He aha e hāʻawi i kahi'ōpio'ōpio no ka makahiki hou?

ʻO ka makahiki hou he lā hauʻoli a hauoli, akā, ināʻo kēia makahiki hou e hui ai kouʻohana aiʻoleʻohana paha no ka manawa mua e like me ke kāne male. ʻOiai,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke pale i kēlā mau mea nuiʻelua, akā, he pilikia nui paha ka mea, e hāʻawi i kahi'ōpio'ōpio no ka makahiki hou?

ʻO nā makahiki mua o ke ola - he manawa kūpono kēia i ka manawa e pono ai nā mea a pau, aʻaʻole loa eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kekahi mauʻohana. ʻOiai ke noho kaʻawale ka makua kāne mai kona mau mākua mai, a pono lākou e noho i kahi noho. Maanei paha, mai kēia manawa a ua kūpono ka hoʻomakaʻana i ke kohoʻana i ka makana o ka makahiki hou.

ʻO ka manaʻo mua.

A no laila, inā hoʻoholoʻoe e kūʻai i kekahi mea maikaʻi, akā kānalua paha, hikiʻole iāʻoe ke noʻonoʻo e nīnau e pili ana i nā pono o kaʻohana. Loaʻa paha, nele lākou i nā papa hana piha, aiʻole i nā hanana no ka hauʻoli piha,ʻoiaiʻoe koho kohoʻana i nā mea hana hale.

Akā,ʻaʻole he hōʻoiaʻiʻo e loaʻa iāʻoe ka pane i kēia nīnau, a laila e hoʻopauʻia ka hopena o ka mea e weliweli ai. Eʻoi aku ka maʻalahi ināʻoe i kipa aku iā lākou ma kahi pāʻina a hiki iāʻoe keʻike i ka "wīwī" iāʻoe iho. Akā,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻolohe wale aku. ʻAe, a noʻonoʻo pono i ka palena o ka hele hope loa, hiki paha i nā mea a pau e hana me kāuʻole.

ʻO ka lua o ka manaʻo, he kāne like me ka makana he kāne.

Ke hāpai nei mākou i kaʻikeʻo ia paha nā mahina mua o ko lāua olaʻana. ʻAʻole lākou i loaʻa ka manawa e pilikia ai kekahi i kekahi, aʻo ka lōʻihi paha o ka nohoʻana o ke ola, e like me ko lākou makemake e hui pū i nā manawa a pau. E loaʻa nā makana kūpono maikaʻi. ʻO kekahi laʻana, hiki ke hana i nā kīʻaha, nā kūpeʻe lima, nā kapa pāpale, nā pāpale lole likeʻole. He kūpono inā e hiki iāʻoe ke hana i kekahi o kēlā me kēia kauoha o nā mea like, no ka laʻana, me ko lākou mau hua mua, a iʻole ke kiʻi pilikino.

ʻO ka manaʻo ke kolu.

Inā ua hiki i kaʻohana'ōpio ke loaʻa nā mea pono a pau no ka makahiki hou, a laila, he mea ia o nā makana hōʻailona. Maʻemaʻe no kēlāʻano hihia, he mauʻano statuettes likeʻole, a hana paha, nā papa alohaʻohana, nā mea hoʻokalakino, nā mea liʻiliʻi maikaʻi. ʻO ka lanakila nui ka makana e hoʻopili ai i kahi kāne hou i kekahi hui. Hiki paha iāʻoe keʻike i kā lākou mele punahele, a hāʻawi aku i kahi pahu mele, a i hālāwai paha lākou i kekahi ala kūikawā, aʻoʻoe, me ke kōkuaʻana o kekahi mea, e hoʻomanaʻo iā lākou i kēia manawa. ʻO ka manawa maʻamau o nā makana eʻikeʻia i kahi mahana, a he mea nui loa ia no ka poʻe i hāʻawiʻia iā lākou. Eia pū, me kēia makana, e hōʻike anaʻoe i kou manaʻo a me nā manaʻo mahana i kahiʻohana'ōpiopio. ʻO ka mea nui wale nō,ʻaʻole e pili loa kēia makana, aʻaʻoleʻo ia i hōʻike i kā lākou mau mea huna. Keʻole ka pili kokoke o kāu kamaʻilio, a ua haʻiʻia aku ia mea huna iāʻoe e nā kāneʻelua.

Inā maikaʻi kaʻakaʻaka o kahi'ōpio'ōpio, ma ka kohoʻana i kahi makana, pono e kūkulu i kēia mea. I kēia manawa, he nui nā meaʻano kūponoʻole e ho'āla i keʻano. Ma ke ala, e hoʻomanaʻo lōʻihi kēia mau mea iāʻoe.

ʻO ka manaʻo o ka hā.

He hoʻomanaʻo nā mākua, a he mau manaʻolana ko ka poʻe'ōpio. Hana i kēlā makana i ka wā e hiki mai ana i kāu male hou e hoʻomanaʻo.

ʻElua mau koho maʻaneʻi, a hāʻawiʻoe iā lākou i kahi hanana, aiʻole kekahi mea e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hoʻomanaʻo i nā mea hoʻomanaʻo. E hoʻomaka kākou me nā hanana. No ka hanaʻana i kēia, mai hoʻokau i kāu mea a pau e kūʻai aku i kahi palapala kono no ka heleʻana. ʻOiai he mea maikaʻi loa ia. I kekahi mau manawa e lawa ai nā tikika no ka'ahamele, ka pāʻani, ke kelepī, i ka hōʻike. Loaʻa paha nā tiketi no kahi hoʻokipa maikaʻi loa.

I kēia manawa, he nani keʻano o nā pōlele Vienna, inā makemake nā kāne e hula - e hāʻawi iā lākou iʻelua mau leka i nā pōmaikaʻi kokoke loa. Mai poina e noʻonoʻo i nā meaʻono o ke couple, nā makemake a me nā makemake, ma kahi'ē aʻe ma mua o nā kiʻi,ʻo ia ka makana.

Ma ke ala e pili ana i nā kiʻi a me nā kiʻi. He mea nui kēia. Hāʻawi i kahi'ōpiopio'ōpio, kahi hoʻolālā maikaʻi, a iʻole he mau kiʻi, he kiʻi kiʻi, he puke pilikanaka, a he mea like paha. Ināʻikeʻoe i kēia makana no ka pale, hoʻohui i kekahi mea mai iaʻoe iho.

ʻO kahi manaʻo maikaʻi no kahi kiʻi puke kahi inā e hoʻopiha muaʻoe ia mea me ka nui o kā lākou kiʻi pūnaewele, e hoʻokomo iā lākou e like me nā kumu o ka uluʻana i ko lākou pilina. Hiki iāʻoe ke hana i kēlā mau kiʻi ma keʻano o kahi pilikino, a iʻole e kūkulu i kahi papa hana. ʻO nā mea a pau e pili ana i kou mau mana, manaʻo a me nā manaʻo.