ʻO ka wahine maikaʻi i keʻano o nā kāne

ʻO nā kānaka a pau a me nā kāne he meaʻano'ē loa. Manaʻoʻike eʻikeʻoleʻia he mau hiʻona, no ka mea, he nui ka mea i kauʻia ma nā'alē o ka manaʻo manaʻo. Akā e ho'āʻo nei lākou e hana no lākou iho, i ko lākouʻike, i kahiʻano kūpono. Aʻo ia, me ke kiʻi o ka "wahine maikaʻi."

He aha nā pae hoʻohālike o nā kāne no ka wahine maikaʻi?

ʻOiai,ʻo ka mea mua mai ka manaʻo o kānaka he maikaʻi. A,ʻoiaʻiʻo, ke'ōlelo nei kēlā me kēiaʻelua, "ʻaʻohe mea nui" packaging "-ʻo ka" essence "he mea nui,ʻo ka mea i loko kaʻuhane. Akā,ʻo kēia hōʻailona o ka moekolohe kāne a me ka hoʻokamani - nīnau i kekahi inā paha ua mākaukauʻo ia e noho me ka wahine'ōpio maikaʻi a me ka poʻeʻilihune a me ka waiwaiʻole. Mai hoʻolohe i ka pane. E noi a nānā i nā maka. Inā hoʻomauʻoe e wehewehe i ka'ōpiopio, e mālamalama nā maka. A i ka haʻiʻana o ka pockmarked e pau, aʻo ka lemu e hoʻopuni i nā lehelehe. ʻO ka wahine maikaʻi e like me ka makana, e like me ka limousine uku nui ...

Ma ka lua hope, i ka manao o kanaka, o UM. ʻO ka naʻaupō o ka wahine,ʻo ka poʻe wale nō e manaʻoʻiʻo nei he kahua ka Honua ma luna o nā elepani. ʻO kahi wahine akamai, maikaʻi loa, he mea kōkua, he hoa kūkā, he mea aʻo, a hope loa,ʻo ia ke kumu pīkini inā pono. ʻO ka manaʻo wahine nui i nā kānaka. No ka mea he mau mea kānalua wale nō paha ma hope aku paha e hoʻonele kahi wahine akamai i kāna kāne mai nā kūlana mua. A no nā kānaka, i kekahi manawaʻaʻole e'āponoʻia. No laila, i ka noʻonoʻoʻana i kahi wahine maikaʻi loa, manaʻo kekahi e pono ka wahine, akā, ma keʻano kūpono aʻaʻole loa eʻoi aku ke akamai o kāna wahine ma mua ona.

ʻO ka wahine maikaʻi i ka nānāʻana i nā kāne he kūlohelohe ia, a he mea kūpaʻa ka haku o ka hale - ua hoʻopaʻa paʻaʻia kēia palapala i kahiʻekolu. Maanei, ma keʻano laulā,ʻaʻole he paio, no ka mea, hāʻawi kekahi i nā'ōpū o ke aupuni ma luna o ka nohona, ka lumi a me nā lako i kāna wahine. ʻO ka nele o kēia kūlana i ka kūlana koʻikoʻi o ka wahine a hiki paha iā ia ke hoʻoweliweli e uhaki i ka maleʻana, keʻole e ukuʻia e ka mea i koe. No laila, he mea makemake no nā kaikamāhine e aʻo i keʻano o ka kuke a me ka holoiʻana, iʻole e nalowale ka mea aloha iā lākou i loko o hoʻokahi makahiki o ka nohoʻana.

Akā, ma kahi o ka manaʻo o nā kāne, ka hoʻonohonohoʻana mai kaʻehā a hiki i ka walu, no ka mea, ua hakakā nā hoʻoholo a pau ma waena o lākou iho aʻaʻole e hiki i kēlā me kēia ke lawe i kahi kiʻekiʻe: ka moekolohe, ka maluhia, ka manaʻoʻole, ka manaʻo.

ʻO ka moekolohe o ka wahine he mea koʻikoʻi loa ia. A he mea nui loa i nā makahiki mua o ka maleʻana. Eia hou, ua like ka mea like. No ka mea, he wahine keʻokeʻo kahi wahine leʻaleʻa no nā mea'ē aʻe.

Uaʻike nā mea a pau i ka loaʻaʻana o ka wahine mālie a palekana i wahine. ʻAʻohe leo, nā hauʻoli a me nā kuko nui. He mea pono ke hana maikaʻi ka wahine maikaʻi i nā hōʻailona a pau o kāna kāne a me konaʻano kino, me ka komoʻoleʻana a me ka hōʻinoʻole.

ʻO ka noho o ka lili, uaʻikeʻia e nā kāne he mea lokomaikaʻi, akā hiki iā lākou keʻae i ka manaʻo lili maʻamau o ka wahine. Eia hou,ʻo ka hōʻike o kekahi lili ma kaʻaoʻao o ka wahine e kākoʻo i ka aloha pilikino o nā kāne.

ʻO ka manaʻo o keʻano mai ka manaʻo o nā kāneʻaʻole ka mea nui aʻaʻole loa i ka hoʻoholoʻana, akā, ka maikaʻi nui. ʻO ka wahine i hanaʻoleʻia, aʻoi aku ka wahine, ināʻaʻole he mea hoʻowahāwahāʻia. ʻAʻole ia he pane hoʻopunipuni hoʻopunipuni mai nā mea'ē aʻe, akā, he pā ikaika loa i ka manaʻo nui o kāna kāne.

ʻAʻohe manaʻo e pono ka wahine, a me nā mea'ē aʻe. No ka mea,ʻaʻole i kūlike ka wahine hoʻokaulike i ke kūlana o ka wahine maikaʻi ma kahi o nā kāne, ua nalowaleʻo ia i ka waiwai a ua pau kāna wahine. ʻO kahi wahine nāna e aʻo i kaʻu mau keiki; he wahine e noho pū ana me aʻu i hoʻokahi hale - no laila, i loko o ka manaʻo. ʻO ia, he mea, akā,ʻaʻole he wahine hou,ʻo ka wahine mua loa.