Inā hoʻokahi keiki i loko o kaʻohana he hauʻoli e hikiʻole ke haʻiʻia, a ināʻelua heʻoliʻoli nui! Akā ua pālua ka pilikia. Akā, ua hiki kēia i ka hāʻawiʻana i nā keiki i ke kula. Manaʻo pinepine nā mākuaʻaʻole lākou iʻike i kahi e hoʻoponopono ai i ka pilikia: inā paha e loiloi nā māhoe aʻaʻole paha? Pono pono e hoʻokaʻawale i nā keiki i nā makahiki kula?
I kēia mau lā, ua manaʻo nā meaʻepekema he hikiʻole ke hoʻokaʻawale i nā māhoe. He meaʻeha ia i ka naʻau o nā keiki. Akā, i kēia manawa, ua lōʻihi kaʻikeʻepekema, aʻo kēia keʻano o ka hoʻomanaʻana o nā māhoe ma kahi mua. A ma hope o ka ho'ākākaʻana o ka psychotype hiki ke hoʻoponopono i ka hihia o ka kaʻawaleʻana o nā keiki.
Hoʻomahele nā haumāna i nā māhoe a me nā māhoe iʻekolu mau lā:
"Hoʻohui 'ia." He mea paʻakikī loa kēia mau keiki e aʻo wale ai. Ke ho'āʻo nei lākou e kope kekahi i kekahi ma nā mea a pau loa. ʻO ka wā ma mua,ʻo ke alakaʻi kekahi, aʻo kekahi hoʻi ke kauā.
"Nānā i nā meaʻokoʻa." Hoʻomaʻamaʻa mau kēia mau keiki i ka hakakā me kekahi. Me keʻano likeʻole o nā manaʻo a me nā pono, eʻimi mau ana lākou i kumu no ka hakakā. Makemake nā mea a pau ma ke kāne i alakaʻi.
"He kūpono nā mea hilinaʻi." ʻO kēiaʻano ke kumu gula. Hōʻike maikaʻi nā keiki. ʻO ka pilikino o kēlā me kēia me kahiʻoi nui i kēia wahi.
E nānā pono i kāu mau keiki a ho'āʻo e hoʻoholo i ko lākou naʻau. A e hoʻoholo i ka manaʻo kūpono, e hoʻokaʻawale i kāu mau keiki mai ke kula aiʻoleʻole. Akā, e hoʻomanaʻo i nā manaʻo no kēlā me kēiaʻano.
Hoʻonohonoho nā kauka hoʻonaʻauao:
ʻO nā māhoe "pili loa" i ka wā e kaʻawale ai ma ke kula haʻahaʻa e loaʻa i ka pilikia nui, no laila,ʻaʻole ia e'ōleloʻia e hoʻokaʻawale iā lākou. Hoʻololi ka hoʻowalewale i kā lākou aʻoʻana i kahi ala maikaʻiʻole. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke komo i ka papa hoʻonaʻauao no ka wā lōʻihi. He mea paʻakikī ka loaʻaʻana o nā hoaaloha,ʻaʻole lākou eʻae e kamaʻilio me nā kumu a me nā hoa papa. Akā, pono e aʻo ke kumu a me nā mākua i ke kamailioʻana o nā keiki me nā haumāna'ē aʻe, aʻaʻole lākou e kaʻawale i ko lākou'ōpuni.
Hiki maikaʻi ke loaʻa nā keiki i kahi pōʻai. He mea likeʻole nā kiko. Akā i ke kula kiʻekiʻe, hiki i nā māhoe ke aʻo ma nā papa like. Hiki i nā'ōpio ke kaʻawale me ka mālie.
"Pono e māheleheleʻia nā" kanaka wehewehe "i loko o ke kula i nā papa. ʻO lākou a me ka hale uaʻano luhi loa i ka kamaʻilio. Ma ka lumi papa, e ho'āʻo nā mea a pau i waho. Inā holomua kekahi i ke kula, a laila eʻoki wale nā papa i nā haʻawina! Akā, e ulu ana nā keiki, akā, e hala kēia pili.
"Ma muli o ka hoʻokele" no nā māhoeʻaʻole e loaʻa i ka hoʻokaʻawaleʻana mai nā hoahānau. He mea nui iā lākou ma ka papa kula e loiloiʻia i kēlā me kēia kanaka, huli lākou i kēlā me kēia inoa. ʻAʻole lākou e hoʻoili i ko lākou kūpono a iʻole nā hemahema i kekahi.
Hana mākou i ka hoʻoholo
Ma mua o ka hoʻoholo hopeʻana, e kamaʻilio me nā keiki, e nīnau i ko lākou manaʻo. A,ʻoiaʻiʻo, e nīnau i kekahi loilokino psychologist maikaʻi. ʻO ka hapanui o nā poʻe akamaiʻaʻole lākou e'ōlelo e hoʻokaʻawale i nā keiki i ka hoʻomakaʻana o ke aʻo. He nui nā haumāna mai nā māhoeʻelua, e aʻo pū, e hōʻike pono i ko lākou mau mana a me ko lākou manaʻo noʻonoʻo.
ʻO ka hopena e hakakā wale nā keiki ma ke kula, aʻaʻole e hakakā nā hale. Pono nā mākua e kūkākūkā pū mai ke kumu kula, e kamaʻilio me ia. Hiki hiki i nā hoa papa ke hanaʻino i kēia wahi, e kū'ē iā lākou. Aʻo ka hoʻololiʻana o kekahi i kahi papa'ē aʻeʻaʻole e hoʻoholo i kekahi mea.
Pono pono ke noi i ke kumu a me ka loilokino e hana me ka hui,ʻo ka hopena,ʻo ia ke kumu, he maikaʻi. E loli ka pilina ma waena o nā māhoe a me ka papa no ka maikaʻi. Akā ma kahi paʻakikī e makemakeʻia e hoʻohuli i nā keiki i kahi kula hoʻonaʻauao'ē aʻe.
I kekahi manawa i ka wā e kaʻawale ai, hoʻomaka nā keiki e hoʻokaumaha, maʻi, loaʻa iā lākou nā moeʻuhane weliweli, ua lilo lākou i mea makaʻu. He mea paʻakikī iā lākou ke hoʻomanawanui i ke kaʻawaleʻana mai ko lākou hoa noho. Pono nā haumāna e heluhelu ma mua o ka pukaʻana.
Ināʻaʻoleʻoe e maopopo pono e hoʻokaʻawaleʻia nā keiki ma ke kula, a laila ma ka papa mua, e hoʻouna iā lākou i kahi hoʻokahi. Hoʻokaʻawale iā lākou i ke kula waena a me ke kula kiʻekiʻe. E hele i kahi kula, e hana like me nā kumu a me nā mea loio. E pōmaikaʻi ana nā keiki. E lilo lākou i mea pono a kūʻokoʻa i ke ola, eʻike i kā lākou inoa.
Nā māhoe kaʻawale mai ke kula kiʻekiʻe?
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