No ke aha iʻimi ai nā poʻe i ka loaʻaʻana o nā kaikamāhine?

Pehea i mua? Hiki ke hoʻohālikeʻia kekahi kanaka me ka naita pono. ʻAʻole lākou i makaʻu e hōʻike iā lākou iho a loaʻa i ke kaikamahine i makemake lākou. A inā ua hōʻole ke kaikamahine ma mua, ua hoʻonāukiuki hou aku ua kanaka nei iā ia, aʻaʻole loa i hoʻonāwaliwali iā ia mai ka mālama mauʻana i ka wahine o kona puʻuwai.

ʻAʻole i makaʻu nā kānaka e lilo i mau mele. ʻAʻole lākou i noʻonoʻo i kēia mea he meaʻole i ke kanaka maoli. Ua hāʻawi lākou i nā pua, hoʻoholo i nā kaikamahine i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni, e hula. ʻO kahi hele wāwae wale nō a me kahi kamaʻilio maʻamau i ka hale kūʻai, hāʻawi lākou iā lākou i ka hauʻoli nui.

Manaʻo nā kaikamāhine i ka makemake maoli a me ka makemake. ʻAʻole lākou i makaʻu eʻike i nā mea palupalu a nāwaliwali paha. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, aia nō he kanaka ikaika i kahi kokoke e hiki iā ia ke hoʻopakele iā ia mai nā pilikia.

He aha ka mea i hanaʻia i kēlā mau kānaka hiki ke hoʻohuli i nā mauna no ka pono o kā lākou wahine aloha? No ke aha iʻimi ai nā poʻe i ka loaʻaʻana o nā kaikamāhine?

He aha ka hana i kēia manawa? Ua maopopo i nā kāne heʻano kūikawā lākou, a heʻano maoli, heʻano poino,ʻaʻole lākou e manaʻo hou he pono no ka loaʻaʻana o nā kaikamāhine. Inā ua hoʻoholoʻo ia e hele mai i ou lā, a uaʻaeʻoe e hāʻawi iā ia i ka helu kelepona, a lailaʻo ka meaʻoi loa āna e hana ai ma hope aʻe,ʻo ia ke kāhea a ke kono aku i ka hālāwai. A, inā paha ma hope o ka lā mua,ʻaʻoleʻoe eʻike iāʻoe ma kona wahi moe, a laila e nalowale ka uku iāʻoe.

ʻAʻoleʻo ia i noʻonoʻo pono e hoʻonele i kona ikaika no ka hoʻokō iāʻoe. A no ka mea ua maopopoʻo ia ināʻaʻoleʻoe, a laila eʻae like ka mea'ē aʻe i kona mau kūlana aʻaʻole loaʻo ia e hele ma kaʻaoʻao'ākau no ka wahine.

He aha ke kumu o ka ho'ōkiʻana o nā kānaka i ka ho'āʻoʻana e loaʻa nā kaikamāhine,ʻaʻole i loaʻa pono. ʻO ke kumu paha ma mua o ka hānaiʻiaʻana o nā kāne ma kahi'ē aʻe. Uaʻike nā keikikāne mai ke kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi e pono ke huliʻia ke kaikamahine ke makemakeʻoe e nohoʻo ia meʻoe. I ka wā ma mua,ʻo kaʻimiʻana i kahi wahine, ua manaʻoʻiaʻo ia heʻoihana maʻamau,ʻo ia paha, heʻano paha o ke kanaka'ōpio.

Malia paha mākou, nā kaikamāhine a me nā wāhine, ke kuhihewa no kaʻikeʻoleʻana o ke kanaka a mālamaʻole i kahi kaikamahine. ʻAʻole kūpono kūpono, e like me keʻano he kumu. I kēia manawa ua hoʻopoinaʻia ka waiwai i mahaloʻia e ko mākou mau kūpuna. I kēia manawa, ua like ke kāne me ka wahine i ko lāua mau pono.

Aia iā mākou ka hewa, aʻoi ikaika loa i nā makahiki i hala koke aku nei i lilo i mau kaikamāhine. No mākou,ʻaʻohe pilikia hou, e hele i ke kanaka āu e makemake ai, e noi iā ia i ka helu kelepona, e kono iā ia i kahi lā. ʻAʻole mākou i nāwaliwali, ua mākaukau mākou a ua uku mākou i kaʻaina awakea ma ka haleʻaina inā makemake loa ke kanaka me kona naʻau a pau. Hoʻouna mākou iā ia i nā leka sms, kahi a mākou e wehewehe ai i ko mākou mau manaʻo a me ke kai hōʻoluʻolu. E lawe i kou lima i ka lā e hiki mai ana. Hoʻolālā aʻike mākou i kā mākou mau moeʻuhane a me kā mākou mau moeʻuhane

I kēia manawa,ʻaʻoleʻoe e kahaha no kēia mauʻohana, kahi i laweʻia mai ai ke kālā e kekahi wahine, aʻo ke kāne e hana ana he wahine wahine. Aʻo ka nui o nā kānaka e māʻona i kēiaʻano o nā mea. A he mea paʻakikīʻole eʻaelike me lākou,ʻaʻole pono nā kānaka e hoʻopilikia iā lākou me ka lōʻihi lōʻihi. ʻO ke kūpono, inā pahaʻo ia e kūkulu i kaʻohana, hiki ke hoʻokuʻuʻia nā'ōpū o ke aupuni i nā poʻohiwi o kahi wahine.

Hāʻawi mākou i nā kāne i kēiaʻano, no laila e hiki iā mākou ke hoʻoponopono i ko mākou mana. ʻO kahi wale nō ināʻaʻole i kūpono kekahi mea iāʻoe. E hoʻololi i kāu hoʻomaka. ʻO ke kāne e hana me ka wahine e like me ka wahine.

ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, hiki iaʻu ke'ōlelo wiwoʻole i ka poʻe e like me ia i ko mākou wā,ʻo ia ma muli o ka lōʻihi lōʻihi o ke kaikamahine. Aia nō kēlā mau kānaka i mākaukau e lilo i pale a me ke kākoʻo no kā lākou mea aloha.

E nā kaikamāhine, ināʻaʻoleʻoe e makemake i ka lā hoʻokahi e hopu i kou poʻo me nā manaʻo: "no ke aha lā iʻimi ai nā kāne e kiʻi i nā kaikamāhine?". I ka hoʻomaka mua o ka pilina, maiʻae i ka mea nui no ka mea ma hope akuʻaʻole e kāhea aʻeha. E hoʻomanaʻo mauʻoe he kaikamahine palupaluʻoe e kūpono ana i ke aloha, nānā a mālama. Aʻo kaʻoi aku o ia mea, pono i ke kanaka ke moeʻuhane e loaʻa iā ia.