Pēlā nō, ma ke ola, ma ka noho maluhia loa, ka noho aloha a me ka maʻalahi,ʻaʻohe paio, kānalua a hōʻino paha. A, no ka mea,ʻo kēia mau pilikia ke waiho nei i nāʻeha, i kekahi manawaʻaʻole hohonu, i kekahi manawa he make. A mai kēia mauʻeha a me nā hewa he hoʻokahi lāʻau ola,ʻo ia ke kalaʻana. A uaʻikeʻoe,ʻaʻole loa e kalaʻia ka kalaʻana. Akā he paʻakikī kēia i kēia manawa no kekahi mau kumu. No laila, e ho'āʻo kāua e noʻonoʻo i kahi e kala ai i ka kumakaiaʻana o ka mea aloha.
Ka helu hana 1. E hoʻomaopopo, inā paha e hiki ke kala i ka mea aloha.
Ma mua, he mea e hana ai, noʻonoʻo pono e pili ana paha kēia hana i ka hana. I ke alakaʻiʻia e iaʻano kānāwai, pono mākou e hoʻoholo i nā pilikia a pau o ka honua a puni mākou. Ma kēia mea, e noʻonoʻo mua e pili ana i kāu mea i aloha nui ai i kou mau manaʻo. I kekahi mau mea'ē aʻe, akā, he mau mea liʻiliʻi paha, a he mea hohonu paha. A ma muli wale nō o kēia, e hoʻoholo inā hiki ke kalaʻia a pehea e hana ai.
Ka helu hana 2. E hoʻopaʻa i kahi kumu no kāu hewa.
He mea nui loa kēia, i kekahi manawa e huhū loaʻia ana mākou e ko mākou mau kāne, no ka mea i hōʻeuʻeuʻia e lākou i kekahiʻaoʻao aiʻole kekahi mea'ē aʻe. Eia kekahi laʻana, inā maopopo iā mākou he mau paona hou kā mākou, akā i ka manawa hoʻokahi ke noi nei mākou i ka mea aloha inā loaʻa iā mākou. A laila, i kāna paneʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hewaʻo ia no ke ahaʻo ia i wahaheʻeʻole ai iā mākou. Ua hanaʻo ia i ka mea kūpono, ua haʻiʻo ia i kaʻoiaʻiʻo, akā, hōʻinoʻia mākou. ʻAʻoleʻo ia, ma keʻano nui, i ka hewa. Inā ma hope o ka hōʻuluʻuluʻana,ʻike mākou aia he waina ma hope o mākou, a laila, hiki iāʻoe ke kala wale i kāu mea i aloha ai.
Ka helu hana 3. E hoʻomanaʻo i nā mea maikaʻi loa.
Eia kekahi laʻana, ua hanaʻoe i nāʻanuʻu muaʻelua aʻikeʻoeʻaʻole hewa ka hewa i hanaʻia iāʻoe, ma keʻano maʻamau, akāʻo kāu hewa ma ia aʻaʻole nui. (kekahi mau mea nuiʻole i ka piliʻana) A laila, pehea e hiki ai ke poina iāʻoe iho a ma o ka nui paha. ʻO ka hōʻinoʻana, inā i hanaʻia, hiki ke kala waleʻia, ināʻaʻole e hoʻopau iāʻoe mai loko mai, no laila e hoʻomanaʻo i nā mea maikaʻi e hui ai iāʻoe me nā mea aloha iāʻoe, a laila, maopopo wau, he mea liʻiliʻi kēiaʻano hewa, a he mea weliweli loa . A hiki iāʻoe ke kala wale iā ia.
Ka helu hana 4. e kamaʻilio aku i kou puʻuwai aloha i ka naʻau.
No ka holoʻana i ka hoʻohālike hoʻokahi, he kuʻuna Lūkini kahiko kēia, akā, e ho'āʻo mākou e hōʻalo. No kēia, ma hope o kāu nānāʻana, a ua kala aku i ka hōʻinoʻana iāʻoe iho (no ka mea,ʻaʻole ia e hopohopo hou iāʻoe, a hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻopoina iā ia no kaʻoiaʻiʻo), ua hiki ka manawa no kahi kūkā kamaʻilio malū. E wehewehe pono i kāu mea i aloha ai, me kaʻole o ka hāʻuleʻana i keʻano o kāna huhū iāʻoe. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, i kekahi manawa, hiki i ke kanaka ke hana hewa nui, me kaʻikeʻole. Ma hope o kēlā, noi aku iā ia e hana hou, a ke maopopo nei au inā e alohaʻiʻo ke kanaka iāʻoe, a laila eʻikeʻo ia i kou mau hopohopo, aʻaʻoleʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo hou i kēia mau mea.
I ka hopena, makemake au e hoʻohui i ke kumu o ke kalaʻana i ke aloha,ʻo ia ke aloha maoli,ʻaʻole ia e hoʻolohe i ka hōʻole, akā,ʻo ke aloha nui a me ke aloha, hiki iā ia ke hōʻino i nā'ōlelo mau a me nā'ōlelo hōʻino ināʻaʻole lākou e kalaʻia, akā, ia iho. I kēia wā, e hoʻopau mālie lākou iāʻoe, e like me ka lāʻau make. No laila, ke'ōlelo hou aku nei wau, mai ho'ōla i ka inaina i loko o kou iho, me ka manaʻolana e hele loa lākou,ʻaʻole. Pono e kalaʻia nā hōʻeha, a iʻole kekahi mea e pili ana i ka pilina, alas, a me ka ah,ʻaʻole i hāʻawiʻia ke kolu.