Wahi a nā mea e pili ana i nā haumāna psychologists, keʻano likeʻole ka makaʻuʻana i ka wahine ma waena o nā wāhine. A oi aku mamua o lakou ma ka helu ana. No ka nui o nā kānaka i hanaʻole,ʻo ka 80% o lākou e hopohopo nei i kekahi mea ma ka moekolohe. ʻAʻohe kumu i kākau maikaʻiʻia, macho, Kazan, a me Lovelace.
ʻO ka mea weliweli loa
ʻO kahi noiʻi nui loa o nā kāne i piha i ka makahiki 18 a hiki i ka 50 mau makahiki iʻikeʻia heʻelima mau hopohopo nuiʻoihana. Hoʻohau mākou iā lākou i ka ihoʻana i lalo.
Uaʻikeʻia ka nui o nā kānaka a pau e hopohopo nei i kekahi hoa hana maʻamau i hāpaiʻoleʻia (84% o nā mea pane). ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, uaʻike kēia mauʻike i nā kauka a me nā wāhine. Hōʻike kēia i nā kānakaʻaʻole eʻike hou i ka hoʻopauʻana o ka'ōpū ma keʻano he kumuhana. Uaʻike lākou he mea nui ka hōʻinoʻana. Akā, no ka mea,ʻaʻole lākou i mākaukau loa e lilo i mau mākua, ke hopohopo nei lākou i kēia. Ma ke ala, ka hopohopo makaʻuʻole i ka wahine hānau male kekahi o nā kumu maʻamau o ka pilikia o nā kāne.
ʻO ka lua o ka manawa ma luna o ka hopohopo hopohopo o nā kāne ua nui nā mea i kahaha. He 70% o ka hapa nui o nā kānaka ke makaʻu i nā wāhine puʻupaʻa! Ke hoʻololi nei ua hala ka manawa i ka wā o ka noho pono o ka wahine he kumu kūʻokoʻa no ka mare ponoʻana. Aʻo nā wahine puʻupaʻa'ōpiopio,ʻaʻole lākou e lilo i ka hope o nā moeʻuhane. ʻO kēlā hewa (hopohopo i ke koko, nā kumuhana physiological a me nā kumuhana),ʻaʻole maopopo. No ka hoʻohālikelike -ʻo 38% wale nō o nā wahineʻaʻole makemake e lilo i mua i nā keikikāne puʻupaʻa.
68% o nā kānaka ke hopohopo nei i ka hoʻohālikeʻana iā lākou me nā kāne'ē aʻe i kahi moe kolohe. ʻAʻole pēlā ka nui o ka hanohano o kānaka. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻole nui ka nui, akā, ka hiki ke hoʻohana i kēia. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, e ulu ana nā makaʻu ma nāʻike pilina, nā hiʻohiʻona o nā manaʻo, ka moekoloheʻana, ka hiki ke hoʻokolohua -ʻo ia hoʻi, ma ka mokulele o ka pilina o nā hoa. A i ka manawa i hoʻomaka ai ke kanaka e hakakā i ka manawa i'ōlelo mai ai ka hoa'ōlelo, uaʻoi aku keʻano aloha, aloha, mahalo, a pēlā aku ka mea i aloha mua aku. ʻOiai,ʻaʻole loa ka wahine akamai e hoʻohālike i nā pono o kāna mau hoa. Akā, makaʻuʻole nā kānaka i nā'ōlelo wale a nā wāhine, akāʻo kā lākou manaʻo.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo o ka nui o nā kāne e hoʻomanaʻo ponoʻole e hōʻoiaʻia e nā helu helu. He 46% wale nō o nā kānaka e hopohopoʻaʻole e hōʻona i kā lākou hoa. ʻO ia hoʻi,ʻoi aku ka hapalua o nā kānaka i ka mālama i ko lākou makemake pono'ī. ʻAʻole ia he mea kupanaha ma kēiaʻano, nuiʻole nā wāhine i kaʻikeʻole. E manaʻo mākou he 46% nā mea i kuko i kāu kanaka, aʻaʻole e pili iāʻoe kāu mau hana pilikino.
ʻO kēlā me kēia kanakaʻekolu ka hopohopo no nā hoʻokolohua. Hiki i kekahi o nā wāhine ke hōʻeha i kēia leka, akāʻo ka hapanui wale nō ka hauʻoli -ʻaʻole ia e kau i hope o nā wāwae.
ʻO nā kumu'ē aʻe o nā makaʻu o nā kānaka
I waena o kekahi mau hopohopo kāne kāne,ʻike mākou i ka makaʻu no ko lākou kūʻokoʻa. ʻO kekahi wahine, ua loaʻa iā ia kahi kanaka, e kali ana iā ia i ka nui o ka nānā, mālama, mālama. Akā, i ka manawa hoʻokahi, e like me ka waiwai o kekahi. Me nā hoaaloha, mai inuʻoe i ka beer, mai noho lōʻihi, e kamaʻilio pū me aʻu, e hele hoʻokahi wale mākou. A i ka wā e hiki ai i nā kamaliʻi, nui nā kānaka e "hoʻokuʻu". ʻO ia hoʻi,ʻaʻole kēlā kanaka kēia kanaka e makemake e mōhai i kona kūʻokoʻa no ka moekoloheʻana.
Eia kekahi,ʻike nā kānaka i ka maikaʻi o nā maka o nā wāhine. Eia kekahi,ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o nā kānaka maikaʻi i kēia manawa ma mua o ka paleʻana i nā mea haʻahaʻa me ka beer tummies. Aʻoi aku ka ikaika o ka makaʻu i ka nānāʻana i ka wahine,ʻo ka nui o ka nānāʻana o nā kānaka iā lākou iho (koe naʻe,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e pili ana i ka narcissism).
Makemake nā'ōpio i ka hopohopo i ka wahine ma muli o ka hopohopo i ka hōʻikeʻana i ko lākou kūlanaʻole. Akā no nā kaikamāhine he nui,ʻo kēia "hewa" ma keʻano he mea nui loa ia. ʻOi aku ka paʻakikī o ke kūlana inā hopohopo ka hopohopo no ka hoʻouka muaʻana. He mea nui i ka hoʻomaopopo a hāʻawi i ka kōkua i kaʻike aloha mai ka hoa. Ināʻole, e ulu ana ka makaʻu i ka hana kolohe.