He nui nā poʻe e hoʻopuka koke neiʻaʻole he mea likeʻole i waena o nā kāne a me nā wāhine. A inā hiki i ka mea makua ke hoʻoholo no lākou iho i ka mea i likeʻole i ka wahine'ē, a laila me nā keiki ke kūponoʻole kēia heleʻana, he meaʻino. ʻO nā keikikāne a me nā keikikāneʻaʻole like i ka physiologically. Eia nō naʻe, no kaʻike o ka naʻau, nā keiki likeʻole o ka wahine. He hōʻoiaʻiʻoʻoiaʻiʻo kēia.
Pehea e aʻo ai i kāu kaikamahine iʻole e hōʻino iā ia?Nā haʻokoʻa o kaʻikeʻana
ʻO nā manaʻo a me nā makemake o nā keiki o nāʻokoʻa likeʻole he meaʻole, akā he likeʻole. No ka mea, he mea nui ke kaikamahine:- e loaʻa hou ka mālama. Inā makemake nā keikikāne i ka kuʻokoa, pono iā lākou ke aloha a me ka nānā;
- e aʻo e hilinaʻi. ʻOiai no nā kāne,ʻaʻole ia he mea nui iki, akāʻo ka wahine i kekahi manawa, ua hilinaʻi nuiʻo ia i kāna kāne. Ke'ōlelo nei mākou no ka hāpaiʻana a me ka hānauʻana o kahi keiki. Inā ma kēia manawa e hoʻomāinoino pinepineʻia e ka makaʻu a me ka hilinaʻiʻole,ʻaʻohe mea maikaʻi e hiki mai. Hiki iāʻoe ke hilinaʻi wale i ka hilinaʻiʻana i ka'ōpiopio;
- e aʻo i kaʻoiaʻiʻo e mālama. ʻO kahi makuahine e hiki mai ana (ʻoiai,ʻo kēia, heʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻoleʻo ke kuleana wale nō o kāu kaikamahine, akā he mea nui loa) e hiki iā ia ke mālama i kekahi poʻe me kaʻoiaʻiʻo. Ma ka wā kamaliʻi,ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi ke komoʻana i nāʻano hana maʻamau, keʻole inā lākou i loko o kaʻohana.
He aha nā hana a nā mākua?
Ke hāpaiʻana i kahi kaikamahine, pono nā mākua e mālama i nā kulekele maʻamau. Eia naʻe, pili lākou i nā mākua o nā keikikāne. ʻOkoʻa kekahi mau mea maʻalahi ke aʻo ma o nā kiko'ī. E hoʻomaka kākou mai kinohi: E liloʻoe i kumu hoʻohālike no kāu keiki:- hōʻikeʻia nā hiʻohiʻona a pau o nā keiki i ka nānāʻana i ko lākou mau mākua. ʻO keʻano kēia e pono aiʻoe e hōʻike ma kāuʻano pilikino pehea e hana ai. ʻO ka makuahine he wahine hānai ia, kūlana wiwoʻole;
- ʻo ka'ōlelo aʻo maikaʻi loa a me ka hiʻohiʻonaʻaʻole ia eʻike i kahi e hūnā ai i kou mau hewa, ma keʻano'ē aʻe. Hōʻike i ke keiki eʻae i nā pilikia e pili ana, ae hana pū me lākou.
- E hoʻoneʻe i ke kaikamahine i ka hana home a me ka hoʻonuiʻana i ka home. No ke aha e pono ai i kahi wahine e hana i kēia? ʻAʻole hiki i nā kāne ke maopopo i ka mea "hoʻoluʻolu". Hiki iā lākou keʻike, akāʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hana. I ka wahine, ma keʻano'ē aʻe, aia ka manaʻo o ka mea e pono ai ke hoʻolimalima hale. No laila, maʻalahi ka hoʻokumu i nā kūlohelohe maikaʻi i kēia wahi i ka wā kamaliʻi.
- mālama kino. Inā hikiʻole i ka hapanui o nā kāne ke nānā pono i ko lākou helehelena a me ka hana maikaʻi, a laila, likeʻole nā mea a pau me nā wāhine. Pono ke kaikamahine e nānā maikaʻi,ʻo ia kahi kaiaulu e hoʻokau iā ia. Hiki iā ia ke hele e kū'ē i ke kumulāʻau, akā, eʻike muaʻia nā mea maikaʻi, e aʻo iā ia eʻaʻahu i ka nani, ka pena, a me ka lauoho. Hiki i nā'ōkuhi Flash me kā lākou mau hua kiʻi punahele punahele ma "nā māhele wāhine" hiki ke lilo i mau mea kōkua nui i ka hoʻonaʻauao. ʻO nā pāʻani maʻamau e pili ana i ka hoʻolimalimaʻana a me ka hoʻomaʻemaʻeʻana i ka hale, nā kīʻaha kīʻaha, nā pāʻani no nā mea hana kiʻi a me nā stylist a me nā mea'ē aʻe he mea e kōkua i ka'ōpiopio i ka manaʻo o ka hoʻokele waiwai a me ka wahine.
- ma kaʻaoʻao o ka makua kāne he kaikamahine e pono keʻaeʻia a me ke aloha. E hoʻomanaʻo, no ka hoʻohālike o ke kamaʻilioʻana me ka makua e hoʻomaka ke kaikamahine i ke kohoʻana i kāna kāne i ka wā e hiki mai ana. No laila, ua aneane pono ka pope e hana e like me ke keonimana: e'ōlelo i ka mahalo, kākoʻo, e pale;
- ināʻaʻohe makua i loko o kaʻohana, eʻike i kekahi mea nui'ē aʻe. Hiki iā ia ke kuʻuna makua kāne a iʻole i kūpaʻa paha, kou hoahānau a makua kāne paha, he hoaaloha pili aloha loa. ʻAʻole lākou e pani i ka makuakāne, akā pono e lilo i kumu no keʻano o ke kanaka. Inā heleʻole kēlā kanaka i loko o ke ola o ke keiki, hikiʻole keʻaeʻia nā pilikia o ka launaʻana me ka mea'ē aʻe.
- ʻO nā manaʻo o ke kaikamahine he mea maʻamau. ʻO ka pinepineʻana o kaʻino i loko o ka naʻau no ka hoʻopaʻi i ka hoʻopaʻi e ikaika loa iʻole e maopopo i ke keiki ka mea i hoʻopaʻiʻia. No laila, mai wikiwikiʻoe e hoʻohiki. ʻO ka mua, e wehewehe i ka pilikia o ka hana a ke kaikamahine. A inā manaʻoʻoe e hoʻopaʻiʻia ka hoʻopaʻi, hoʻopaʻi ma hope o nā ho'ākākaʻana.