He wahine kēlā me kēia wahine, he kanaka hoʻokahi. Akā, aia kekahi mea e hoʻohui ai i nā wahine maikaʻi a pau,ʻo ia ka loaʻaʻana o kāu "aliʻi." Ma ka moʻolelo haʻi moʻolelo wale nōʻo Ivan-Tsarevich i hoʻouna ai i ke kakaka i ka pololei, hoʻokipa i ka pō, aʻo ia no kēia hauʻoli no ke ola. ʻO nā wāhine, nui loa i ka ola maoli,ʻaʻole i nā manawa paʻakikī wale nō. I ko lākou huliʻana,ʻike lākou i nāʻano likeʻole, aʻaʻole maopopo mau i ka mea hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻomau i ke kamaʻilio, aʻo wai ka mea maikaʻi e hele ai. Ua kōkua nā kāpena psychologist American i ke kōkuaʻana o nā wāhine, aʻo kā lākou noiʻi i loaʻa ai kaʻikeʻana i nāʻano o nā kāne e pale aku ai i ka pilina me lākou.
ʻO nā kānaka muaʻole i makemake e hoʻonele i ko lākou manawa e ho'āʻo ai e komo i kahi pilina pilikino me lākou, he kanaka hilinaʻi, a he mea aloha hoʻi i kaʻiliʻole. ʻO nā mākaʻi o ka wahine ikaika ke maʻalahiʻia. Me kā lākou iho a me ka mea e hiki ai ke hōʻoluʻolu i nā wāhine, hiki iā lākou keʻoluʻolu i nā wāhine eʻae i ka mea hana i makemakeʻia. ʻO ka hōʻinoʻana i kēia, he mea kūpono ia e hoʻomanaʻo i kahi mea āu e pili nei me ia, nāʻano likeʻole. ʻO ka wahine ua mākaukau e hāʻawi iā ia i nā makahiki maikaʻi loa, e hoʻolāʻau iā ia me ka hale hauʻoli, e hānau i kāna mau keiki, e noho me ia no ka lōʻihi, me ka hauʻoli no nā lā a pau, a makemake loa ke kāne e hoʻolohe i ka wahine, e nanea iā ia me ka haʻi moʻolelo no "mākou." Hoʻopau i ka pāpale likeʻole, e ala ana i kahi lā ma hope o kekahi pō aloha, e kakaliʻoe no ka moe o ke kino, akā, e noho wale a me ka noʻonoʻoʻole i loko o kāu lumi.
ʻO ka lua o nā kānaka, i kūponoʻole i ka ho'ākākaʻana o ke aliʻi ma kahi lio lalo iho, he mau mea hoʻopiʻi nui. I ka hoʻomakaʻana, hiki paha i ka pilikino ke holomua loa. ʻO kaʻoihana o kaʻoihanaʻoihana e hana ana no ka hapanui o nāʻelele o ka wahine maikaʻi e waiwai a waiwai nui aku i kēia manawa. lāʻike . E kūpono ana kēlā mau mea e like me kahi koho, akā,ʻaʻole pono ke kūʻana no lākou a hiki i ka hopena o ke ola,ʻaʻole lākou e mahalo.
ʻAʻole pono i hoʻonohonohoʻia no ka nohoʻana o ke ola i nā kāne kāne. He kanaka i makemake iā ia iho, meaʻai meaʻai a me ke kahu, personalshopper a cosmetologist, a laila nā mea'ē aʻe. He aha keʻano o ka wahine e makemake ai ināʻo ia me ia e mālama ana i konaʻili, kaʻili, ka lauoho, e like me ia e like me ia? I ka hopena, ua nui kona mau hoaaloha, aʻo ia e kūkākūkā ai i nā mea hou a me nā hōʻike hou.
Eia kekahi,ʻaʻohe kumu e hoʻomaka ai i kahi pilina pilikino me nā kānaka lapuwale, ka mea iʻike i kēlā wahine i kēia wahine i ka Mina. ʻO kēia mau mea, he mea nui loa i ko lākou hiki ke hoʻolimalima i ka manawa kūʻokoʻa ma ko lākou iho. Akāʻaʻoleʻoe e piha i nā hoʻokipa. ʻO ke ola pili,ʻaʻole wale i ka hoʻolimalimaʻana, i kekahi manawa aia kahi kūlana e koi ai i ka makua a me nā haʻinaʻike, nā mea a kēlā me kēia mea, mai kali wale. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, no ka hoʻoponoponoʻana i nā pilikia he makua kona,ʻo ia ka mea hiki iāʻoe ke hūnā i ka zakatoru.
Akā,ʻaʻoleʻo ka koho maikaʻi loa, inā loaʻaʻoe i kahi kanaka hoʻopiʻi. No laila, ua hewa nā mea a pau, ua mākaukauʻo ia e haʻi i kaʻoiaʻiʻo i nā manawa a pau, a me nā mea a pau,ʻaʻole e noʻonoʻo inā he maikaʻi ke hoʻolohe i nā mea'ē aʻe, a inā he pono,ʻo ia kona manaʻo. Hiki iā ia i nā kānaka ke hōʻohewa i keʻano o kāna lede, aiʻole i ka manawa o ka pāʻani me ka leo nui e'ōlelo mai neiʻaʻoleʻo ia makemake i kona mauʻuhane. ʻO ka pilikia,ʻaʻole e like keʻano o kēia kanaka i ka manawaʻaʻoleʻo ia e noʻonoʻo i kāna'ōlelo e hōʻehaʻole i kāna wahine, akā hoʻohaʻahaʻa wale iā ia.
Ma waho o nā mea a pau i luna nei, makemake wau e kuhikuhi i kahiʻano'ē aʻe o nā kāne, e kūkulu i kahi pilina kūlohelohe maikaʻi, a he mea paʻakikī loa. ʻO kēia kanaka ka "ʻuhane o ka hui." He nani a hoʻokipa maikaʻiʻo ia, eʻoluʻolu ana i nā manawa a pau. ʻO ka pilikia nui o kēia mau kāne, makemake lākou e lilo i ko lākou mau manaʻo a me ka noho alohaʻole ma ka home me ko lākou mauʻohana, akā ma waena o nā hoaaloha - nā hoa hele, a me ka mea maikaʻi loa no ka aniani pia.
Ma hope aku o kēlā kanaka,ʻo ka wahine,ʻoi aku ka nui ma muaʻole, hanaʻo ia i nā wāhine hānai Rolquackie i loko o kona hale pono'ī, a na ka wahine e mālama a mālama i kāna mau hoaaloha,ʻo ia ke hele mai iāʻoe i kēlā lā i kēia lā.