Ma mua o ka weheweheʻana i nāʻokoʻa pilikino, e wehewehe mākou i ka mea i maʻa ai nā kāne a me nā wāhine.
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ʻOi aku ka nui o ka noiʻana i nā wāhine a me nā kauka ma mua o nā kāne. Hoʻokaʻawaleʻia ka Nature eʻoi aku ka ikaika o ka wahine ma mua o ke kāne aʻoi aku ka lōʻihi ma keʻano ola. Hiki i nā wāhine ke maʻalahi i ka paleʻana i nā pōʻino, nā maʻi a me nā pilikia, akāʻoi aku ka maʻalahi ma mua o nā kāne. ʻO ke koko o ke kanaka heʻoi aku kaʻino, akā,ʻaʻole lākou i momona i ke kino, i likeʻole me nā wāhine. ʻIkeʻia nāʻano likeʻole ma waena o nā kāne a me nā wāhine ma nā manaʻo noʻonoʻo: i nā kāne, ke hoʻohanaʻia ka'ākau pono o ka lolo e kau ma ka hakahaka, aʻo ka hema no ka'ōlelo. ʻAʻole hoʻolaha i nā hemispheres wahine o ka lolo.
Hoʻomaʻo pinepine nā wāhine i nā hua pāhili a me nā'ōpala, a me nā kānaka e like me ia. He wikiwiki ka hauʻoli o nā kāne, a ua hauʻoli wikiwiki lākou i ka hoa. ʻAʻole hiki i nā wāhine keʻike aku ma mua o nā kāne. Noho nā wāhine i nā makahiki 7-10 ma mua o nā kāne.
ʻO kēlā hiʻohiʻona kūʻokoʻa i nāʻokoʻa ma waena o nā kāne a me nā wahine e hāʻawi i ka piha piha no ka'ōleloʻana he nui nāʻano'ē aʻe i nā loli kāne a wahine. ʻO nā kumu i hoʻololiʻia ai ke kāne e kahi waiwai hoʻokahi:ʻo kahi wahine'ē a wahine paha no ke kāne, he mea kūlohelohe maoli ia, he pono no keʻano, e like me keʻano o ka pia maʻamau, kahi mea hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻole, akāʻaʻoleʻoe makemake e hana. He mea maʻalahi kēia e hiki ke ho'ākākaʻia ma ka hua'ōlelo: "He mau kānaka mākou, no ka mea, hiki iā mākou ke hana."
Hiki i ka wahine ke hele i ka moe kolohe ma muli o keʻano o ka hopena o ka hopena o ka hopena, no ka mea, i ka manawa hoʻokahi, ua hoʻokumuʻia kahi pilina koʻikoʻi.
ʻO ka hapanui pinepine, ua māʻona kekahi kanaka i kona haku wahine, ka moena a me ka cognac i loko o ke keʻena noʻelua aʻekolu paha mau hola. Pili wale ke kanaka i ka kino o ka hoa. Pono ka wahine i nā manaʻo no ka piha pono: nā keaka, nā hiʻohiʻona maka, nā pua, nā makana, hele. Hiki i nā wāhine ke paʻakikī,ʻoiai i kekahi manawa he mea e pono ai, eʻoluʻolu wale i nā moe kolohe. Pono ka wahine i kahi mea'ē aʻe ma mua o ka moekolohe, a iʻole keʻano koʻikoʻi o konaʻuhane, a me ka mea e loaʻa ai iā ia me kāna wahine aloha.
ʻO kekahi kumu'ē aʻe i waena o ka kumakaiaʻana o ka wahine a me ke kāne,ʻo ka nui o nā mea moekolohe hiki iā lākou ke launa pū me. Ke hoʻololi mau nei nā kānaka. Hiki iāʻoe ke hana hoʻokahi, akā he mau hoa. Me kekahi aliʻi wahine, he mau manawa pinepine kona i ka hulina, aʻo kekahi eʻike i nā manawa, i kekahi manawa. ʻO ka wahine wahineʻekolu keʻike i loko o ka moena o ka wahine i mareʻia i hoʻokahi manawa i kēlā makahiki, a laila, i ka manawa e lawe ai ka wahine i nā keiki a haʻalele i ka haʻalele. Me kekahi mau palaualelo, ua haki kekahi kanaka, aʻo kekahi hapa me ia. Mahalo i kēiaʻano o nā mea, he mau manawa nui nā kahu wahine, a pinepine i ka manawa manawaʻole, ka nui o ke kālā a me nā mea'ē aʻe.
I ka hoʻohālikeʻana i kahi kanaka, hiki i kahi wahine ke aloha hoʻokahi wale nō. Inā hoʻokaʻawale lāua me kahi wahine aloha, a laila hiki iā ia keʻimi i kahi'ē aʻe,ʻoiai he nui ka loaʻaʻana o ka wahine, a uaʻaeʻo ia. Aia kekahi manawa e hiki ai i ka wahine ke hoʻololi i kāna mea aloha i kona manaʻo pono'ī, akā e ho'āʻo mau nei e paʻa mau ma nāʻoihana pili i nāʻoihana.
Hiki i kahi wahine ke hoʻomau i ka pono i kāna wahine aloha, no ka mea heʻano'ē paha ia, a ke kamaʻilio pinepine neiʻo ia no kēia mea, ma laila e hōʻike ana heʻoiaʻiʻoʻo ia. Hiki i kekahi wahine ke hana i ke aloha me kāna wahine, me he mea lā he hoa hui mau. I kēia hihia, hiki iā ia ke hana ma ka hoa hana e hana i nā "pāʻani maʻamau" a "maloʻo".
ʻO ka hapa nui loa,ʻaʻole i hopohopo kekahi wahine no ka hopohopo hiki i kāna kāne ke aʻo i nā mea a pau, akāʻo kēiaʻano hauʻoli eʻikeʻia i kona wā e launa pū ai me kekahi kanaka, heʻano hopohopo. ʻO ka paʻakikī nui i ka haʻiʻana o ka wahine i ka moekoloheʻana o ke kāne,ʻo ia ka hoʻololiʻana o ka wahine i kāna mau kumuhana, a ua olaʻo ia i kona ola holoʻokoʻa,ʻaʻole wale i kahi kanaka pono. A ma hope iho, hele aku ka hoʻohilahila a hoʻi mai ka noho pono i ka mea maʻamau. A laila ua komo ka wahine i loko o kahi ola hou. ʻO ke kāne i kēia manawa,ʻo ia kekahi, e like me ka makua kāne ma mua o ka maleʻana, aʻo ka mea aloha e hana ana i ke kāne mare. A i kēia manawa ua hūnā ka wahine i kāna mau keiki a me kāna kāne i keʻano e hūnā aiʻo ia mai kona makuakāne aku.