ʻO ke kāne a me ka wahineʻaʻole e hiki ke hoʻokaʻawaleʻia. Ehia wahine he nui, he nui loa na kane, a me ka hakahaka ... Ua hoomanao au i kahi olelo oluolu kahiko: "E loaa i na wahine i elima kane: o ke kanaka mua he hoaaloha nona ka mea i hai ia mai, aole nae e hoike i kekahi mea; ʻO ke kanakaʻelua, he mea aloha i hōʻikeʻia i nā mea a pau, akā,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e haʻi iki; ʻO ke kolu o ke kāne he kāne i hōʻike ikiʻia a haʻi iki iki; ʻo ke kanakaʻehā, he kanaka kālaihonua, a ua hōʻikeʻia nā mea a pau a ua haʻiʻia nā mea a pau; ʻo ka lima o nā kānaka ka haku, nāna, e like me kāna i'ōlelo ai. " A ma muli o ka hoʻohenehene a pau o ka hoʻohenehene, pono ke koena, e kamaʻilio kākou no nā kāne, e pili pololei ana i nā kāne ma ke ola o kekahi wahine.
Ehia mau kāne e pono?
No laila, ehia mau kāne i loko o ka nohoʻana o kahi wahine, keʻano nui? E pono, e'ōlelo kākou, he kanaka hoʻokahi kēia manaʻo. Hoʻokahi - hoʻokahi wale nō a hoʻokahi no kona mau makahiki a pau, no ka mea'ē aʻe -ʻo kēia huakaʻi mau loa no ka mō'ī,ʻaʻole ia he lio keʻokeʻo, no ka mea,ʻo ka meaʻekolu ka mea i lanakila, akā ua mamao loa mai ka noho muaʻana i loko o kona ola. ʻO wai ka pōmaikaʻi, aʻoi aku paha,ʻo kaʻoi aku ka pololei,ʻo ia ka mea e loaʻa ai nā koi no ka "candidacy" no ka pou o kāna "kanaka pono'ī."
A ma luna o nā papa
ʻO kēia kaʻu e haʻi aku nei iāʻoe no ka mea pōʻino,ʻoi aku keʻano o nā kāneʻelima i ke ola o kahi wahine.
E ka hoaaloha
He aloha ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine? ʻOiai inā e hōʻikeʻiaʻoe e pili ana ka pilinaʻana, a laila, loaʻa iā ia nā pōʻino. ʻO ka manawa pinepine o iaʻano aloha e kauʻia ma ke aloha platonic, kokoke a hikiʻole i ka manawa hoʻokahi. He mau hoaaloha nā kānaka, no ka mea ua maikaʻi lākou kekahi i kekahi, aia kahi mea e kamaʻilio ai. ʻO ka manawa pinepine,ʻaʻole lawa ka wiwoʻole a me ka wiwoʻole no ka pilina pili loa, aʻaʻole paha i kūpono nā pilikia: he kaikamahine, he kāne, he kāne, he wahine paha.
ʻO kekahiʻano,ʻo ka makemake e noho pū me ke kāne a wahine paha, maikaʻi, ma keʻano he hoaaloha. A laila ua hoʻololiʻia keʻano: he hoaaloha kekahi, aʻo kekahi ke kaumaha i ka aloha pāʻani. I kekahi hihia,ʻo ka pilina ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine ke hoʻomaluʻia e keʻano maoli - ke kāne,ʻo ka platonic paha. He pinepine ka poʻe eʻimi ana i kahi hoaaloha no kaʻuhane, no ka mea,ʻaʻole lākou i loaʻa ka kākoʻo kūpono i ko lākou mau ola pono'ī, a hoʻomaka ka hoʻohaunaʻana i ka hoʻomanaʻana, a ma ke ala,ʻaʻole iʻike ka poʻe aʻaʻole makemake paha e hōʻoia, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i kā lākou mau pili. No laila keʻano o ke kūlana: hiki i kahi hoaaloha ke haʻi aku i nā mea a pau a loaʻa iā ia nā manaʻo maikaʻi mai iā ia. ʻAʻole wale he mea e maopopo aiʻaʻole e ulu kēia mau pilina aloha i meaʻoi aʻe ma mua o ka pilina. No laila,ʻo ka pilina ka manaʻo pili. Hiki ke hoʻohālikelikeʻia me ka kaulike -ʻoi aku ka nui loa, hiki i nā mea a pau.
Aloha
He wahine aloha no kēlā wahine kēia wahine? No ke aha e'ōlelo mauʻia ai kēia? Ma muli paha, no ka mea, pinepine ka pilinaʻohana i loko o kahi ola maloʻo, akā, no ka hoʻololiʻana iā ia, pono kākou e nānā i ke aloha, a iʻole, ka wahine ma kaʻaoʻao. He ala ia eʻike ai i ka manaʻo mua, aloha, i ka hopena, ke ala e manaʻo ai i kahi wahine - makemake, sexy, nani.
ʻO kahi wale nō i loko o kēia mau pilina, aia nā pōhaku o lalo o lākou,ʻoiai keʻano o ka pilinaʻohana e likeʻole me ka lukuʻia. Ma muli o ka aʻoʻana i nā mea hou,ʻaʻole paha e like ka wahine me ia, keʻole ka mea i moe i ka moe iʻoi aʻe kaʻino ma mua o kāna kāne.
