He aha ka moekolohe e like me nā maka o nā wāhine? ʻO kēia pilikia e hoʻopilikia i ka māhele kāne o ka heluna kanakaʻaʻole ia he mikiona mua. Hoʻokahi ka hoʻoponoponoʻana,ʻo kekahi, ala, no. ʻO nā mea a pau āu e'ōlelo ai, akāʻo ka pane i kēia nīnau,ʻo ia nō ka wahine pono'ī.
Loaʻa i kekahi wahine kona mau manaʻo kūʻokoʻa a me kāna mau hiʻona. ʻO ka manawa pinepine a maʻaʻole lākou, akā,ʻo ka mea a kekahi e'ōlelo ai, aia kekahiʻano likeʻole. E ho'āʻo pū kākou e hoʻomaopopo i ka pilikino o ka moekolohe ma o nā maka o nā wāhine a aʻo i nā manaʻo wahine.
He aha ka mea e pale aku ai i nā wāhine?
Mai hoʻohokaʻia inā ma hope o ke kaumaha o ka lā, hōʻike ka wahine i kahi hoʻokuʻu a hāʻule i ka hiamoe, huliʻo ia mai ka pā, a hōʻole i ka moe. ʻAʻole like me ke kāne a me ka wahine wahine hikiʻole keʻokoʻa loa i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia i hanaʻia i ka lā. ʻO kēia mau kumu e pale ai i ka hana kolohe i ka hope. Wahi a psychologists,ʻo ka pilina ahiahi no nā wāhine he hana maʻamau o ka lā a pau. No laila, no ka pīhoihoi o ka pō, he mea pono e hoʻomākaukau i ke ala no ia. Eia kekahi laʻana, makemake ka wahine a pau i ka wahine ma hope o ka pōmaikaʻi maikaʻi, kahiʻahaʻaina hauʻoli a he mea kupaianaha loa.
Ma hea i nalowale ai ka poʻe kipi?
Makemake nā wāhine i ka poʻeʻino a me nā kāne paʻakikī. He maikaʻiʻole ia i ka pauʻana o nā kāne i ka manawa. Aʻo ka'ōlelo kaulana loaʻo ka wahine "no" iʻeiwa mau lā mai loko mai o kaʻumi mauʻumi he ikaikaʻo ia.ʻOiaʻiʻo heʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO nā wāhine wale nō ka mea nui e uhaʻi a ninini i kāu uku. ʻO nā poʻe koho o ka wahine maikaʻi e aloha i ke kaua no ka mea, i kēia manawa,ʻoi aku kaʻoluʻolu a me ka maikaʻi no lākou e hāʻawi aku i kekahi kāne.
ʻO ka moekolohe wahine no ka wahine e pono e komo i ka hana wale nō, akā, i nā nuances pū kekahi. Eia kekahi laʻana, mahalo i ka moe a me kaʻaoʻao, kaʻoluʻolu o ka meaʻala o kona lepo, a pēlā aku.ʻO ka'ōlelo'ē aʻe, nā mea a pau āna e makemake ai e lohe e pili ana iā ia. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, no nā wāhine he ahiahi aloha a me ka moekolohe pono'ī ka mea e pono ai ka hoʻomākaukauʻana: nā helehelena nani, ka lauoho, ka lole lole nani. Ua makemake ka wahine e lawe iā ia i kēlā manamana lima a pau, i ke kikoo ma kona mau lole aʻaʻoleʻo ia e kali lōʻihi.
ʻO ka leʻaleʻa iki
Me ka papa hoʻomākaukau i kā mākou kope, a ke huli nei mākou i nā meaʻoluʻolu o ke kino. ʻO ka wahine kāne male kāne no ka wahine, he maikaʻi, akā, he 90% o nā wahine e haʻalulu me ka huhū, inā ma mua o ka hoʻohanaʻana i ka hana, e hana ikaika kekahi kanaka ma mua o ka hoʻomakaʻana o ka moekolohe. ʻO ka hapanui o nā wāhine ke hele i ka moeʻoluʻolu me nā pila. ʻO kēia ma muli o ka loiloi o ka wahine i ka wikiwiki e like me nā kāne, no laila he manawa hou ka wahine e hoʻomaha ai.
Pākī a hauʻoli paha
Hoʻoleʻaleʻa i ka honi ma nā wāhine wahineʻole makemake. ʻO ka poʻe koho o ka wahine maikaʻi e aloha i ka honiʻana. Ma o nā maka o ka wahine, he leʻaleʻa a hoʻopili maikaʻi ka honi,ʻo ia hoʻi kaʻoi aku o ke aloha ma mua o ka wahine. ʻO ka honi,ʻo ka mea mua loa,ʻo ka hana hanaʻuhane kahi e hoʻomaka ai nā mea a pau. Makemake ka wahine i nā honi aloha, aʻo kahi kanaka e "uhi" i kona kino a pau, e hoʻonāukiuki loa ia iā ia.
Hoʻoponopono i ke kino
ʻOhi, pepeiao - kahi kēia mai ka kiss i hoʻokahe ai kēlā me kēia wahine. ʻO ke aloha a me ka hanu nui o ka hoa i ka pepeiao, eʻaeʻoe, e lele kēlā me kēia.
ʻO ka hapa keu o kaʻiʻo wahine ka pahu a me nā niho. No ka wahine, he mea nui loa iʻole e haʻalele ke kanaka iā lākou me ka mālamaʻole i ka hana maʻamau (a meʻole ka hopena).
ʻO Laski a me nā piko ka mea e haʻalulu ai kekahi wahine. Ma ke ala, he nui nā wāhine i ka wā e hana ai kahi kanaka i kahi o waho, kahi wela loa. Iā lālā, hoʻopiliʻo ia i nā manamana wāwae. Ma nā manaʻo wahine o lākou, ua hoʻomau pinepine ka wahine maikaʻi i ke kiʻi o keʻano e hehi ai ke kanaka i kona mau wāwae.
Hiki i ka wahine maikaʻi me nā maka wahine ka mea e hiki ai i nā hiʻohiʻona kūikawā. Wahi a nāʻikepili, 60% o nā wāhine e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i nā hoʻouluhua nui o ka wahine, akāʻaʻole i haʻiʻia kekahi. Hiki i kēia ke hoʻokomo pū i ka makemake o ka wahine e moe i kekahi wahi'ē aʻe. ʻAʻole hiki i ka hapalua o nā wāhine ke ola me ka wahine wahaʻole aʻeleʻele, no ka mea,ʻo iaʻano moekolohe e hāʻawi aku i ka wahine i nā manaʻo kūikawā. Ma ke ala, manaʻo nā wāhine e pili ana i ka moekolohe ma mua o nā kāne!