻoe, e hāʻawi aku i kou makuahine i mea waiwai a kūpono, e hoʻokō i kāna moe,ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke uku. No ka laʻana, e hāʻawi aku i kahi kaʻa, hele i ke kai, a kūʻai paha i kekahi mea pono a pono i loko o ka hale: he kapuahi hou, holoi holoi, he mokuahi. A iʻole e maikaʻi paha ke hāʻawi aku i kahi makua i kahi'āpana leʻaleʻa maikaʻi: e hāʻawi i kahi hōʻailona no ka meleʻana i kāna mea mele punahele, he ticket i ka hale hōʻikeʻike a iʻole e hele pū i kahi pāʻani.

No ke kohoʻana i kahi makana no kou makuahine, ponoʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo i kou makuahine maikaʻi loa, nani a maikaʻi i ka wahine, aʻo ia ka mea e maikaʻi loa ai ke kāhiko me ka puaʻana, no laila, hiki iāʻoe ke hana i nā makana penei:

1. E hele pū me kou makuahine i ka hale kūʻai a kūʻai aku i kāna lima lima hou, he lole hou a he kāmaʻa paha, aiʻole ia, maikaʻi, he kapa hulu a me nā pālule hipa.

2. Hiki iāʻoe ke kūʻai aku i ka meaʻala maikaʻi loa a kona makuahine, nā mea maʻamau, nā huahana pale. ʻOiaʻiʻo, inā he kaikamahineʻoe, a laila,ʻaʻole e paʻakikī iāʻoe ke kūʻai aku i kēia mau mea a pau, no ka pono o kou makuahine, e noʻonoʻo i nā mea e pili ana i kaʻili a me kaʻai. Akā inā he keikiʻoe, e aho e hele pū me ia i ka hale kūʻai, iʻole e kuhihewa i kāu kūʻai aiʻole e hāʻawi wale i kāu kālā makuahine i kūʻaiʻo ia i kāna mea e pono ai.

3.ʻOiaʻiʻo, he makana maikaʻi loa no ka makuahine kekahi mau mea gula o ke kālā, ke kālā, ka platinum me nā pōhaku maikaʻi a me nā'āpana pōhaku. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, nui nā wāhine i kēlā me kēia mau makahiki e like me kēiaʻano makana.

4. hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i kahi makana i loko o keʻano o ka inoa o ka makahiki no ka hana'ōmaʻomaʻi, pono; hōʻike'ai'ē i ka SPA hale kūʻai a kūʻai paha i kahi simulator hāmeʻa. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hahai mau nā wāhine i ko lākouʻano a me ko lākou helehelena, a inā he'ōpiopio, a ikaika a makua paha kou makuahine, a laila nona kēia makana.

5. Akā, ināʻaʻole he'ōpiopio o kou makuahine aʻo ia, e like me nā wāhine waena a me nā wāhine i hoʻomahaʻia, e leʻaleʻa ana i ka pāʻani a heluhelu heluhelu paha i nā puke me nā leʻaleʻa, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i ke wikiō me kāna mau mele mele a me nā mele mele kaulanaʻo Soviet. makemake. Hiki nō hoʻi iāʻoe ke hāʻawi aku i kāu inoa makahiki i kāna puke punahele.

Ma keʻano laulā,ʻaʻole e paʻakikī loa i koʻu makuahine, ponoʻole e mālama, mālama aʻike i nā hiʻohiʻona o koʻu makuakāne, nā makemake a, a no laila, e noʻonoʻo i kona manaʻo. Eia nō hoʻi, mai poinaʻoeʻo kou makuahine ka wahine maikaʻi loa iāʻoe, aloha nui i nā mea likeʻole, e like me nā pua, nā leʻaleʻa a me keʻano mahanahana.