ʻO kēlā kaikamahine kēia kaikamahine mai ka wā kamaliʻi mai e pili ana i ka manawa e lilo aiʻo ia i wahine mare. Ua moeʻo ia i ka mareʻana no ke aloha, e noho ana me ka hauʻoli ma hope o ...ʻO kahiʻaʻahu keʻokeʻo keʻokeʻo, he pale me ke kaʻa lōʻihi, kahi pua nani o nā pua ... maikaʻi, ma kahi o ke kua, e'ālohilohi ke kāne. ʻAʻohe mea e hiki ke hanaʻia e pili ana i ia mea, ua hānauʻia mākou ma keʻano he kālā, akā, hiki nō kēia a kaua.
I kēia wā, ua pau ka'ōpiopio, e ka'ōpiopio, ua hiki i ka manawa e noʻonoʻo ai i ka hanaʻana i kahiʻohana. ʻO ka makemake o kēlā me kēia kanaka e lawe i ka kuleana no kekahi mea'ē aʻe, aia ma nā makahiki'ē aʻe, ua mākaukau kekahi e hoʻopau i nā pilikia a pau o kaʻohana a me 18, a me nā makahiki 30 he kānalua paha inā paha e kūpaʻa lākou i kēlā kaumaha kaumaha. Ua moeʻo ia i ka mareʻana no ke aloha,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i makemake e mare (aiʻole makemakeʻoleʻia,ʻaʻole naʻe i makaukau) - he hoʻomākaukau maikaʻi loa no nā hana pāʻani. Eia naʻe, ola kēlā me kēia kanaka e like me konaʻano iho, akā ma ka manawa like - e pili ana i nā kumu nui. No laila,ʻaʻohe mea i ka makahiki heaʻoe e'ākoakoa ai ma lalo o ka lei.
Aia kekahi manaʻo e ola mākou e like me ko mākou makemake a pono mākou e nānā no nā kumu wale nō i loko o mākou iho, ināʻaʻole i hana kekahi mea. Akā, ua hoʻomaka maikaʻi loa ia. A ma hea kahi e hoʻomaka ai? Hālāwai, hālāwai, a hālāwai no kekahi manawa, ua hoʻoholo e mare. Ua moeʻo ia i ka mareʻana,ʻoi aku - no ka aloha nui a maʻemaʻe, a eia ka'ōlelo hoʻoholo wikiwiki i hanaʻia. Uaʻike nā kāne'ōpio iā lāua ma mua o ke keena keʻena? ʻOʻoleʻa ...ʻAʻole lawa ka ola e hana i kēia. A inā lōʻihiʻoe e lōʻihi ai, a laila, hiki i ka hiki ma mua o ka maleʻana,ʻaʻole e hiki.
No laila, he aha ka mea e hoʻokumuʻia ai kaʻohana? ʻO ke aloha,ʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole naʻe ma luna o kahi e kākauʻia ai nā moʻolelo aloha a pau. Malia paha i kēiaʻano o ke aloha e like me ka makemake e ola no ka pono o ke kanaka'ē aʻe,ʻo ka hiki ke alakaʻi i nā pūʻali koa a pau e holo i kahi pahuhopu kū hoʻokahi. Inā kūpono - e mōhai, inā pono - e pale i ko lākou pono pono'ī. Aʻo ka kumu no ka hoʻokumuʻana i kaʻohana,ʻaʻole pono ia he keiki hānai, aloha aloha. E hoʻomanaʻo i ka manaʻo "E kuʻu Akua! Aloha wau! "Hiki iāʻoe (no kou makemake iho), akāʻo ka hoʻololiʻana i kahi kumu e mare ai he mea maikaʻiʻole ia.
Aia kekahi manaʻo e piliʻole ka hanaʻana o kahiʻohana i ke aloha, ka lokomaikaʻi a me ka makemake e ola pū. ʻO kēia anei? Manaʻo wau pēlā. Wahi a ka hauʻoli i waena o ka poʻe ma laila kahi mau manaʻo, noʻonoʻo, mālama a mahalo i kekahi i kekahi, e like me ka mea like. A iʻole ia e aloha hou, akā,ʻo kahi pilina pili aloha, ma kahi o ka manawa e hiki ai ke ulu aʻe i mea hou aʻe.
Eia naʻe, ināʻaʻole he lokomaikaʻi, akā, he helu maʻamau wale nō, a laila,ʻaʻole paha e hiki mai kekahi mea maikaʻi mai ia mea. He mea pono anei ka moeʻuhane i kahi kāne waiwai? Hiki iāʻoe ke moe e pili ana i kāu kāne aloha a manuʻoli! ʻAʻole nā kānaka waiwai nui e hauʻoli i ko lākou ola pono'ī. Hoʻoholoʻia kekahi wahine i mea e pono aiʻo ia ke aloha i ke kanaka e hele pū me ia ma ka lima o ka lima. Inā wale nō ka wahine i aloha i kāna kāne, hiki iā mākou ke'ōlelo aku he hauʻoliʻo ia,ʻaʻole paha nā mea'ē aʻe.