"He mea aloha, e like me ka lāʻau lapaʻau. E ho'āʻo i hoʻokahi manawa, hoʻomakaʻoe e holo pinepine i kēlā me kēia manawa, e hoʻopoina ana i kāu mau kuleana, mālama a me nāʻohana o kaʻohana, "wahi a'Oksana. ʻO ka wahine, uaʻoi aku kona makemake eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ke kāne. Hanaʻo ia i ka pilina ma keʻano pilikino a pili pono iā lākou,ʻoiai inā pili kēia mau pilina ma muli o ke kāne.
He mea maikaʻi ke hoʻomakaʻana i kahi mea aloha wale nō i ka hihia ināʻaʻohe pāpāʻia ma kaʻohana ma nā "pili pilikino", akā naʻe, ua paneʻia kekahi nīnauʻano'ē aʻe: "Heʻohana kēia."
ʻO ke kāne
ʻO ke kāne ke poʻo o kaʻohana. Akā, inā manaʻo nā kānaka eʻike ana nā mea a pau i kā lākou mau wāhine, ua kuhihewa nui lākou i kēia. Pēlā keʻano o ke kūlana: Ke hōʻike nei wau i kahi liʻiliʻi, ke haʻi iki nei wau. ʻO kahi moe kahi kahi e hana ai e like me keʻano: moe i lalo - a me ka wahine. A ke kamaʻilio nei, like, aʻaʻoleʻaʻohe mea ...ʻO kekahi mea makemakeʻaʻole kēia no nā mea a pau, akā, akā, loaʻaʻole.
Hiki i nā pilikia o ka ola a me kaʻohana ke hoʻohuli i ke kāne i wahine kōkua,ʻo ka wahine i ka makuahine o kaʻohana. Ua hūnāʻia ke aloha a me ka makemake i loko o ka umauma, a he wahine e hana mau i ka moena "i kāna hana pili."
ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi,ʻo kēiaʻano kūlana kūikawāʻaʻole ia he kumu e kau ai i ke keʻa ma ka pilina, akā he manawa e hoʻololi ai i kekahi mea. Eia kekahi lā, hiki iāʻoe i kekahi manawa ke manaʻo i kāu kāne e like me ke hoaaloha e hoʻolohe a hoʻomaopopo i nā mea a pau, a i kekahi manawa -ʻo ia he mea aloha, hoʻounaʻana i nā keiki i kona kupunawahine a me ka moekolohe ma kahi kūlana papaʻole.
Gynecologist
Auē! Gynecologist -ʻo ia ke kanaka kūpono! E kōkua pūʻo ia me ka'ōlelo aʻo, a "nānā" ... Mahalo i ke kāne'ōkamai kāne, ua hānauʻia nā keiki. Pono ke kanaka e mahalo a mahalo nuiʻia. Akā,ʻaʻole kēlā wahine kēia wahine e hele e haʻi i kekahi kanaka, inā he kaukaʻo ia, nā mea a pau a me nā mea a pau. Akā naʻe, i ko mākou manawa, he kanaka koʻikoʻiʻano pilikino, inā he keuʻo ia, heʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ke kaukahonua.
Ke poʻo o nā 'Oihana
Wahi a ka loiloi, he nui nā wāhine i makemake eʻike i kaʻoihana a ko lākou haku,ʻo ia ke kanaka. He paʻakikī ke haʻi aku i ke kumu, no kaʻoi aku paha o ka noʻonoʻo o ke kāne i ka wahine, inā paha he kuleana nui kēia ma mua: i ka wā ma mua,ʻo ka mea wale nō,ʻo ia wale nō ka mea i hoʻoholo i nā manaʻo i nā mea a pau. ʻO ka hapa nui loa,ʻaʻole lākou makemake eʻike i kahi wahine i waena o ka wahine ma keʻano kiʻekiʻe, uaʻikeʻiaʻo ia he meaʻeha a me ka meaʻole.
Nānā kekahi i ka hana a ke kāne kāne,ʻaʻole wale he haku, akā, he kūlana punahele paha a iʻole he mea aloha maoli. ʻO nā wāhine e holomua i mua o ka lālā hana, no ka mea, iā lākou nā "kālepa i hopuʻia." ʻO ka pilikia loa ke kūlana i ka manawa e koi ai ka mō'ī eʻoi aku i kaʻoihanaʻoihana, a hōʻole ka wahine. ʻO ia mau kānaka keʻimi nei i ka hoʻopaʻi. No laila,ʻo ke kāne kāne, inā nohoʻo ia i loko o ka nohoʻana o ka wahine,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kona nohoʻana he haku a he hoaaloha maikaʻi.
E hoʻomaopopo i ka'ōlelo o "nā wahine a pau heʻelima kāne" i kūpono no ka wahine i mareʻia: hiki iā ia ke kāne a me ke aloha. Ma kaʻaoʻao'ē aʻe, e nīnau mai ana ka nīnau: "No ke aha i nui ai?"ʻAʻole anei maikaʻi ka loaʻaʻana o kahi mea maikaʻi,ʻo ia ke kāne a me ke hoaaloha, he lono aloha, a he mea akamai loa paha a he kahu. Akā, e nānāʻia kēia ma mua ... "Ma hea a me pehea?" - nīnauʻoe. E'ōlelo wau, akā naʻe, e ola ana kēlā poʻe, noʻonoʻo paha i ka paʻakikī e manaʻoʻiʻo, akāʻo ia kekahi moʻolelo'ē aʻe ...