ʻOiai,ʻaʻole ia he mea kupanaha, akā, he mea hōʻailona ia o kahi wahine e hoʻohuli i nā keiki ikaikaʻoi aʻe i loko o ka makapō makahi o ka mea e hana nei. ʻOiai, he mea paʻakikī loa i nā kāne ke hoʻomaopopo i ka mea a ka wahine e makemake ai a me kāna mea e manaʻo ai. No laila, ke makemake nei mākou i nā wāhine e hīmeni i kā mākou mau hoa e pili ana i ko mākou mau hūnā huna, aʻo kēlā me kēia, e hōʻike i nā pane pololei i ka nīnau: "Pehea eʻike ai i ka makemake o nā wāhine? ".
ʻAe, mai'ōleloʻoe i kēlā, akā, hiki iā mākou ke puʻupuʻu pinepine. ʻO ia mau mea inā pili ka makemake o kākou i ka pili pili, maanei, a laila,ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hoʻokaʻawaleʻia nā mea a pau mai ka hoʻomakaʻana a hiki i ka hopena. Eia mākou, ma ka manawa pinepine, a hoʻomaka mākou i kā mākou hoa i ka hewa maʻamau. E'ōlelo ana lākou: "makemake mākou, akā, ua noho mālie mākou. ". No laila, e hoʻokaʻawale i nā mea a pau, a ho'āʻo eʻike i keʻano o kā mākou makemake a me ka makemake mākou e noho mālie.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka hapanui o nā wāhine e aloha i ke aloha a me ke aloha i ka wā o ka wahine a he pono e noʻonoʻo ponoʻia kēia. ʻO ka meaʻoi loa,ʻo ia ke kumu o ko kāua makemake ma mua o ka kāne. No laila, ma ka moekolohe, mahalo mākou i ke ala mua,ʻaʻole ka hana,ʻoiai. Akā,ʻo ka mea pōʻino,ʻaʻole hiki i nā kānaka a pau ke hoʻomaopopo he wahine paha, ma mua o nā mea a pau, makemakeʻo ia e "hoʻomehana",ʻaʻole i ka moe kolohe. No laila, ma keʻano he rula, a me nā kuhihewaʻole. Ke noho nei mākou i ka manawaʻekemu e pili ana i nā'ōlelo maʻalahi a mākou i aloha nui ai. Ma nā'ōlelo'ē aʻe, makemake wau e nānā i kēia mau mea e pono ai nā wāhine e hoʻopau i nā kumu o ka momona, ae haʻi i kā lākou hoa me ka makemake maoli ia a me keʻano o ka'ōlelo a ke aloha "aloha" iā ia. A pono nōʻo ia e hana e like me "nā rula o nā pāʻani".
He wahine mākou, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe mea iʻike i ka holomua o ka hoʻouluʻana i ka pilina, pono mākou eʻoluʻolu i ke aloha, hiki ke komo i nā pua nani, kaʻaina ahiahi a pēlā aku. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻole kekahi o mākou eʻae aku i kahi kanaka me kahi bouquet o roses a me kahi konoʻana iʻelua i kahi haleʻaiʻaina iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi iʻikeʻia i loko o kā mākou mau meaʻikeʻole ma mua o ke kanaka me ka makemake nui a me ka ho'āʻoʻana e hoʻonui i ke kūlana me ka balekale a me ka waina maikaʻi. ʻOiai,ʻoiai, no ka mea,ʻaʻole mākou e like me ke aloha-makemake e like me ka nānā muaʻana. Ma hope o nā mea a pau no mākou ma mua o nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo. Akā, pehea eʻoniʻole ai, akāʻoi aku kaʻoluʻolu i ka wā e lilo ai kou poʻo no kou aloha, a me nā hana i hanaʻia no ka hoʻohanohanoʻana i kou inoa ma kaʻaoʻao o kēlā me kēia māhele o nā mea i'āponoʻia.
ʻOiai, ma waho aʻe o kēia mau hana aloha a me ka maikaʻi, makemake nui nā wāhine. Eʻike wale i ka mea e makemake nui ai ka wahine, e ho'āʻo mākou.
ʻAʻohe hewa o ke kanaka .
