ʻEhiku hōʻailona e hoʻohilahila ana kāu hoa.
Pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai i ka kipi? Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he mea maʻalahi ia i nā pilina hou. Heʻoiaʻiʻoʻo ka hoʻomaikaʻi aku i ka Internet a me nā kelepona, hiki ke maʻalahi i kā mākou mau hoa e hoʻoponopono i ke kūlana o kēia manawa?
ʻO kāu hapalua, hiki iāʻoe ke ho'āʻo wale e hūnā i ke ola o kahi wahine wahine, akāʻo ka hōʻoleʻana he mea e pono ai ka nānāʻana i nā mea kiko'ī. ʻAʻole kēia manawa i ka manawa mau i nā kāne. Hiki i nā hoa noho, ma o lākou launaʻole, ka nui o nā hōʻike a me ke koloheʻole, e ho'āʻo nei e hūnā i kā lākou mau hana maʻamau.
Inā manaʻoʻoe he mea kūponoʻole ka mea aloha iāʻoe, ponoʻoe e aʻo eʻike i kaʻano hoʻorara. E aʻo i nā hōʻailona likeʻole o ka hōʻole, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ana he moʻolelo aloha kāu mea aloha:
1. Pono e mālama i kou kaha a kūʻai mau i nā lole hou.
Inā hoʻomaka kāu hoa i ke aʻo ikaika ma ka lumi hau a hōʻaʻahu maikaʻi, a laila, he wahi hou kēia o kona'ōpio, aʻaʻole pahaʻo ia iʻoiaʻiʻo iāʻoe. Ke hiki i kahi kanaka ke nānā pono i ka lole, ka lauoho, ka manicure, ka maka, kūpono pahaʻo ia e ho'āʻo i ka nānāʻana o nā wāhineʻoi aʻe ma mua. Nā kuhu hou, nā kāmaʻa a me ka wai waipaku - he hīmeni e hoʻokaniʻia ana ka pāʻani ma nā'īpuka'ē aʻe.
2. Hoʻokuʻu i ka wahine.
ʻO kēia hōʻailona, e likeʻole me nā mea'ē aʻe, e kōkua i ka hoʻoholo kipi. Ināʻaʻohe makemake kou hoa i ka moekolohe meʻoe, pono paha e kū i nā pono me kekahi. ʻO nā hōʻailona'ē aʻe e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hōʻoia i ka haunaele, hiki paha i nāʻano hou o ke kūlana ma ke kāne,ʻo ia, me ka manaʻo nui nui, ke noi iāʻoe e ho'āʻo like. Ke hōʻike nei kēia hōʻailona ua loaʻa i kāu mea aloha kēiaʻike ma kahi moe me kekahi wahine'ē aʻe.
3. Ua lōʻihi loa ia.
E makaʻala e hoʻomaopopo koke i kāna mau hana hou. ʻO kāu hoa noho, pono pahaʻoe e hoʻololi, ke heleʻo ia no kaʻoihana wikiwiki, a hoʻi i ka home ma hope o ka hopena, me ka weheʻoleʻia o nā ho'ākāka kūikawā. E noʻonoʻo i ka nui o ka manawa e hoʻolimalimaʻia ai e ia i nā hui pūnaewele. Ponoʻoe e hopohopo nui, inā nui, pinepine hoʻi, no ka manawa lōʻihi, ua nalowaleʻo ia mai ka home. I ka hopena, e hopohopo nui ke hikiʻole iāʻoe ke hoʻokaʻaʻike iā ia ma ke kelepona, aiʻoleʻaʻoleʻo ia e pane i kāu mau SMS leka. Inā hōʻoleʻo ia, hana nuiʻo ia,ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke pane i nā leka uila a me nā leka uila, he hōʻailona hōʻailona kēia.
