Hana aloha - he aha e loaʻa i kahiʻoihana

ʻO ka pilina o ke keʻena - pehea ka hopena o kāuʻoihana a me kāuʻohana aloha? No ka mea,ʻaʻoleʻoe i manaʻo eʻikeʻoe i kāu aloha i ka hana. A ke hana nei kekahi i ke aloha ...ʻO nā mea a pau e pili ana iāʻoe e kamaʻilio wale ana no ka pōʻino o ka pili piliʻole i kahi hana. Akāʻo ka mea maoli maoli: kokoke i ka hapalua o ko mākou ola ma kahi hana, aʻo ka hui pūʻana o nā wāhine a me nā kāne,ʻo ia keʻano o ke kanaka. A no laila, e like me kā lākou e'ōlelo nei, pono ka palapala no kaʻoihana! Akā, inā makemakeʻoe i kahi aloha aloha - pehea ka hopena o kāuʻoihana? Pono pono e noʻonoʻo i nā mea apau ma mua.
ʻO nā mea kākau. ʻO ka mea mua loa,ʻo ia nā mea hana o nā pilina i hoʻomaka. Inā ua loaʻa i ke alohaʻelua mau hoa'ōpio (aʻaʻoleʻole) i hala wale aku, aia hoʻi, e like me kā lākou e'ōlelo nei i nā hihia - ka'ōlelo aʻo a me ke aloha. Akā ināʻo ia he mō'ī, aʻoʻoe he mea kōkua (a iʻole paha) -ʻo kēia ka hopena i nā pilikia. ʻAʻole ia he mea pohihihi e like me ka pilinaʻole i nā maka o nā hoahana a kokoke i nā manawa a pau e like me nā mea aloha mai kaʻaoʻao'ōpio. No laila, e mākaukau no kaʻoiaʻiʻoʻaʻole kēlā mea kākau e haʻalele i kekahi mea hemahema: ma hope o kou kua e hāwanawana ai lākou a hawanawana. Ināʻoiaʻiʻo kou mau manaʻo, hiki iā ia ke pilikia. Inā, i ka wā o kāu aloha, e neʻe neiʻoe i ke ala o kaʻoihana, hikiʻole paha i kekahi ke noʻonoʻo i ka hoʻonuiʻana a iʻole e hoʻomāhuahuaʻana i ka ukuʻo kāu pono pono'ī.

Inā pahaʻo ia pēlā . Ināʻoeʻo ka haku, aʻo ke kumu o ke kuko nui kāu mea kōkua, e makaala! I loko o ia mau pilina e like me ke kānāwai,ʻelua mau manaʻo: keʻano o ka makahiki a me kou mau kānalua pinepine: "Ke aloha nui neiʻo ia iaʻu, aʻo wau wale nō he pōhaku paewaewa i nā wahiʻoihana?"ʻO kaʻaeʻole e lilo i mea hoʻomāinoinoʻia no ka manipulaʻoihana akamai.

Nā manaʻo nui. ʻAʻole ka hana nui loa i loko o ka hoʻomohalaʻana i ka puke no kaʻoihana a me kona hopena ma kaʻoihana a me ke ola i nā mea likeʻole e pāʻaniʻia e ka mea āu i manaʻo ai mai kēlāʻano pilina, nā hopena āu i hoʻonoho ai noʻoe iho. Inā he aloha nui a maikaʻi, he mea hoʻokahi kēia, akā ināʻo ka neʻeʻana i kahi kūke keiki - he mea'ē aʻe. A ināʻo lāuaʻelua, a laila e mākaukau e hōʻole i kekahi mea. Hōʻikeʻo Practice: i ka wā e loaʻa ai iāʻoe kahi pilina aloha me ka luna, hoʻoheheʻeʻo ia ma lalo o kou nani a lailaʻikeʻoleʻoe i loko oʻoe he kanaka lawaiʻa mahalo nui, akā eʻike i kahi wahine maikaʻi a aloha. Hiki iā ia keʻoluʻolu iā ia:ʻo ia ka inoa o nā inoa inoa aloha, nā leʻaleʻaʻole, nā mahalo a me ka ...ʻaʻole hoʻolohe i kāu mau manaʻo hoʻomanaʻo e pili ana i ka hoʻomau houʻana o ka hui a me ka hoʻouluʻana i kahi papahana hou. He aha ka papahana, i kēia pō he hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni pahaʻoe, he haleʻaina, a ma hope o ka hebedoma e'ākoakoa ana i ka lacha ma lalo o ka'ākau o nā lāʻau i ke ahi? No laila, i loko o iaʻano moʻolelo,ʻo ia ka hōʻino o kāuʻoihana,ʻaʻole wikiwiki, e like me ka manaʻoʻino e manaʻo nei he naʻaupōʻoe e noʻonoʻo nei.

