ʻO koʻu hoaaloha
Ma ka'ōlelo e pili ana i kēiaʻano hoʻohālike,ʻike kokeʻiaʻo ka makuahine e hele pū me kāna kaikamahine a keiki paha i nā mea hoʻolauleʻa, e kūkākūkā i nā kumuhana likeʻole, noho mau i ka'ōpiopio i loko o kaʻauʻau a manaʻo pinepineʻo ia heʻumikumamālima mau makahiki. Ke mahalo nuiʻia kēiaʻano hoʻohālike e ka poʻe'ōpio. ʻO Imnravitsya e hiki ai i ka makua ke hoʻomaopopo a me nā hoa. Eia hou, aia i mua o nā hoaaloha e hoʻonani mau ana nā keiki i kēlā mau makuahine. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he mea mālie ka pāpāpāʻia o kekahi no ka meaʻaʻole i maopopo ka makuahine, akā uaʻaeʻia nā mea he nui. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka hiʻohiʻona hana o kahi hoaaloha wahine he mamao loa ia e like me ka mea iʻikeʻia.
Inā hana maoliʻo koʻu makuahine e like me ka 100% hoa, a laila ua nui kēia i nā hopena maikaʻi loa. Ke hoʻomaka nei ke keiki eʻike i kēia mea e like me ia i kēia manawa, no laila, uaʻaeʻia nā kauoha a me nā manaʻo a pau i nāʻano likeʻole,ʻo ia hoʻi,ʻaʻole loa eʻaeʻia. Ma nā keiki ma ke poʻo, aia kahi kiʻi o ka noʻonoʻo-hoaaloha aʻaʻole loa i kū i ka kiʻi o ka mum. Pono kēlā makuahine eʻae i nā mea a pau. Inā maikaʻi ke keiki i ka wā maʻamau, akā inā makemake ka mea'ōpiopio e hana i kekahi mea iʻikeʻoleʻia, a laila, me ka mom-friend,ʻaʻole loa ia e maopopo. No laila, i ke kohoʻana i kēiaʻano hoʻohālike o kāu hana,ʻoʻoe, ma mua o ka mea a pau, e hōʻokoʻa ia mea mai kāuʻike. ʻO keʻano o kahi hoaaloha heʻanoʻokoʻa wale nō ia ma mua o nā mea e makemake ana nā keiki eʻike. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka hoaaloha he kanakaʻike,ʻaʻohe makaʻu e haʻi i kaʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki iā ia ke paʻi, a me kekahi mea e pāpā. I ka wā'ōpiopio,ʻaʻole nā keiki a pau iʻike i nā hoaaloha i kēlāʻano. No laila, inā kohoʻoe i kekahiʻano hoʻohālike o ka hana, ka makuahine-makua, a laila pono ke hilinaʻiʻia ma ka hilinaʻi. ʻO keʻano,ʻaʻole ia he ma keʻano he pono iāʻoe keʻae i nā mea a pau i ke keiki a pēlā aku. Ponoʻoe e hoʻomaopopo pono a kūkā i kona mau pilikia, me ka hopohopoʻaʻole e kāhea i nā mea a pau ma kou inoa iho. He nui nā mamytesnyayutsya e kamaʻilio me nā keiki ma ke akea, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ana i ka mea liʻiliʻi lākou. Akā,ʻoi aku kaʻike o nā'ōpio i kēia mau makahiki. Loaʻa iā lākou ke komo āpau i kaʻike ma keʻano o ka pūnaewele. Akāʻo ka pilikia o kaʻaneʻane hiki i nā keiki a pau keʻike i keʻano e kānana i kaʻike i loaʻa. Nolaila, aole i lawa ko lakou ike, a ua lilo ka manao o kekahi mau mea i mea ole. Inā makemakeʻoe e lilo i makuahine, a laila, e kūkākūkā maikaʻi me ke keiki i kekahi mea e pono ai iā ia i kēlā makahiki.ʻO ka mea mua, heʻano kēia, ke kamaʻilio nei e pili ana i ka wahine. ʻAʻole hiki i kahi hoaaloha ke'ōlelo: "E uluʻoe - a laila eʻikeʻoe i nā mea a pau." Ponoʻo ia e noho i lalo me ka mālie, me kaʻoleʻo kāna kamaʻilioʻana me kāna keiki kāne a kaikamahine paha i nā mea e pono aiʻo ia. E hoʻomaopopo, inā loaʻa mai kēiaʻike iāʻoe,ʻaʻole ia eʻikeʻia ma kahi ala kekee. He nui nā mākua i makemakeʻole e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēia mea, iʻole e hōʻino i nā keiki. Akāʻo ia ka mea e pōʻino ai lākou, no ka mea, uaʻike nā keiki i nā mea a pau, akā,ʻaʻole ma keʻano i makemake lākou.