4. Nāʻike pilikino a me nā lilo.
ʻAʻole hiki i kāu hoa ke kūʻai mau i nā makana nui a uku aku i nā bila no ka pō i hoʻohanaʻia me kahi hoaaloha hou. Hiki iā mākou ke mahalo i nā mea i loaʻa, nā uku i uku nuiʻia no nāʻahaʻaina he nui i loko o nā hale kūʻaiʻai. ʻO ka nalowale o nā kālā ma nā kāleka kāleka, eʻaeʻoe eʻike i ka kumakaiaʻana, a hopu pū i kāu mea aloha i ka wela. Inā makemakeʻoe e hopu i kahi mea aloha i kaʻupena, e nānā i kāu kālā a me kāu kālā ma ka kāleka, a me ka hōʻoia e hiki iā ia ke wehewehe i ia mau mea i kahi noho mālie. Inā'ōleloʻo ia aiaʻo ia i loko o ka paka ma ka holoʻana, a ia manawa i uku aiʻo ia i kaʻaina awakea ma ka haleʻaina, eʻikeʻoe ua hopuʻiaʻo ia i kahi wahaheʻe.
5. Hoʻokuʻuʻia kaʻike i kāna kamepiula a me ke kelepona.
Kāleka kāu punahele i ke kūlana o ka mea hoʻomanaʻo inā hōʻailonaʻoe i kekahi hua'ōlelo hou i ka kamepiula home, kahi moʻolelo i hoʻokaʻawaleʻia o ka pūnaewele pūnaewele a me nā leka huna. ʻO kēia ka mea e kōkua iāʻoe e hōʻoia i ka kipi. No ke aha? He nui nā kānaka i loaʻa ke aloha i ka manawa i heaʻia ai, a hele i kahi lumi'ē aʻe e kamaʻilio ma ke kelepona. Eia kekahi,ʻo ka leka uila a me ka pūnaewele he mau kumu hōʻoiaʻiʻoʻo ia. Inā makemake kāu hoa e hūnā i kāna mau hana,ʻo ka hoʻololiʻana i nā hua'ōlelo he hōʻailonaʻo ia e hūnā ana i kekahi mea iāʻoe.
6. Ua hoʻololiʻo ia i konaʻano iāʻoe.
Ua hoʻomaka ka hopena punahele e hoʻonāukiuki iāʻoe i ka hakakā pinepine, e hōʻino ana i kou helehelena, ke kuke i ka meaʻai a me nā lole? ʻO ka manaʻo paha kēia e hoʻomaka anaʻoe e hoʻohālike iāʻoe me kāu hoaaloha hou. I kekahiʻaoʻao, e makaala i ka wā, ma hope o kāu nalu e pili ana i kāu mea i aloha ai, he nui nā lelo nani i loko o kou hale i kēlā me kēia pule. He hōʻailona kēia i loaʻa iā ia keʻano o ka hewa ma ka piliʻana i ke kipi, aiʻole ia e hauʻoli anaʻaʻole i hoʻolahaʻia kona mau pili ma kaʻaoʻao.
7. kaʻikeʻana o nā wāhine.
ʻOiai ua lawa nā hiʻohiʻona i luna nei, e waiho ana ka nīnau: Pehea eʻike ai i ka kipi? ʻO ka mea mua, e hilinaʻi i kāuʻike. Uaʻikeʻoe i kāu hoa punahele maikaʻi loa, a me nā hōʻailona mua o ka hoʻololiʻana i kāna hana (hoʻopaneʻe i nā hola pōkole, ka hoʻopauʻana, hoʻonui / hōʻemi i ka makemake no ka wahine, ka hele pinepine, ka noho lōʻihi o ka home) e pono iāʻoe ke aʻo nui. ʻO ka hapanui o nā wāhine e'ōlelo mai nei uaʻike lākou i nā hōʻailona o ke kumakaia, akā, ua nānāʻole lākou iā lākou, aʻo ka mea aloha aloha i wehewehe i nā mea a pau. Ma mua o ka haʻaleleʻana i nā'ōlelo aʻo a pau, e kamaʻilio kūkākūkā me kāu hoa e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo, aʻaʻoleʻoe e hopohopo e pili ana i kou pilina ma ka wā e hiki mai ana.