No laila, he aha keʻano o nā kuko wahine i manaʻoʻia e nā kānaka he hapa? Hōʻike ka kāne kāne i nā mea huna a pau o ka incompatibility o ke kūkino a me ka wahine.
No laila, inā he wahine ...
1.ʻAnoʻole kaʻaila
ʻO ke kanaka,ʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole ka pāʻani, pēlā wau e mākaukau ai eʻai i ke kuke, a hoʻomākaukauʻo ia i wahine wahineʻaʻohe pono. Eia kekahi,ʻo ka hua'ōlelo "ke ala i ka puʻuwai o ke kanaka e moe ana i loko o kona'ōpū" uaʻike nuiʻia i ka wā i ko mākou manawa, i ka manawa ma nā supermarkets hiki iāʻoe ke kūʻai i nā mea i hoʻomākaukauʻia. Eia hou, nā kānaka o kēia wā a hana i nā mea maikaʻi a maikaʻi loa e like me nā wāhine.
ʻO ka mea wale nō e pono e mālamaʻia he wahine kūpono: ināʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike i keʻano o ka kukeʻana,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e uku i kēia kuhi.
Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻoiai,ʻaʻole pahaʻoe e hauʻoli me ke kāne iʻikeʻole i ka hana i ka home i kapaʻia he kāne kāne, no ka maikaʻi o ia. ʻO kekahi mea, inā loaʻa iā ia ka nui aʻoi aku i ka lawaʻana no ka hanaʻana i kēia hana a kekahi mea'ē aʻe.
2. Hoʻolilo i hoʻokahi lā i nā uku
E nānā wale aku - ināʻaʻole kēia hana ma ka manawa a pau a inā he kālā kaʻohana, hiki ke kalaʻia.
Ma kaʻaoʻao hoʻokahi, i ka wahineʻeleʻele ke emi mai ka mahaloʻole o nā kāne (a me ka huāhuā i nā wāhine'ē aʻe), akā ma kekahi -ʻo kēiaʻano hiʻohiʻona e hāʻawiʻia kekahiʻano "uku" i ka mea i alohaʻia.
ʻO ka nui o kēia ukuʻana e pili ana i ke degree o ka waiwai,ʻoiai e like paha me ke kani.
Ma hope o nā mea a pau, no ka ponoʻole o ka wahine ināʻaʻoleʻo ia eʻike i keʻano o ka hoʻokaʻawaleʻana i kāna kālā, akā,ʻo ka mea kālā wale nō ka mea e uku ai .
No laila, ināʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike i keʻano e hoʻolilo ai i ke kālā me ke akamai, akā, ma keʻano nui loa me ka noʻonoʻo e hana i nā wahi o ka nohona.
3. E nānā i ka papa no nā hola a me ke kūkā ma ke kelepona
Hiki i ke kanaka ke kala aku i kāna mea i aloha ai, inā nui loa o ke ahiahi e hāʻawiʻoleʻia iā ia, akā i ka hoaaloha a i ka TV paha.
I ka hopena, pono iā ia ke nānā iki i mua o ka wahine maikaʻi. I kēia manawa, hauʻoliʻo ia e noho ma ka lolouila a iʻole ka nūpepa. ʻO ka hope, heleʻo ia e pāʻani me kona mau hoaaloha ma ka wai puna i ka wā e hana anaʻoe i kāu mauʻoihana.
No laila, no ka likeʻana o ka hoihoi o ka wahine,ʻaʻole ia he mea maʻalahi ke hoʻololi i kekahi mea e like me kona hapaʻelua .
Akā, inā ua komo kou lainā i nā'ōpoki soap a me nā hoaaloha,ʻaʻole ia iʻike i keʻano o ka hoʻi mai mai ka hana, nā mea āu iʻai ai a inā pahaʻoe ma ka home a laila, alae: maikaʻiʻole nā mea eʻoluʻolu loa ai iāʻoe.
4. Hele wau e kipa i kekahi manawa lōʻihi
ʻAe, he mea hoʻonāukiuki. ʻO ia ma mua, a iʻole i ka wā i hala ai i ka wā pōkole, aʻaʻole hiki i ka wahine o ka hora hola ke koho i kahi o kaʻaʻahu e pono ai ke komo.
Akāʻo ka hopena e hoʻohanaʻoe i kēia laina, hoʻomakaʻia e like. E hoʻoponopono iāʻoe iho: ma hea kahi e hiki ai i ke kāne keʻike i keʻano o nā hōʻailona kūpono o kāna wahine ?
Uaʻike auʻo ka heluʻana o nā kāne e heluhelu ana i ka "Women's Passion"ʻaʻole i emi iho ka nui o nā wāhine, no laila, i kēiaʻano,ʻo ka'ōlelo aʻo iā lākou. E haʻi aku i kāu wahine e ponoʻoe e kipa, ma ka laʻana,ʻaʻole i ka hola 19, akā he hola i hala. ʻO kēia ka manawa manawa o ka manawa a e hele i mua o kona hoʻomaʻamaʻa.
5. makemake i nā meaʻai, i "hoʻokomo" i kaʻohana a pau
ʻOiaiʻo iaʻano "dictatorship" he ikaika loa i hikiʻole i ke kāne ke hoʻokuʻu i nā cutletsʻelua a puni ka papa, ʻaʻohe mea e pale aku iā ia mai kaʻaiʻana i ka hana .
Eia kekahi, ināʻoe e nānā i kēiaʻano o ka wahine ma kekahiʻaoʻao, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa nā pono maikaʻi loa: e haʻi aku kekahi mea kauā iāʻoe he mea nani loa ka pōpō kakahiaka a me kaʻaina awakea .