He aha hou kāu e'ōlelo ai no kāu mom-friend? ʻAe, hiki iā ia ke'ōpio ma ka puʻuwai, e kamaʻilio me kona mau hoaaloha a pēlā aku. Akāʻaʻoleʻoe e nānā i kēia mau mea a pau, a me kāu keiki, a me nā keiki'ē aʻe e hoʻomanaʻo i kou makuahine. No laila, mai iho i lalo e hoʻomaopopo i kaʻike, eʻae iāʻoe iho e kāheaʻia ma ka inoa a pēlā wale nō.ʻElua mau manawa i koe i ka wā kahiko. Ponoʻo Adetas e mahalo i nāʻelemakule, no laila, mai hoʻoulu i ka manaʻo o ka hoʻohālikelikeʻana ma waena o ka poʻe'ōpio. Ma waho aʻe,ʻoiaiʻoʻoe he hoa uila, ponoʻoe e noho i kahi makuahine akamai. Aia kekahi mau makuahine i koho i keʻano o ka hana a kekahi hoaaloha a hana e like me kā lākou mau hoaaloha o ko lākou mau makahiki. ʻO ia, ma kahi o ke kūkākūkā maikaʻiʻana i nā pilikia, ka hāʻawiʻana i kaʻaha kūkāʻana, a me ka noʻonoʻo e hoʻoholo i ke kūlana,ʻo ia mau mākua wale nō e hoʻomaka i ka hāʻule i loko o nā hakakā, hoʻohiki, makaʻu, a pēlā aku. Akā, i ka hopena, hiki paha i ke keiki keʻoi aku i mua o kou akamai. A i ka makahiki iwakāluakūmālima, e haʻaleleʻo ia i kāu'ōlelo aʻo, no ka mea, eʻikeʻo ia e pane anaʻoe i ka pilikia e like me ka hapalua o kona mau hoaaloha. ʻO ia, mai oʻoe aku,ʻaʻole loa e loaʻa i kekahi mea kūpono a kūpono. ʻAʻole pono ke kūkuluʻia ka pilina me ka pēpē ma luna o ka pāpā, akā ma ka'ōlelo aʻo. No laila,ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o kēia mamana o ka hana ma mua o ka hana a mom-mom, no ka mea, maaneiʻoe e hōʻoia i ke keiki e hoʻokō i kāu mau makemake, akāʻaʻole naʻeʻo ia e hoʻomaʻemaʻe, akā i ka maopopo.
ʻO Mama Mama
Ma ka'ōpiopio'ōpiopio, uaʻano'āhewaʻia keʻano o ka hana mama-mom. Ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei nā keiki a pau i kēlā mau makuahine i pāpā i nā mea a pau,ʻaʻole maopopo i kekahi mea, mālama iā lākou e like me nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi, a pēlā aku. ʻO ka mea nui, nui ka nui o nā wāhine makua i hana like i keʻano like. Akāʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo, momona ka mom-mom. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka hana a ka makuahine a me ka makuahineʻaʻole he mea'ē loa.ʻO ia wale nō,ʻo ka heleʻana o ka mom-girlfriend i ka poʻe'ōpio, no ka mea maopopo loa i nā meaʻono a me nā hoihoi o nā keiki. ʻAʻoleʻike nā mākua-makua, akā e ho'āʻo e lawe. ʻAʻole lākou e holo a puni ka mea inu a inu i ka pia me nā hoaaloha o ke pēpē, akā maopopo pono ka mom-momʻaʻoleʻoe e ho'ōla i nā keiki mai kēia. ʻO ka mea nui,ʻo ia eʻike pono i kāu keiki aiʻole kāu kaikamahine i ke ana a me ka hoʻomaopopoʻana i ka halaʻana o ka palena a me ka hewa. I kekahi hihia,ʻo ka hana a kēlā me kēia makua, me ka nānāʻole i keʻano o kāna maʻamau āna i koho ai, e pono ia i kaʻike a me kaʻike. Aʻo kēia ka mea e mahalo ai i ke keiki o ka pilikino a me kaʻaeʻanaʻaʻole iʻuʻuku kāu pēpē a ke kūkulu neiʻo ia i kona ola, a ponoʻoe e kōkua iā ia,ʻaʻole e luku. He wahine akamai loa ka makuahine. Pono ka hana e like me keʻano o ka pilikia paʻakikī,ʻike ke keiki inā pahaʻaʻole maopopo i koʻu makuahine koʻu manaʻo, akā eʻae maiʻo ia a ho'āʻo e kōkua. Inā kohoʻoe i keʻano o ka mama-mamā o kāu hana, pono iāʻoe eʻike mau i kāu mau'ōlelo aʻo a me ka pāpāʻana e hoʻopōmaikaʻi i kāu keiki,ʻaʻole e lilo i kumu no kou manaʻo noʻonoʻo aʻaʻole e hōʻino i konaʻano.