Ka mālama i ke aloha. Ua nui loa kaʻoluʻolu, akāʻo ka holomua o ka nohona kanaka a me ka holomua i ka holomua e hiki i nā poʻe ma mua - ke kūkulu i ko lākou lumanaʻi maikaʻi ma nāʻano'ē aʻe. Ke pihaʻole ke poʻo i ke "aloha aloha," a paʻakikī ka naʻau, ua maʻalahi ka loaʻaʻana o ka hoa hana mai ka mea āu e makemake ai. ʻO kahi puke moʻolelo no ka pono o kaʻoihana ke ala maʻamau e loaʻa ai kekahiʻano. Ināʻo kou ala kēia, e hoʻomanaʻo: maanei, e like me ke kaua, ponoʻoe eʻike i nā mea a pau. Pono pono e hāʻawi i ka manawa e maopopo ai i ka "aloha", pehea kāu makemake a me ka nui. Ināʻole, hiki iāʻoe ke noho ma ka wāwaeʻeha a loaʻaʻole kahi mea. I waena o nā mea'ē aʻe, he mea pono e loaʻa kahiʻano kūikawā a me keʻano pilikino. No ka meaʻo ia wale nō ke ala e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hoʻomanawanui i nā mea a pau i ulu i ka hoʻonuiʻana, e like me ke kāpaeʻana i kekahi o ka poʻe paʻahana. ʻAʻole e kalaʻia kēia, no lailaʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke manaʻolana no ka pilina maʻamau me kāu mau hoa. E mākaukau no ka hōʻoiaʻana o kāu pilikinoʻoihana a me kou hoʻolālā e lilo i kumu no ka kūkāʻana o nā poʻe hana a pau - mai ke kiaʻi i ke kāʻei. Ma nā wahi a pau a me nā wahi a pau, e hele pū ana me ka'ōhumu o nā hoahana ma hope o ko lākou mau kua a me ko lākou mau maka. Aia kekahi mea hiki i nā "mea maikaʻi" ikaika ke hoʻomaka e nānā i nā hemahema i kāu hana, a, e maopopo, eʻike lākou. A ma laila - aiʻoleʻoe e puka i waho (a hiki i ka manawa'ē aʻe), aiʻole e nīnauʻiaʻoe "ma ka makemake".

ʻO ka mea hanaʻo "no"! E like me kāu eʻike ai, ponoʻole nā ​​palapala liʻiliʻi iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o nā pōʻino, akā, eʻaeʻoe,ʻo ka nohona me kaʻole o lākou he mea maikaʻi. Eia hou, i loko o kā mākou "manaʻo",ʻaʻole nā ​​kānāwai e like me kaʻoihana o nā poʻe Komohana. Ma keʻano he hōʻike pāloka, nā mea hana hale, ināʻaʻole lākou i kāleka i nā moʻolelo i kahi hana, e mālama pono iā lākou. Aʻo ka mea nui, he aha kā lākou e hopohopo ai? Ma hope o nā mea a pau, heʻelua wale nō hopena i loaʻa i ka hui aloha:ʻo ka hana a kaʻahahui e hāʻawi i kahi mea i nā limahana no ka maleʻana, a ināʻaʻole he male mare, hiki i kekahi o nā koa o ka puke kaulana ke haʻalele i ka hui. ʻO nā mea'ē aʻe he mea kūlohelohe ia no nā mea a pau.