He aha ka manaʻo o ka'īlio i ka moeʻuhane?
ʻOiaʻiʻo, uaʻikeʻoe he'īlio ka'īlio o ke kūpaʻa a me ka lawelawe kūpaʻa. Hoʻokahi nō ia i nā puppii liʻiliʻi, aʻo ka mea i hānau muaʻia ma kēia hānauʻana. ʻO nā mea unuhi i nā moeʻuhane, hiki iā lākou keʻike i ka inoa o kahi'īlio me ka hoaalohaʻoiaʻiʻo, ka nele i ka kōkua a me kaʻoiaʻiʻo. Akā, he mea pono ke noʻonoʻo, no ka mea, heʻanoʻokoʻa loa ka weheweheʻana o nā kāne a me nā wahine, no laila, e noʻonoʻo mua kākou i kēiaʻano moeʻuhane o ka hapalua nani o ke kanaka.
No ke kaikamahine i ka hao, pāʻani, loaʻa a hānai paha i ka'īlio a laila heʻaneʻane maikaʻi a me ka hoʻokōʻana i ke kumumanaʻo. E lanakilaʻo Snovidice i nā hana,ʻo ia hoʻi ka mea kūpaʻa a hopohopo. ʻO ka'ōlelo hoʻohanohano e hoʻokumu i ka pilina me ia,ʻo ka launaʻana me nā mea'ē aʻe,ʻaʻole wale ka hauʻoli a me kaʻoluʻolu, akā, e lawe mai hoʻi i nā pono maikaʻi. Inā i ka moeʻuhane ua loaʻa i ke kaikamahine kekahi pipi liʻiliʻi, a laila ua mālama nā puke moe i kēia hōʻailona e like me he kanaka lokomaikaʻi a mālama i kahi kokoke iā ia, e mākaukau mau eʻike i kona ola a me ka ola hauʻoli.
ʻO ka mālamaʻana i kahi pēpē maʻi heʻano hikiʻole ke noiʻia aku ka mea moemoea no ke kōkua. ʻIke loa, he kanaka maoli a he hoaaloha.
ʻO kahi'īlio i loko o ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine i mareʻia e hiki iā ia ke hōʻike ma ka ola maoli eʻoi aku ka mālama nui a mālama i kāna mau keiki,ʻo kāna kāne, aʻo konaʻohana paha. Hiki ke noʻonoʻoʻia kēia hōʻailona ma keʻano he mea hoʻopukaʻole i ka noʻonoʻo e pili ana iāʻoe iho, a iʻole e pili wale anaʻoe i kahi ola o ke kanaka.
Inā moe kekahi kanaka i ka'īlio, a laila, e unuhi nā moʻolelo moe i kēia moʻolelo, e like me ka kōkua mua o nā hoaaloha, kōkua kōkua kālā. Ma muli paha o ka hana maikaʻi i ka hana aʻoihana paha, e loaʻa iāʻoe kahi uku kālā. Inā hikiʻoe i kahi kōkua, mai hōʻoleʻoe, no ka mea, e hoʻi mai ana ka maikaʻi iāʻoe he haneri haneli. Eia hou, ma hope o kēia moeʻuhane, e hālāwai koke anaʻoe me kāu mau hoaaloha.
No ke aha kākou i moeʻuhane ai i nā puppoki make?
ʻO nā mea a pau, me keʻokoʻa wale nō, nā mea unuhi'ōlelo e nānā nei i kēia kiʻi me he hōʻailona maikaʻiʻole. I kekahi mau puke moolelo, hiki i kekahi keʻike i ka ho'ākākaʻana e like me ka maʻiʻino mua loa,ʻo kekahi e'ōlelo e pili ana i ka make (ʻaʻole i ka make) a iʻole ka kumakaiaʻana o nā hoaaloha a me nā hoahānau, e hiki i kekahi mau unuhi'ōlelo keʻike i ka ho'ākākaʻana e hōʻike ana i kaʻilihune a iʻole ka hāʻuleʻana o kahiʻoihana pōmaikaʻi. I kekahi manawa, i kekahi manawa ma hope o ka moeʻuhane, e like auaneʻiʻoe me he mea kūponoʻole ke ola i ko lākou ola. Hiki paha iāʻoe eʻeli iho iāʻoe iho, eʻimi ana i keʻano o ke ola, a, i ka hope, hiki i ka hopena. ʻO ka pepehi iāʻoe iho me kahi holoholona liʻiliʻi,ʻo ia nō ka kumakaia ma kāuʻaoʻao. Mai iāʻoe e huli aʻe ke kanaka kokoke, a laila, e kaumaha loaʻoe.
E like me kouʻikeʻana, eʻike ana i kahi'īlio i loko o ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona kaha loa ia, e pili ana i ka hana, hiki iā ia ke hoʻololi i ko mākou ala e hiki mai ana. Manaʻolana mākou i loko o kēiaʻatikala ua loaʻa iāʻoe wale nō nā mea hoʻohālike nani!