Partnership -ʻoiai i ka lumi kuke!
ʻO kekahi kumu koʻikoʻi inā paha e kū ana kou mau manaʻo e hoʻomanawanui i ka ho'āʻo o ke ola. Ua moeʻo ia i ka mareʻana no ke aloha, akāʻaʻole makemakeʻo ia i ka holoi a me ke kukeʻana. Makemakeʻo ia e kūʻai koke kāna kāne i ka mea holoi lole a me ka mīkini holoi, akā i ka wā i hiki ai i kēia'ōpio'ōpio ke hāʻawi i kēia? No laila, i ka wā mua e pono iāʻoe ke hoʻomanawanui, haʻaleleʻoe iāʻoe iho, a inā no ka hikiʻole ke hoʻokuʻuʻia - eʻae aku i ka hoʻokaʻawaleʻana i nā kuleana o kaʻohana. Aʻo kēia, ke kaumaha, ua lōʻihi loa ia mai keʻano o ke aloha -ʻo ia nāʻano kūpono o ka pilinaʻana a me ka hilinaʻi like.
Eia wale nō keʻano o ke kāne a me ka wahine e hakakā pū no ka noho maikaʻiʻana o ko lāuaʻohana, hiki iā mākou ke'ōlelo aku,ʻaʻohe pilikia e hoʻopau i ko lākou hui. ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi ke kūpaʻa i kēia hana paʻakikī,ʻaʻole paha nāʻano pono a me nā waiwai waiwai i loaʻa iā ia.
Nā pahuhopu maʻamau
A he aha nā pahuhopu? Noho me ka maluhia a me ke aloha a hiki i ka wāʻelemakule hikiʻole ke lilo i pahuhopu? Ua hāʻawiʻia ke ola i nā kānaka e kū'ē i nā pilikia i hālāwai me kona ala. A inā he mau mea kokoke i kahi kokoke, hiki ke hele i kēia alaʻaʻole wale me ka mea emiʻole, akā, me ka leʻaleʻa.
Ke pale nei i nā pilikia, uaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, maikaʻiʻole. A no ka nohoʻana me kaʻoluʻolu -ʻaʻole ia ma keʻano, i loaʻa nā pono waiwai a pau i makemakeʻia. ʻAe, ma kahi lōʻihi, e hoʻokō, e loaʻa iā lākou, e ulu me kahi mea aloha. Auhea, e ke aloha, hea oe? Ma muli paha o ka loaʻaʻole o kahi keʻena, no ka mea,ʻakahi wale nō kāna hana e loaʻa ai, he hana hoʻolālāʻo ia maʻekoluʻoihana, akā i ke ahiahi e hoʻiʻo ia i ka home ...
ʻAʻohe aloha!
Ua noho like koʻu mau mākua ma kahi kokoke i ka hapalua haneli a ke lōkahi nei lākou e haʻi neiʻaʻole i loaʻa ka aloha. Hiki anei? ʻOiai,ʻo ia. Ma ka naʻau o ko lākou pilina ka mahalo i kekahi i kekahi, ka noʻonoʻo a me ke aloha o kekahi i kekahi. A iʻole paha paha he aloha kēia? Malia paha,ʻaʻole i hāʻawiʻia kekahi kanaka e hoʻomaopopo iho aia he manaʻo maoli kēia? A iʻole anei e koho ai nā mea a pau nona iho he aloha?
Me he mea lā,ʻaʻole ke aloha kahi manaʻo like. Ma ke ao holoʻokoʻa a ma loko o kēlā mau manawa pōkole wale nō e moe ai, kanu mākou i nā ihu ma ka poʻohiwi o ke kāne, ke loaʻa iā mākou ka kākoʻo, mālama, a hōʻike iā lākou iho.
Inā hiki i kekahi ke'ōlelo e pili ana i keʻano o ka manaʻo ma keʻano holoʻokoʻa, a laila,ʻo ka aloha keʻano o nā manaʻo likeʻole likeʻole i loko o kēlā me kēia kanaka. A i loko o ka pāʻina a me ke alo o ka mea aloha, ua holo like keʻano holoʻokoʻa e like me ka puzzle, a uaʻikeʻia he mea maoli. Aʻo ka hohonu loa o ko mākou ao piha a me ka whānui o ko mākouʻike,ʻo kaʻoi aku paha o ke alohaʻole o kēlā aloha iā mākou. Akā,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻopoinaʻana i ka manaʻo pilikino ...