ʻO ka meaʻai a me ka wahine, ma kekahiʻaoʻao, pili pili pono kekahi i kekahi: hōʻoluʻolu lākou a me ka hauʻoli. Ma kekahiʻaoʻao, heʻokoʻa ko lākou. ʻO kaʻai a me ka wahine ka mea i aloha nuiʻia e nā kānaka ma ka honua a puni.
Nā meaʻai a me nā wāhine. Nā mea like.
Hiki i keʻene a me ka meaʻai ke exotic a maʻalahi paha. Ma kahi kamaʻilio maʻamau me kahi hoaaloha, hiki iāʻoe ke kaʻana i nā hana hou (i nā hihiaʻelua) me kaʻike. ʻO nā meaʻai a me nā moekolohe he mau kumu kūpono no ka hoʻokolohuaʻana, no ka hoʻokomoʻana i nā mea hou, no ka hanaʻana i nā mele hana mua.
ʻAʻohe'āpana o nā meaʻai a me ka wahine. ʻO kaʻaiʻana i ka meaʻai maikaʻi a iʻole e hāʻawiʻia i ke aloha i nā leʻaleʻa he hiki i nā wahi likeʻole, i nā manawa likeʻole. E laʻana, e "wikiwiki" i ka home a hoʻonohonoho i kahi hana lōʻihi i keʻano aiʻole i ka hoʻomaha. Eʻoluʻolu i kou "makemake" ma ka noho hope o ke kaʻa a ma kahi kaʻa kaʻa kaʻa lehulehu.
Hāʻawi ka meaʻai a me ka wahine i nā manawa kūpono no nāʻona a me nā meaʻike maoli i nā mea likeʻole. He aha kaʻoi aku iʻoi aku kaʻoi aku o kaʻoihana ma mua o ka inuʻana i ka wela wela ma mua o ke kīʻaha kapu ma ke kua o hope o kahi kaʻa e holoholo ana ma waho o ke alanui? Makemakeʻoe eʻai i ka ice cream ma kahi hale kūʻai lole nani, ma ka puka o ua penaʻia i kahi hōʻailona eʻae aku ai i ke komoʻana me nā mea inu a me ka wai hau. ʻO ka hui mua o kahi kūlana o kaʻoihana kūikawā a me kahi'īlio'īlio maʻalahi mai kahi hale e kū kokoke ana e hoʻomaopopo ana i kouʻano kūponoʻole.
Hiki i kaʻai aiʻole ka moekolohe paha e like me kekahi hui nui (no nā mea aloha i ka pepa), a hoʻokahi wale nō, e noʻonoʻo ana i kou iho iho ma ka aniani ma ka paia. Hiki iāʻoe ke hele mālie i ka pahu hau hau i ka pō aʻai i kahi kuihi maʻamau i loko o ka pōʻeleʻele loa a iʻole e komo i ka wahine aloha ma ka mālamalama.
ʻO kekahiʻano likeʻole,ʻo kekahi manawa, makemake maoli i kaʻai a iʻole ka moekolohe. ʻAe, no ka meaʻaʻole i hana nā pūʻali koa. Inā makemake kēia no ka lanakilaʻana i kekahi mau pilikia, a laila,ʻo ka momona ka manawa e loaʻa ai ka makemake. Hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻonele iāʻoe iho, akā,ʻaʻole makemake ka makemake ikaika iāʻoe e hele a laila e hoʻokō i ka makemake o kou kino.
Inā he alanui lōʻihiʻoe i mua, aʻaʻoleʻoe iʻai pū meʻoe, a i ka wā e hiki mai ana,ʻaʻoleʻoe e manaʻo e kali ma ke alahele cafes, a laila e hoʻomanawanuiʻoe. Inā makemakeʻoe i ka moekolohe, hiki iāʻoe ke "kōkua iāʻoe iho." Akā, no ka manawa lōʻihi e hoʻokaʻawale i ka manaʻo ma ka makemake,ʻaʻole ia e hana ma nā hihiaʻelua.
Pono nā kānaka a pau i ka meaʻai a me ka wahine mai i kēlā me kēia manawa. ʻO nā meaʻoluʻolu liʻiliʻi e hoʻonui i ke ola hina a me ke kaumaha i kēlā me kēia lā, piha i ka hana a me nā manaʻo o nā lā a pau.
I kekahi manawa, hiki iāʻoe ke kipa i kahi makemake nui e ho'āʻo i "kekahi mea" aiʻole "kekahi" hou. ʻO ke kumukūʻai i kāu mau hana maʻalahi hiki ke uku iāʻoe. I ka meaʻai, hiki i ka hopena, ka inu, a me ka'ōpū huhū. Inā he hoa pili mauʻoe a iʻole paha uaʻoi aku koʻoukou maleʻana, a laila,ʻo ia mau makemake no "ka mea hou" hiki ke hana i ka haki a iʻole kahi hōʻino nui me kāu hapalua.
Ma ka kohoʻana i ka meaʻai a me ka wahine, heʻano'ē mākou a pau. Hāʻawi kekahi i nā meaʻai a me ka aloha i ka home. No nā mea'ē aʻe,ʻo kaʻai wikiwiki a me ka moekinoʻole me nā kuleana eʻoi aku ka'āpono. ʻO nā mea koʻikoʻi o ka poʻe koʻikoʻi a me nā kānaka kūikawā iʻoi aku kaʻoi o ka meaʻai a heʻano anu hoʻi a mālamaʻole i ka moe.
Hiki i kekahi ke hoʻolālā nui mai ka hana "kuke", no nā mea'ē aʻe,ʻoi aku kaʻoi o kaʻaiʻana a me ka wahine pono ma mua o kona hoʻomaka. ʻO kekahi makemake i ka huhū a me ka huhū ma kahi moe, makemake nā mea aloha i ka hoʻokipa i kaʻaina awakea ma nā papa nani i hoʻonaniʻia me nā greens a me nā huaʻai.
Hiki ke hoʻololiʻia nā meaʻai a me nā moe, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻohui, hoʻohui a hoʻopaʻa i nāʻano hou e hoʻohana ai. E pili ana i nā hua "'epala", hiki ke hoʻololi i ka hana o ke aloha. ʻO nā huaʻopaʻa, kaʻulu, ke kokoleka, ka spaghetti, ke kofe kakahiaka, laweʻia i kahi moe aʻoi aku.
ʻO nā meaʻai a me nā moekolohe pili pili loa. ʻOiai,ʻo kaʻai no mākou he mea nui aʻoi aku ka waiwai ma mua o ka moekolohe, akā, ma muli o ka'ōlelo kaulana "ʻaʻole i ola nā kānaka ma ka berena wale nō," he mea pono keʻano o ka wahine i ke ola o kēia kanaka.