Inā noho ka wahine ma luna o nā meaʻai a mālama i kahi hua maikaʻi, a lailaʻo kēia ka mea kūpono loa. Ināʻoluʻoluʻo ia, aʻo nā keiki,ʻaʻole lākou iʻike i kekahi pōʻino.
6. Kui i ka wahine wahine
ʻOiaʻiʻo, inā hoʻi mai ke kāne i ka home a "hōʻoluʻolu iā ia",ʻo ia ka mea i uhaki i kāna kīʻaha kula a holoi paha i kona kāmeʻa punahele i ka wā e holoi ai,ʻaʻole ia e leʻaleʻa, akā e huhūʻo ia no kekahi manawa lōʻihi.
ʻO ka mea nui,ʻo ke noi aku i ke aloha, i ka nānāʻana i ka maka makaʻole . A,ʻoiaʻiʻo, e'ōlelo aku: aloha, a me ka lāʻapōpō, e kūʻai mākou i kahi kāloka maikaʻi loa, a no ke kīʻaha e hoʻoponopono hou wau iaʻu i ka pō ma lalo o ka papahana piha.
Loaʻa i nā wāhine nā hiʻohiʻona - e kau i nā mea ma luna o kā lākou kāne ke nohoʻoleʻo ia ma ka home.
I ka wā eʻimi ana ke kāne i kahi hana i ka kakahiaka nui,ʻikeʻo ia i keʻala o ka meaʻala wahine, a me nā T-shirts,ʻoiai, i loko o nā'ōpū,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e makemake i kēia, akā, e wela kona haʻaheo. Inā loaʻa ka wahine i kāna mau mea, alohaʻo ia, makemakeʻo ia i konaʻala .
ʻO ka'ōlelo wale nō kahi e ho'āʻo ai e waiho i kekahi o kāna mau mea i nele. I ka hana, pono e hele i kekahi mea!
ʻO kekahi mau wāhine e makemake ana e hoʻomaʻemaʻe. ʻO ia,ʻo kēia mau kānaka aloha e kala nei i kā lākou mau mea i koho ai. I ka hopena, i ka nohoʻana o nā wāhineʻelua, hiki i ka holoiʻana ke hoʻololiʻia i kaʻano o nā mea maʻamau.
Eia kekahi, he nui nā kāne e hiki ke hoʻomaʻemaʻe wale, akāʻaʻole e hana me ka hopohopo nui a me ka mākaukau! No laila,ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻohana i kā mākou mau talena ma kēia wahi o ka nohoʻana, he hewa wale nō ia.
7. I kekahi manawa he mea naʻaupō ia
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka wahine naʻaupōʻaʻole makemake i ke kāne. ʻO ia ma kahi kūponoʻole iā ia ma kahi hana a me nā hua'ōlelo kūponoʻole.
He mea maikaʻi ke hanaʻia kēia me kaʻikeʻole. A inā ma ka lehulehu? Eia nō naʻe, inā heʻole ka lapuwale aʻaʻole kūponoʻole ka wahine ma nā wahi ākea i hiki ke loaʻa, hiki i kēia ke'āpono .
ʻAʻohe mea e hopohopoʻole ai inā e holoʻoe i loko o ka pupule i nā kūlanakauhale'ē aʻe,ʻaʻole heluhelu i kekahi puke ma kaʻikeʻepekema,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻike i'Europa ma ka palapala honua aʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike i nā rula o nā pāʻani pāʻani.
Eia nō naʻe, ma ka manawa hoʻokahi e pono aiʻoe eʻoki paha, aiʻole eʻike i kekahi mau hana ma ka moe. ʻO ia mauʻano,ʻo ko mākouʻano.
8. haʻi i nā mea a pau e pili ana i nā kaikamāhine
ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, e lohe i kona lauoho i ka nīnau "ʻAe, pehea lā e pale ai kou'ōhule?" -ʻaʻole ka meaʻoluʻolu loa no ke kāne.
ʻAʻole hiki i nā wāhine ke ola me ka hāʻawiʻoleʻana i kā lākou mau kaikamāhine me ka mea e hopohopo nei iā lākou, akā ...
Eia kahi manawa nui, pehea kāu e haʻi nei .
Ināʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā makana i hāʻawi mauʻia iāʻoe e ke kāne, kāna mālama a me kona aloha - he hoʻokahi mea kēia, aʻo kekahiʻano'ē aʻe - e pili ana i ke kaumaha o kahi kāne ma kahi moe aʻo kahi keikikāne he 10 makahiki he kinoʻano kinoʻole ia ma mua o kāu mea pono.
Akā, ma keʻano laulā,ʻoiai inā maopopo i ke kāne uaʻike ke kaikamahine i ka ola o konaʻohana ma nā hōʻike a pau,ʻaʻole paha paha kēia kumu no kekahi mau mea koʻikoʻi ma kānaʻaoʻao.
Eia ke kulekele e hana nei: inā he maikaʻi nā mea a pau iāʻoe, a laila e lili lākou, a inā heʻino,ʻaʻole ia eʻoi aku kaʻino ma ia mea .
ʻOʻoe,ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki ke'ōlelo aku he mea lapuwale kēia mau mea a pau, a inā makemake kahi kanaka, e paʻa nā mea a pau, akā e hewaʻoe. ʻAʻole wau e hāʻawi iāʻoe i nā manaʻo kūponoʻole, e nīnau wale iāʻoe iho: e ola anaʻoe a me kāu kāne i ka nui o nā hemahema, akā, e loaʻa iāʻoe nā pōmaikaʻi - hoʻokahi aʻelua paha aʻoi aʻe paha?
Nā Jaroslav KOLOMYTS
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