Inā he mea maʻamau ke huiʻana i ka pilina kanaka me kekahi mea maikaʻi, kūlana pono a ikaika, a laila,ʻaʻole iʻaeʻia e ka lehulehu he mau pilina wahine e like me ia. Eia kekahi,ʻaʻole manaʻo kekahi mau kāne a me nā wāhine i ka hiki.
Eia nō naʻe, aia nō i kēia manawa,ʻoiai,ʻaʻole loa kēia e lilo i ka manaʻo e maʻa mau ai kākou i ka hoaaloha. Inā e'ōlelo kekahi,ʻaʻole like ka hoaaloha me ka hoaaloha, a ua pololei. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, e like paha me nā hua'ōlelo "ʻo ka hoaaloha" a me ka "hoaaloha" kekahiʻano likeʻole:ʻo ka mea mua ka manawa lōʻihi, aʻo ka lua ka mea mau. No laila kekahi hoaaloha - he manawa no kekahi manawa, a he hoaaloha - no ke ola.
Akā,ʻo ka mea iʻike he kaikamahine, he wahineʻaʻole hiki ke lilo i hoaaloha, ua kuhihewa hoʻi. Malia pahaʻoiaʻiʻo maoli. ʻOiai, heʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole nā kānaka a pau, he nui ka paʻakikī a he paʻakikī o ka honua a puni mākou, he nui nā ho'āʻoʻana,ʻo ka wahine paʻaʻole a me ka manaʻo noʻonoʻo keʻano. He aha ka hopena o ka hopena, ka mea i hoʻololiʻole i keʻano, ka manaʻo! Akā,ʻo ka hopena ikaika loa o nā mea a pau a hāʻawiʻia e nā mea a pau e ke kālā. Ua hoʻokipaʻia ka honua holoʻokoʻa e ka hahai mau i ka maikaʻi o ke kālā, kahi kūpono o ke kālā. Aʻo kēia ka papaʻoi loa o ka ikaika, hiki ke lanakila ma luna o kahi wale nō. ʻO ka makemakeʻole i nā waiwai waiwaiʻaʻole i weheʻia nāʻohana hoʻokahi tausani,ʻaʻole i'ānaiʻia heʻumi tausani mau pili. Pehea ka noho kūʻokoʻaʻana o ke kūlana aloha a me ke kālā o nā wāhine?
Pehea e hiki ai i kahi wahine kūʻokoʻa? ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka mea maoli wale nō, aʻaʻoleʻole kekahi mea kūʻokoʻa. Ma kekahiʻano,ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki iā ia, inā he hana uku uku kāna, he kaʻa pono'ī, kona hale a hale paha. Akā, he mau mea ponoʻole kēia,ʻaʻole lākou e mālie,ʻaʻole lākou e'ōlelo. A he mea kūponoʻole ke ola a kekahi manawa me ke alohaʻole, e hoʻokomo i nā wāwae a me nā mea kupanaha, e waiho i mua o ka kohoʻole. A no laila, he mea kokoke i kahi mea kokoke e hoʻolohe a hoʻomaopopo, e lokomaikaʻi a hoʻoikaika, kōkua a me ka wikiwiki! E ke kāne? ʻAʻoleʻo ia e hoʻomaopopo a hoʻomaopopo i kaʻike o nā wāhine , he kanaka nō ia. Mama? ʻAʻoleʻoe e haʻi aku iā ia i nā mea a pau,ʻaʻoleʻoe e makemake e hoʻonāukiuki iā ia, a hiki iā ia ke ola lōʻihiʻole e hiki ai ke kani aku a uē i luna o kona poʻohiwi. Maanei i kēlā mau manawa a maopopo iāʻoe ka pilina o nā wāhine -ʻo ia wale nō ka mea āu e makemake ai.
ʻO ia ka ikaika loa, i ka manawa i ulu ai nā hoaaloha kaikamahine, uaʻike kekahi i kekahi ma muli o ka wā kamaliʻi. ʻO iaʻano aloha, e like me ke kānāwai,ʻaʻohe mea e hopohopo -ʻaʻole heʻokoʻa i ke kūlana kālā, aiʻole ka māheleʻana i kahi mamao. He mea nani loa, inā ua hāʻawi aku ke ola iāʻoe i ka hoaaloha maoli iʻike iāʻoe, e like me ia! ʻO kahi hoaaloha e hiki ke hoʻopukaʻia,ʻaʻole makaʻu i kekahi mea,ʻaʻole e kiʻi i nā hua'ōlelo, kāhea, kāʻana, eʻike ana e hoʻolohe ana lākou iāʻoe, e hoʻomaopopo pono, e hāʻawi i ka'ōlelo aʻo a me ke kākoʻo. He mea hōʻoluʻoluʻaʻole he mea paʻakikī nā mea a pau ...
Ma hope o nā mea a pau, pehea lā kaʻoi aku o ka hewa a me ka liʻiliʻiʻole: pili ka pilina i ka pilina, nā mea waiwai i laweʻia i luna, kahi hikiʻole keʻike i ka pilikua o ka wā'ōpio. Ma ka hopena - ua poina ka hoaaloha o nehinei e pili ana iāʻoe, ke kālā, nā hele lōʻihi, nā mea i hoʻolimalimaʻia ma luna o kona poʻo, lawe iā ia a pani i loko o ka pā gula. A me keʻano o ka pilikia,ʻaʻole hiki i nā mea a pau ke noi no ke kōkua kālā mai kahi hoaaloha. E like me ka hikiʻole o nā mea a pau e kōkua.
Eia kekahi, ināʻo ka hopena o ka hemoʻana o nā kaikamāhine ma nāʻano likeʻole o ka pōmaikaʻi, ua kū i ka hōʻoia o ka huāhuā a me nā haʻahaʻa,ʻaʻole hiki ke pale i nā mea a pau. ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi haʻaheo ke hoʻokuʻikahi, hiki i ka hoaaloha maikaʻi a hiki iā ia ke hana i nā mea a pau, aʻo ia i kēia manawa,ʻaʻole i pili pono i ka uku. ʻO ka mea'ē aʻe, keʻano'ē aʻe, he mea lokomaikaʻiʻo ia a me nā hoaaloha hōkū me nā makana, a he mea maikaʻi ināʻaʻole i loaʻa kēia mau hoaaloha i ka huāhuā.
Akāʻo ke kiʻi kūpono loa keʻano me ka pilina lanakila o kekahi hoaaloha a me ke kūlana o ka makuahine hoʻokahi. ʻO ka nui o ka lokomaikaʻi, ke aloha a me ka lokomaikaʻi,ʻo ia ka mea e pono ai ke alohaʻana i ka wahine no ka huhū,ʻaʻole e hoʻohālikelike i kāna mau pono a me nā hemahema o kahi hoaaloha maikaʻi! Ma keʻano o ka hōʻikeʻana o ke ola,ʻaʻoleʻo kahi kūlana kālā, akāʻo kēiaʻokoʻa kekahi o nā mea nui o ka hina o nā pilina aloha ma waena o nā wāhine. ʻO nā mea a pau e hiki iāʻoe ke kala aku i kahi hoaaloha, me nā mea a pau eʻae ai, koe wale ka hauʻoli o konaʻohana
No laila, aia i ka pilina wahine, aia nō. Hanaʻia kekahiʻano haʻahaʻa, mahanahana, maikaʻi, akāʻano lahilahi, palupalu, hilinaʻi.