He aha kaʻu e'ōlelo ai, ua loli nā kāne paʻau i ko mākou manawa. A pinepine,ʻo kā mākou "no", hūnā i ka "ʻae",ʻike lākou i keʻano maoli. Aʻo ka halaʻole o nā kānaka i kēia lā,ʻo ka'ōlohelohe wale nō ia. Ponoʻoe e kali ma kahi o hoʻokahi mahina, ke kono hou akuʻo ia iāʻoe i kahi lā a iʻole e hele wāwae paha i ka papa. A iʻole, inā he koho, e kaliʻoe i ka honi ma nā lehelehe, a e heleʻoe ma ka pāpālina. He mau hana maʻalahi o ke kanaka hou. No laila, pono iā mākou e "lawe i ka bipi i nā pepeiaohao". ʻOiaʻiʻo, mai kaʻaoʻao kāne,ʻaʻole iʻike mauʻia kēia me ka hopohopo.
ʻO ka wahine, heʻano pilikino .
Ma ke ala, makemake mākou e hoʻokolo i ka wahine, akā, i kēia manawa,ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻomaopopo mau i kēlā mea. Maanei he kumu kēia e halihali ana i nā makemake wahineʻole. A, he mea pono paha eʻae aku i kahi hoa i kēia a iʻole e liʻiliʻi paha ia i ka "ala pololei". E nā kāne, i ko mākou hoʻomanaʻoʻole i ka hele pū me mākou.
ʻO ka honi,ʻo ia keʻano nui o ka hōʻikeʻana i nā manaʻo .
ʻAʻole ia he mea kupanaha, akā makemake wale nā wāhine e honi. ʻO kēia hana no mākou paha, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻololi i ka male pono'ī. No laila, mai ka honiʻana, uaʻoluʻolu mākou e like me ka hoʻokae. Eia kekahi,ʻo ka honi maikaʻi a me ke aloha nui keʻano mua a me keʻano o ka haʻiʻana i nā manaʻo e hiki ai ke pani i nā hua'ōlelo a pau. No laila, ināʻike ke kanaka i nāʻano o ka honiʻana, he mea nui ia iā mākou, aʻo ia, eʻoi aku ka lanakila ma luna o ko mākou naʻau.
Ka hoʻolohe i ke kanaka - ke ki i ka pilina pili .
Ma ka manawa i kohoʻia ai, e ho'āʻo mau ana ka wahine e nānā i "hoʻokahi haneli haneli": hana hana, lole, manikure, lauoho a me ke kapa komo, e like me nā mea a pau e like me nā meaʻono a me ka maikaʻi. Akāʻaʻole hiki i nā mākaʻikaʻi ke mahalo i kēia i piha. A no mākou,ʻo kona mau pepeiao, ka mea e mahalo nui ai,ʻo ia hoʻi ka nui. No laila, hiki i ke kanaka hoʻolohe ke hiki wikiwiki aku i kahi kanakaʻona a waiwai no ka mahalo.
Ke kanaka'ōhumu - keʻenemi o ka moekolohe maʻamau .
Inā ke'ōhumu mau nei kekahi kanaka a hoʻonāukiuki i nā mea hōʻino - eia ke kūpono e hoʻomanaʻo i ka hōʻeha loaʻana o kēlā kanaka i ko kāua makemake i ka wahine. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, makemake mau mākou i ka maluhia a me ka pōmaikaʻi i nā mea a pau. No laila, no ka paleʻana i ka makemake e loaʻa ka moekolohe,ʻo ia paha ke kanaka me kaʻikeʻole. Aʻo ka lōkahi a me kaʻike i nā pilina,ʻo ia ka manawa nui o ka wahine a me ke kaikamahine. ʻO ia wale nō ma muli o kēia, i mea e piha mau ai ko mākou mau makemake i ke aloha, pono mākou e koho i kā lākou mau hoa kāne.
ʻO keʻano kēia e like ai ka papa inoa o ko mākou mau kumuhana, a mākou e ho'āʻo wale nei e ho'āʻo i ke kiʻi o ke kanaka maikaʻi loa. No laila,ʻaʻohe mea paʻakikī keʻike i ka mea e makemake ai ka wahine. ʻO ka mea nui,ʻo ia ke hōʻike i kahi noʻonoʻo a me ka. Aʻoi aku i nā mea a pau,ʻo mākou, nā wāhine, he ponoʻole e hopohopo e haʻi iāʻoe iho no kou mau makemake, a laila e laweʻiʻo mai i kaʻoluʻolu, kaʻike a me ka palekana i kāu pilina. Aʻo ka mea nui, e heluhelu i kēiaʻatikala i kāu mea aloha, e noʻonoʻoʻo ia i kāna mau hewa a me kona mau hemahema.