Heleʻelua, eʻoluʻolu i kekahi i kekahi, akā ma hope o ka maleʻana e hiki ai ke hoʻoulu, huhū, a ma muli o ka hopena, he haha. No ke aha mai kēia hana?
No nā kānaka he nui,ʻo ka manaʻo o kahiʻohana maikaʻi e hilinaʻiʻia ana ma nā manaʻo make a me nā hewa, a no laila, e kali nei mai ka mare mau loa, e loaʻa wale iā lākou ka hāʻule!
ʻO ka poʻe he nui, i ka wā e komo ai i ka maleʻana,ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻomaopopo i ka pilinaʻohana i kahi lā hana i ka lā a me ke alohaʻole. Ma mua o ka maleʻana,ʻaʻole ia he mea maikaʻiʻole e noʻonoʻo i ka mea e hoʻokaʻawale ai iāʻoe ma waho o ke aloha, inā pahaʻoe i nā mea like a me nā manaʻo i ke ola. ʻO ka manaʻo o ka kū'ēʻana he manaʻo kuhihewa ia, no ka mea,ʻo kēia wale nō ka hana ma ka manawa mua o ka pilina, i ka wā e aʻo aiʻoe kekahi i kekahi a me kou haumiaʻole e hōʻike i ka mea'ēʻole i loko o kou pilina. Ma ka manawa lōʻihi, e hoʻopili wale aku kēia, no ka mea eʻoi aku ka paʻakikī iāʻoe eʻike i kahi mau mea maʻamau. Mai hilinaʻi i keʻano o ka mea e pili ana iāʻoe e hoʻololi i kāna mau mea makemake a me konaʻano noho -ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻopakele i kekahi. He mea paʻakikī ke hele wale kahi wahine wahine i nā hale pōleʻele wale nō no ka mea ua hoʻohanaʻia kāna kāne e noho like me ke ola. ʻO ka hapanui loa,ʻo iaʻano maleʻana ma hope o ka manawa.
A maʻaneʻiʻaʻole e hiki i ka wahine ke ho'ōla! ʻO ka mareʻana,ʻaʻole ma ka physiology wale nō, akā, ma ka pilina o nāʻuhane, a no laila,ʻaʻole maikaʻi ka wahine maikaʻi ma ka mareʻana, akā, he mea hōʻoluʻolu a pono wale nō.
Mai poina e pili ana i ka pili o nā pilinaʻohana. ʻO ke alohaʻo ke aloha, akā,ʻaʻole hiki ke lilo i loko o kahi hut keʻano hoʻohui a me ka mea e'ōlelo ai kekahi, kahi waiwai kūpono no kaʻohana.
No laila,ʻo ke aloha maoli i mua o ka mareʻana, e kūpono ana ia, a ma ka hana maleʻana, e hoʻoikaika a aʻoʻia e kūkulu i nā pilina. A inā mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke alohaʻoiaʻiʻo ma hope o ka maleʻana, a laila,ʻo ka mea nui,ʻo ka mālama i nā pilina aloha: e aloha i keʻano āu i hana ai kekahi i kekahi, akā e mālama i nā mea maikaʻi a pau i loaʻa iāʻoe i ka wā o ka maleʻana. ʻO kēiaʻike nuiʻole i loaʻa iāʻoe ma kahi'ē aʻe, no laila e mahalo i kēia i kāu hapa mua!
Maiʻimi i ke aloha maoli ma hope o ka mareʻana ma ka mea āu i uhaʻi ai, e ho'āʻo e hoʻomau i ka pilina a me ka hilinaʻi. ʻO wai ka mea eʻike, inā paha, i loko o ka hoa o ka wahine mua, e liloʻoe i hoaaloha kūpono! E mālama i ka hopena ma hope o ka hopena, a ma hope iho e lanakila aiʻoe ma luna o kaʻike wale nō, akā,ʻo ka manawa hoʻi e neʻe ai i mua, i kou hauʻoli. A me ke kaumaha o ka hoʻoheneheneʻana, eʻoi aku ana ka paʻakikī.
E hoʻomanaʻo:ʻo ka mea nuiʻaʻoleʻo ia he aloha maoli pahaʻaʻoleʻole, ma mua a ma hope paha a ma ka wā o kahi male male male -ʻo ka mea nui ma kahi kokoke iāʻoe he kanaka kokoke loa āu i makemake ai (aiʻole makemake paha) i kou ola a pau! E mahalo i nā mea āu i loaʻa ai, e kūkulu i kou mau pilina, a me ka hilinaʻiʻole i ka hopena o ka hopena a lailaʻo ka nīnau no ka mea he aloha maoli ma mua a ma hope o ka mareʻana a me keʻano o ka mareʻana, e lilo ia i mea kānalua iāʻoe! Ma hope o nā mea a pau, no ka nui o nā nīnau āu e nīnau ai, e paneʻia ka pane - aloha a alohaʻia! Inā makemakeʻoe i kāu mea i koho ai,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hiki ke hōʻeha i kēia kanaka a no laila e ho'āʻo e kūkulu i kāu pilina, e hoʻolohe ana i ka manaʻo o kāu wahine, a he mea koʻikoʻi kēia ma kaʻohana. Akā, e ho'āʻo ana e hoʻomaopopo i kekahi i kekahi, hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻoia.
ʻO ke aloha kona mau kānāwai pono'ī a me kona mau rula! A hoʻomāinoino waleʻo ia i ka poʻe palaualelo, no laila, mai hoʻopoina i ka ola,ʻaʻole ia he mea maʻamau e hoʻopau i nā manaʻo, akā he ala wale nō eʻike ai kekahi i kekahi me ke kumumoe i loko o ke ao o ka mea i alohaʻia.