Eia kekahi,ʻo ke kanaka a me nā mea e like me kēlā a me ka paʻakikī e ho'āʻoʻole e pani. ʻOiai ma keʻano nui, ināʻoe e nānā i nāʻikepili a me ka awelika. A laila,ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua kūkuluʻia kekahi kiʻi, e hoʻoholo ana i kaʻoiaʻiʻo "no ke aha iʻoi aku ai ka maikaʻi o nā wāhine ma mua o nā kāne? ". Ināʻaʻoleʻoe e helu i nā kānaka a pau, a hahai i nāʻikepili, a me nā'ikekino, a me keʻano o nā wāhine. Hiki iā ia ke hōʻea i kēlā mau manaʻo.
I ka wā mua, loaʻa nā kānaka i ka uku, hana paʻa lākou, hana luhi, kūʻai i ka meaʻai. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke kamaʻilio,ʻo ka mea nui loa ke hoʻopauʻana i ka meaʻai a hānai i kaʻohana. I ka manawa o nā wāhine i ka manawa i mālamaʻia e nā kānaka i ko lākou ola a pau, aʻo keʻano o ka nohoʻana a me ka hanaʻana i ka hale, ua mahana a hoʻomehana maikaʻiʻia ka home, ua mākaukau ka meaʻai, a ua maikaʻi nā keiki. no kēia mea, a ua paneʻia i kahi kanaka, akā,ʻaʻole ma kēiaʻano). A i ka manawa lōʻihi, ua loaʻa i kekahi o nā maʻamau kekahi mau kūlohelohe, a ma ke kaʻina o ka hoʻolālā, a me nā palapala hoʻolālā o nā hoʻonaʻauao. ʻO kēia, ma keʻano maʻamau, alakaʻiʻia i kaʻoiaʻiʻo o nā wāhine iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, a uaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā kāne a me ka manaʻoʻole i loko o kā lākou mau kūkāʻana. ʻO ia, hiki i kekahi ke hoʻopau mai kēia mea, he mea paha, he nui nā wāhine e'ōlelo nei, akā, no nā mea lapuʻole paha, iʻikeʻoleʻia. Hōʻike lākou i nā'ōlelo a pau a me nā hōʻailona, nā mea kūponoʻole a nele. He aha nā mea e hiki ke'ōleloʻia i loko o nā hua'ōleloʻelua, lilo lākou i'āpana epic epic in the country. No nā kāne,ʻaʻole lākou eʻae i kēia no ka mea nui ka manawa, a he mea nuiʻole nā mea liʻiliʻi. No laila, i ka hopena, uaʻoluʻolu lākou. ʻOiai e mau ana, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo i kēiaʻoiaʻiʻo.
Ke kanaka, ma hope o ka hanaʻana i kekahiʻano hana a hana i kekahi mea'ē aʻe,ʻo kahi meaʻoihana kūponoʻaʻole ia e koi aku i kahi hoʻolālā. ʻO kāna hana kēia, a ke hana neiʻo ia ia mea hemolele,ʻaʻole e kaenaʻana, aʻaʻole hoʻi e haʻi aku i kekahi mea e pili ana.
ʻO ka wahine,ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hōʻole i kēia. ʻO kaʻaila pōpō, kaʻaila, kaʻaila a me kekahi mea'ē aʻe, e hāʻawi pololei lākou i ka ho'āʻoʻana i kā lākou pokii, e kākau i ka papahele, e like me kekahi, e noi i nā manaʻo a me nā loiloi'ē aʻe, a ma ka manawa like e kūkākūkā ai i keʻano o ka lole i kūʻai ai a me kahi i kūʻai ai. ia, a he aha ia hihia kūikawā maoli i laweʻia mai i kēia wikino maikaʻi,ʻaʻole i kekahi mea'ē aʻe.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo o ka'ōlelo nui a me ka pono no ka weheweheʻana i hiki ke ho'ākāka hou aku i nā wāhine i kēia manawa ua aneane pau ka hapalua o nā nūpepa a pau i ka honua. Ma ka manawa like e blog nei lākou, ma keʻano he kānāwai,ʻaʻohe mea e kūkākūkā ai, e like me nā kūʻai hou hou, e aʻoʻia i ka mea e kūʻai ai a pēlā aku.
