He aha inā inā he kino maʻamau kāu kāne?

Aia kekahi poʻe i loko o ko kākou ola e hōʻikeʻole ana i kekahi manaʻo. Ua kapaʻia kēia mau mea he maʻalili maʻamau. ʻAʻoleʻike nā kāne e like me nā koa i keʻano e haʻi pololei ai i ko lākou mau manaʻo a me nā manaʻo. Ua anu lākou e like me ka hau hau. ʻAʻoleʻoe iʻike i ka hoʻoheheʻeʻana i ko lākou naʻau iʻole lākou e ola. Hōʻike lākou i ko lākouʻano anuenue i kēiaʻano:ʻaʻole lākou e kamaʻilio wale i ko lākou manaʻo,ʻaʻohe o lākouʻano palupalu a'ōlelo paha ma kā lākouʻaoʻao.

ʻAʻole lākou eʻae i ke aloha, a inā'ōlelo lākou i hoʻokahi manawa,ʻaʻole lākou e hana hou. Ma muli o ka loaʻaʻana o ka'ōlelo hauʻoli, he maka pōhaku lāua a he mau manaʻo like paha e like me ia. ʻAʻole lākou e hana i nā mea pōhē wale. Hoʻoikaika like lākou i nā mea maikaʻi a pau āu e haʻi aku ai iā lākou. I ka wā e hele ai nā helehelena e like me nā mea maʻamau. ʻAe, hiki i kekahi wahine ke ho'ākāka i ke kanakaʻoluʻolu huhū. ʻAʻoleʻo ia i makemake i nā puke eʻike i ka mea i hewa iā ia. ʻO ka poʻe me ka manaʻoʻole.

Ke hana neiʻo ia i kahi wahine e kaumaha nui loa ana, heleʻoleʻo ia i ka palena, no laila, manaʻoʻo ia he maʻalili ke kāne. E ho'āʻo kāua e hoʻomaopopo i ke kumu e maʻalahi ai nā kānaka.

ʻO ka kumu mua no kēia'ōpiopio'ōpiopio. Ma keʻano o ke kamaliʻi,ʻaʻole lākou i loaʻa i ke aloha, ka nānā a me ke aloha i pono. ʻAʻole paha iʻae aku nā mākua i kā lākou hana, mahaloʻoleʻia,ʻaʻole iʻike. Hiki i kēia mau hōʻailona ke alakaʻi i kahi anuanu. Ma nāʻano kūpono, pono nā wāhine e kōkua iā lākou e puka i waho o kēia "piko", e hoʻonuli i ko lākou naʻau. Ma muli o ka loaʻaʻole o ke aloha i ka wā kamaliʻi,ʻaʻole lākou iʻike i keʻano e hōʻike ai iā lākou.

ʻO ka lua kumu o kā lākou mau pilikia i hala. ʻO paha i ka wā ma mua, ua hanaʻino kekahi iā lākou, a kumakaia iā lākou a no laila ua hōʻeha i ko lākou naʻau kaumaha. No laila, ua hoʻoholo lākou e hōʻike houʻole i kēlā mau manaʻo e manaʻo ai ua lukuʻia lākou.

Pono nā wāhine e noʻonoʻo pehea e hōʻike ai i ko lākou aloha i ke ākea? Malia pahaʻaʻole lākou e hōʻike ana i ko lākou mau manaʻo, akāʻo keʻano o kā lākou hana e ho'āʻo nei lākou e hōʻoia no kēia nele. Hoʻomau mau kēlā poʻe i kā lākou mau'ōlelo hoʻohiki.

ʻOiai ke ola nei,ʻaʻole aloha nā kānaka i kā lākou wahine aʻaʻole lākou eʻike i kekahi manaʻo. Akā, inā ua hoʻoholoʻo ia e kaua aku iā ia, a laila eʻikeʻo ia i ka mea e hana maʻamau me nā kāne'eleʻa huhū. ʻAʻole pono lākou e pane i kēlā me ke kālā hoʻokahi a me nā hua'ōlelo. Mai paio me lākou. Mai hoʻolei aku iā lākou ma keʻano o ke anuʻoki, hiki iā ia ke hōʻeha a alakaʻi i ka haʻihaʻi ma ka pilina. Uaʻike lākou i kou aloha iā lākou a peheaʻoe e hōʻike ai i kou mau manaʻo, akāʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hōʻike iāʻoe i ko lākou manaʻo.

Inā lā lākou e hōʻoia iāʻoe i ke aloha a hōʻike paha i kekahi mau manaʻo, mai haʻi aku iā lākou e like me "ka hope loa i'ōleloʻia ai", no ka mea e hiki ai ke hōʻeha iā lākou a hiki iā lākou ke hoʻopili iā lākou iho. E aho e honi a'ōlelo aku i kahi meaʻoluʻolu. ʻO ke kākoʻo wale nō.

Ināʻaʻole lākou e hōʻike i ka manaʻo, e hana iā lākou i nā mea āu e makemake ai e hana iāʻoe. E aloha iā lākou, hāʻawi iā lākou i nā makana, e mālama iā lākou. E hana i nā mea a pau e hiki ai iā lākou keʻike ua alohaʻoe iā lākou e like me lākou. Malia paha i kekahi lā, e "ala lākou" a mahalo iāʻoe no kāu mau hana.