Pehea e hōʻoia ai i ke aloha i kahi kanaka ma ka lā 14 o Pepeluali: nani a hāpai i ka haʻi

ʻO ka lā o nā mea aloha a pau he lā hoʻomaha ia e hopohopo nei i nā mea a pau, a me nā lālā o ka hapalua nani o nā kānaka. ʻO ka nīnau "Pehea e komo ai ke aloha i kahi kanaka i ka lā 14 o Pepeluali" e hopohopo ana i nā kaikamāhine. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ma kēlā lā kupanaha, makemake wau i nā mea a pau e paʻi a nani. Ke hāʻawi aku nei mākou iāʻoe i nā koho no ka hōʻike i ke aloha i kahi kanaka. Aʻo ka mea e koho ai,ʻo ia iāʻoe!

ʻO ka nani o ke aloha i kahi kanaka

ʻO kahi hōʻike o ke aloha i ke kanaka he mea paʻakikī ia. A he mea maikaʻi loa ia e noʻonoʻo ai. Ināʻoe i maopopo i kaʻoiaʻiʻo o kou mau manaʻo, a ua hilahila ke kanaka, hiki iāʻoe ke hana i kou mau lima pono'ī a hōʻike iāʻoe iho. Akāʻo ke kaikamahine e noho mau i ke kaikamahine aʻaʻole pono ka haʻiʻana, iʻole e hoʻohilahila i kāu'ōpiopio. He mea maikaʻi loa ke hana ia i ka lā o nā mea aloha a pau, e hāʻawi ana i kahi makana aiʻole e hana i kahi mea e kahaha ai, e hōʻike mālie ana i ke kanaka āu iʻike ai iā ia.

ʻO ka maʻamau maʻamau, ka mea i kaulana no nā makahiki he nui - e hāʻawi i ka valentine, a ma laila e haʻi ai i ko lākou manaʻo. Hiki iāʻoe ke hana iāʻoe iho, a laila eʻoi aku ka piliʻana o kēia makana.

ʻO kahi alahele maikaʻi ke hoʻouna aku i kahi leka ma ka leka uila. Inā pahaʻoe e noho ana i kēlā kūlanakauhale. Ma kēia ao hou, ua ho'ōki nā kānaka i ka kākauʻana i nā leka maoli, a ua hoʻonui i ka paniʻana iā lākou me nā leka uila. A ināʻoe e hoʻouna aku i kēia leka i kāu mea aloha, i kākauʻia me kou lima pono'ī, eʻoluʻolu a hoʻomanaʻo ia iā ia.

E kono i kahi leka i kahiʻahaʻaina aloha - kahi koho e komo ai iā ia ma ko lākou manaʻo. ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole pono e haʻi pono iā ia no kāu aloha. ʻO ka huhū e ho'ālaʻia i ka wā o kaʻaina awakea,ʻo ia ke kumu nui loa no ia no ka loaʻaʻole o nā manaʻo aloha iā ia.

Mai poina e pili ana i keʻano o kēiaʻano e like me kaʻikeʻana i ka māhele. ʻAʻole hiki keʻeleʻele kēia ala, no ka mea, ke hōʻike pinepine nei nā mele i nā manaʻo o nā kānaka me ko lākou ikaika. E koho i kāuʻike kalahala i ka 'ōlelo, a kākau paha iāʻoe iho inā loaʻa iāʻoe nā mana a hoʻouna aku ma ka leka uila a iʻole ma kahi pepa palapala e loaʻa mai iāʻoe.

Inā makemakeʻoe e haʻi i kāu mea aloha e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo, mai makaʻu. I ke au o kēia ao, nā palena o ka pono e hana ai ke kaikamahine a me ka mea i lōʻihi loa i kāohiʻia e kahi kanaka. A ināʻoe e haʻi aku i kahi hōʻike nani i ke kanaka,ʻaʻole ia he mea hōʻino. ʻOiaʻiʻo, e pōmaikaʻi kāu pilina. E kiolaʻoe i ke kanaka e hana i nā hana inā pili like kou mau manaʻo, aiʻole e maopopo pahaʻoeʻaʻole ponoʻoe e hoʻonele i kou manawa ma luna o kēia kanaka.