I kēia lā,ʻo ka "'ōpio'ōpiopio" he makemakeʻole, hoʻokiʻekiʻe, hōʻole i nā mākua, mahaloʻole i kaʻelemakule, hikiʻole ke hana, mahalo i ke kālā wale nō. Me ka weliweli e nānā ana i kēlā'ōpio, uaʻike nā makuahine i nā mea e hana ai i ke kanaka maikaʻi mai loko mai o ke kamaliʻi? Pehea e hānai ai i kahi keiki maikaʻi?
"He mea maʻalahi ka hanaʻana i ka lokomaikaʻi i loko o ke keiki" a ma ka manawa likeʻole he mea maʻalahi, akā, hiki i nā mākua ke hana ia mau mea, pono wale nō kekahi mau hana.
ʻO ka hua'ōlelo "maikaʻi" he manaʻo likeʻole, e like me ka hua'ōlelo "pōmaikaʻi". Ua hauʻoli kekahi kanaka i ka loaʻaʻana o ka piko o Everest, ua hauʻoli kekahi i ka kūʻaiʻana i kahi lumi hale aiʻole kaʻa paha,ʻo ka hapakolu ka hauʻoli i ka liloʻana i makuakāne.
No ke kanaka hoʻokahi, mālama i nā mākua he lokomaikaʻi, no ka mea,ʻo kahi aloha'ē aʻe he makana ia i nā hoaaloha, no ke kolu - e hana i kahi hoʻomaha no nā'īlio a me nā pōpē. Keʻike nei mākou he mea likeʻole nā mea a pau a loaʻa iā lākou nā palena a me nā pae hoʻohālike.
Ma mua o kēia,ʻo ka makua mālama, ma ka mea mua, e pono e hoʻohākino a no kona iho pono'ī i keʻano o ka hua'ōlelo "kanaka maikaʻi" iā ia. E hoʻomanaʻo iāʻoe iho, e kākau i kāu mau hopena.
Pono ka makua mālama a mālama pono i nā keiki ma waena o nā makahiki o hoʻokahi aʻelima mau hanaʻole i ka mea i haʻiʻia ma nā hua'ōlelo, akā e hana hou i nā hana a ko lākou mau mākua. He maikaʻi kēia wā no nā mākua, no ka mea,ʻaʻole lākou eʻikeʻia a he kuleana kūpono no kā lākou keiki, no laila hiki iā lākou ke hoʻololi i ka hana o ke keiki. No laila, ponoʻoe e lilo i "hōʻailona o ke aloha" no kāu keiki. Eia naʻe, pono e hoʻomanaʻoʻia e hiki mai kahi manawa e lilo ai nā hoa a me nā kiʻi i mea e mana ai no kāu keiki, aʻo kou mana e hele i ke kumu, no laila, e kūpono i nā mea a pau a meʻoe iho e pale ai i nā kūlana e kau ai i kāu keiki.
ʻO nā mākua e alualu nei i ka pahuhopu o ke hānaiʻana i kahi keiki maikaʻi, e hoʻomanaʻo i ka ponoʻole o ka hoʻouluʻana i ka waiwai kālā'ōpiopio,ʻo ia ka hiʻohiʻona o kēlā me kēia keiki. Eia nō hoʻi,ʻaʻole pono e aʻoʻia ke keiki e hāʻawi i nā makana paʻa. ʻO nā makana kūpaʻa heʻano "maʻi maʻi", iʻike mauʻia e kēlā mau mākua iʻikeʻole i kā lākou keiki i keʻano paʻakikī,ʻoiai lākou e hana ikaika a hoʻolohe i ke keiki me nā mea hana a me nā haʻawina'ē aʻe. ʻO kaʻoi aku o nā mea a pau, i ka manawa e hoʻokomoʻia ai ka makana me nā hua'ōlelo penei: "E nānā i ka mea a kou makuahine i lawe mai ai iāʻoe! Aloha nuiʻo Mina iāʻoe! "A iʻole," E holo wikiwiki i ka makua aʻike i ka mea i kūʻai mai iāʻoe! ".
Inā makemakeʻoe i kāu keiki, he mea nui e hoʻokomo i loko ona i ka manaʻo -ʻo ka hāʻawiʻana i nā makana eʻoi aku kaʻoluʻolu loa ma mua o ka loaʻa. He mea paʻakikī kēia e hoʻokumu i kēia kumukānāwai,ʻoiaiʻo ka hapanui o nā keiki e kau wale ana ma luna o lākou iho, ma ko lākou makemake, pēlā nō ka hua'ōlelo "no kēia āu, e lawe a hāʻawi paha au ia iāʻoe" i ke mele a me kaʻoluʻolu loa iā lākou ma mua o ka hua'ōlelo "hāʻawi i kekahi a hāʻawi paha." Inā kohoʻoe e kūʻai i kāu keiki he meaʻai waiwai nui, hiki iāʻoe ke kūkākūkā me ia, hāʻawi i kekahi mea i kahi keiki'ē aʻe aʻaʻoleʻo ia he hoaaloha. Hiki iā ia he keiki a ke hoalauna, he keiki mai kahiʻohana haʻahaʻa kālā, he keiki e pāʻani ana ma ke kahua pāʻani. He mea nui e kohoʻo ia i ka mea pāʻani nāna e hāʻawi. Ke lanakila mau nei kēia kulekele-lanakila. Hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻohana i kēia kulekele i nā lole hou.
I loko o ke keiki he mea nui hoʻi ke kau aku i ke aloha i nā hana maikaʻi. Eia kekahi laʻana, ināʻoe e kūʻai aku iā ia i ka candy, hua aiʻole nā meaʻala'ē aʻe, a laila e hoʻonohonoho me ke keiki e hāʻawiʻo ia iā lākou me nā keiki āna e pāʻani ai ma ka pā. E aʻo i kahi keiki e hāʻawi mau a ma nā wahi āpau a laila e hoʻopili i kahi kanaka maikaʻi i loko o lailaʻaʻole e paʻakikī.
He mea nui e loaʻa kahi kūkākūkā ma waena oʻoe me ke keiki. Eʻike a haʻi aku i kāu keiki i nā moʻolelo a me nā moʻolelo e pili ana i nā kānaka maikaʻi, aia he kānāwai ma ka honua "i kā ke kanaka i lūlū ai, a laila eʻohiʻo ia." No ka hōʻoiaʻana i ke kūlana i hōʻikeʻia i loko o ke keiki, he mea nui e komo i loko o ke ola o ke keiki, e aʻo pū me ia i ka honua a puni a me nā kānāwai e noho ana i laila.
E kanu i kāu keiki i ke aloha a i ka wā eʻohi aiʻoe i ka pono, i ka lokomaikaʻi a me ka pono a hiki ke hoʻokiʻekiʻe iā lākou a hiki i ka wāʻelemakule!