He aha kaʻu e hāʻawi ai i koʻu makuahōnōwai no koʻu lā hānau? Ma kekahi hihia,ʻo ka kohoʻana o kahi makana e lawe mai i kekahi mau pilikia. Inā he "mea gula" kou makuahōnōwai wahineʻaʻole i aʻo mau i ke ola a pēlā aku, a inā pahaʻo ia he hakakā maoli e mālama nei i nā meaʻano'ē aʻe, he paʻakikī ke koho i kahi makana no kona makuahōnōwai wahine. ʻOiai inā eʻikeʻoe i nāʻaoʻaoʻino a maikaʻi a pau, he mea paʻakikī loa kaʻoluʻolu i ka makana maikaʻi. I mea e kōkua ai i nā kānaka e koho i ka makana maikaʻi loa no ka makuahōnōwai wahine, a laila e hoʻomaopopoʻo ia a hiki paha ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ka manaʻo i ka wahine a kāna kaikamahine aloha, a ua kākauʻia kēiaʻatikala.
He manaʻo nui ka manaʻo o nāʻelele o ka hapalua nani o nā kānaka ke hāʻawiʻole i nā makana, ma kekahiʻano a iʻole e pili ana i ka mālama hale. Manaʻo kekahi poʻe he hōʻailona maʻamau kēia kahi o ka wahine ma ka lumi kuke. Akā, eia kekahi mau mea'ē aʻe,ʻo ka hapanui nui o ka wahine maikaʻi ke noho nui i ka manawa ma ka lumi kuke a ke komo nei i loko o ka hale mālama, no laila e kōkuaʻia lākou e kēlā mau makana e hoʻomāmā a hoʻomālamalama i ko lākou hopena. E noʻonoʻo paha inā he microwaena kou makuahōnōwai wahine, he mea mīkini meaʻeleʻele a meaʻai paha i nā hana he nui i ka wā'ōpiopio. ʻOiai,ʻaʻole i loaʻa iā ia nā mea like, aʻaʻole paha e hoʻohanaʻiaʻo ia i nā mea i ka wāʻelemakule, e makemake ana e hana i nā mea a pau i ka wā kahiko.
I kēia mau lā, kokoke i nā hale kūʻai a pau i nāʻano pono kūpono no ke kōkuaʻana i ka hana hale, ka hale a me nā lako kīhini aʻoi aku. No ka mea,ʻaʻole loaʻa ka manawa e kūʻai ai nā wāhine i ke kūʻaiʻana, he mea aloha no nā mea, kekahi mea'ē aʻe. ʻAʻole ponoʻoe e noʻonoʻo nui e pili ana i ka mea e hāʻawi aku i kou makuahōnōwai no kou lā hānau. Ua lawa ka hōʻiliʻili a hele i ka hale kūʻai, a nui nā mea e koho ai.
No laila, ua hele pololei mākou i ka nānāʻana i nā koho kūpono no ka mea e hāʻawi ai i ka makuahine no ka lā hānau.
ʻO ka mea mua loa ka mea kuke i ka lumi kuke, e hōʻoluʻolu nui ka makuahōnōwai wahine, no ka mea, ua loaʻa mai iā ia he makana na ka hūnōna punahele he meaʻai meaʻai, umu umauma wela, ka meaʻai, ka mea huihuʻi, ka mea'ūlapa, juicer, aerogrill a me nā pono'ē aʻe i loko o ka lumi kuke. ʻOiai inā i ka hoʻomaka muaʻana e hoʻohana hou i nāʻenehana hou, eʻaneʻane e mālama iā lākou ae hāʻawi aku i ko lākou mau kōkuaʻaʻole hiki.
Eia kekahi, e pupule ka makuahōnōwai e pili ana i nā ipu aniani a me nā lapaʻau i hoʻopaʻaʻia no nāʻano ulu me nā mea huaʻole, nā mīkini pepa, ka manawa kīkī aiʻole kaapot.
Hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻoluʻolu i kou makuahōnōwai wahine me kahi kīʻaha o nā kuluhi kuke, kahi kapa pale nani, nā mīkini lima, a me ka lole pale hipa.
ʻO kahi makana maikaʻi loa he cafe maker, kahi pahu nani, kahi kīʻaha waina, he huaʻai, he papaʻaina a me nā mea like'ē aʻe e hiki ai ke hoʻonani i ka lumi kuke a hāʻawi i nā pono hou aku.
No ka hoʻopauʻana i kēia papa inoa, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻohana i nā pāʻokoʻa likeʻole, nā kēmu kapu, nā kukui kūlana maikaʻi, nā pehu, ka pahu pahu, ka meaʻai meaʻai paha a me nā'āpana puʻupuʻu no kaʻaila.
Mai poina i ka bouquet o nā pua a me ka manaʻo o ka hauʻoli ma kou mau maka ke hāʻawiʻoe i kāu makana. ʻO ka hue waina a ka kapana waina, ka ihu ma ka pāpālina aʻo ka makemakeʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka pololei e hoʻopau i ka manaʻo nui. ʻO kou "makuahine lua" e hauʻoliʻo ia i kāna hūnōna kāne likeʻole.
Hiki iāʻoe keʻike,ʻaʻole i maʻalahi ka nīnau, i ka mea e hāʻawi aku i kou makuahōnōwai no kou lā hānau.