No laila, ma hope o ka ho'āʻoʻana i nā kaʻa a pau ma nāʻaoʻao a pau i ka RuNet,ʻikeʻia nā poʻeʻike i nā kahuaʻikepili, mai nā kai o kaʻike, a me nā pūnaeweleʻoihana,ʻoi aku nā kāne ma mua o nā wāhine. Nānā lākou i ke kelepona wikiō, e heluhelu i kaʻikeʻike e pili ana i kaʻikeʻepekema o nā puke a me nā lono ʻOiaiʻo nā wāhine, e like me ka mea i'ōleloʻia ma luna nei, e kamaʻilio mau nei, a he wahi kikooho paha o ka Pūnaewele, ka mea mālama i nā blogs, prescribes a pēlā aku. ʻO ia, ma ka hopena, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻoholo i nā mea hoʻohana nui o kaʻike (ʻikeʻike a me ka wikiō) ma ka Pūnaewele he poʻe'ōpio, a me ka poʻe waena, me ka hapa nui o lākou.
A ma nā pūnaewele me nā kūkākūkā, ka launaʻana a me ka'ōlelo pale wale waleʻana ināʻaʻole i piha i ke kūlana, a laila kokoke i ka hapalua ke kaikamahine. Ma muli o ka "kamaʻilio"ʻana i nā mea i manaʻoʻia he meaʻoi aku ka leʻaleʻa a me ka leʻaleʻaʻoi aʻe ma mua o ka heluheluʻana, kekahiʻano o nāʻike kiko'ī aʻaʻohe mea e like me ka mea'ē aʻe, akāʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā kāne.
Ke nānā nei i kaʻike i kākauʻia i luna nei, hiki iā mākou ke'ōlelo no ke kumu o ka nui o nā wāhine iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o nā kāne.
E hoʻomaka kākou mai kinohi.
ʻO ka mea mua,ʻo ke kumu o nā mea a pau i ka wā kahiko, i ka wā e lawe ai nā kānaka i ka meaʻai a me ka huliʻana, aʻo ia mau manawa i waiho i kekahi mau huakaʻi ma ka mapulama o ke kanaka.
ʻO nā wāhine wale nō ke komo i loko o ka nohoʻana o ka home, a ua maluhia nā mea a pau me lākou, aʻo ka pololei o ka hana i hōʻoleʻole i keʻano o ka makemake, kahi i hoʻomaka ai nā kaikamāhine e kamaʻilio nui,ʻaʻole i kaʻoihana, akā, a me ke kumu nui. No laila, ua hoʻomaka ko lākou naʻau e hōʻike i kēia hana no nā makahiki he nui e hiki mai ana.
ʻO ka lua, he nānā i nā mea a pau a nā wāhine a me nā kāne e hana ai. Inā hana kekahi kanaka, hanaʻo ia me ka nānāʻole i ka loiloiʻana,ʻo ka mea nui ke hana i ka hana i ka manawa pōkole loa, me ka noiʻoleʻana i nā nīnau kūponoʻole. A i loko o kāna olaʻana i kēlā me kēia ola me kēia ala, ua kū pololei nā mea a pau a pololei.
Ke pili i nā wāhine, he paʻakikī nā mea a pau maʻaneʻi. No ka hanaʻana, pono lākou ma kahi kūlana hoʻonaʻauao e noi i kahi mea e manaʻo ai, a e hele e loaʻa kēia koho. Mai kou mau hoaaloha a me nā poʻe'ē aʻe. E hoʻomaka lākou e kaʻana like i nāʻaoʻao a pau me nā holomua holoʻokoʻa a pau, kaʻana like i nā hopena, nā nīnau a pēlā aku,ʻo kēia mau mea e pili ana i ka māhuahua o nā wāhine.
ʻO ke kolu. ʻO keʻano o ka make wai no nāʻike a me nā pono, heʻano'ē loa ia, a ua hōʻoia houʻia e ka hōʻailona o ka'Ipena Lūkini, e like me nā hopena o ka hoʻokolohua a me ka hoʻopiliʻana o ka nui o nāʻike helu helu, ua hōʻoia nā mea noi i ka hopena hope loa e hōʻoia ana i keʻano o nā wāhine, no laila, ke hoʻomanaʻo nei wau ua hoʻohewaʻia nā kānaka no ka mea a lākou eʻimi nei a heluhelu i nāʻike maʻemaʻe me ka'ōleloʻole o kahi kūkākūkā hema, a me ka'ōleloʻole. Uaʻikeʻia nā wāhine i ka hapanui wale nō ma nā kahua a iʻole kahi māhele liʻiliʻi, e hiki ai iā lākou ke kūkākūkā, a iʻole ma nā kahua me nā kumuʻole a pau,ʻo ka kumu nui o ka launaʻana i ka pāpā a me ka hāʻawi aku i nā meaʻai a me nā mea'ē aʻe e hauʻoli ai no ka nāwaliwali.
Ke manaʻolana nei au ua kōkua kēiaʻatikala iāʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i ke kumu o ka wahine iʻoi aku ke aloha aku ma mua o ke kāne. No ka mea, nui nāʻike a me nā pane e pane ai i kēia nīnau.