E pono i ke kaikamahine e hoʻomaopopo o ka home house a me nā "600 Mercedes"ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo he aliʻi nuiʻoe. ʻOiai paha, hikiʻoe ke lilo i mea hōʻeha o ka hoʻopunipuni, no ka mea hikiʻole, me ka loaʻaʻole o ka pili waiwai, e ola nui i 25 mau makahiki. Inā maikaʻi iā ia he 40, he pono kānaʻoihana paʻa aʻoiʻoihana -ʻo ia ke kuleana no ia waiwai a pau. Akā, mai poina i kaʻike i kaʻikeʻepekema, ka maleʻana me ka hoʻokaʻawale o nā makahiki ma waena o nā kāne male ma 12 mau makahiki, he pilikia i ka hapanui o nā hihia.
ʻO ke ala mua a maʻalahi loa e nānā inā piliʻoe i kekahi i kekahi no ka olaʻohana ka hula! Ināʻoluʻoluʻoe,ʻo kāu kanaka kēia, nāna e alakaʻi iāʻoe ma ke ola. ʻO kona kūkākūkā a me kāna'ōlelo mālama e kamaʻilio ana i ka kuleana, ke makemake e kōkua a pale.
ʻO ka hopena hou aʻeʻo ia eʻike i ka makuahine o kāu mea i waeʻia. Eʻikeʻoe i ka hale mālama i maʻa iā ia, e pili ana i kāna mau hana pono'ī. E hoʻomanaʻo, heʻokoʻa waho i kou makuahine e hōʻike ana e hiki iā ia ke mare iāʻoe!
I ke 30 o kona makahiki,ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka loaʻaʻana o kahi kāne ma ka hana. ʻO ka mea nui loa ka puke moʻolelo, ke kū like nā hoaʻelua i nā kūlana. Nui nā hiʻohiʻona. He mea hikiʻole i ke kākau'ōlelo ke lanakila i nā naʻau o ke aliʻi. Ma ka hoʻololiʻana, e loaʻa loa i nā lua o kaʻoihana ka hauʻoli ma ko lākou nohoʻana.
No laila, he aha kāu e hoʻomanaʻo ai he mea e pono ai nā kāne:
- pono ke hoʻomanaʻo mau ke kamāliʻiwahineʻaʻole keʻaeʻia e ke kamāliʻikāne i nāʻaʻahu nani a me ka maka i ka pena.
-ʻaʻole pono e hoʻomākaukau no ka mareʻana ma hope o ka pilina mua - e pono eʻike muaʻoe i kāna mau manaʻo.