ʻO nā keiki lōʻihi i kaʻohana nui,ʻaʻole i maʻalahi. I ka manawa maʻamau ka hānauʻana o nā mākua i nā keiki, a laila e ulu mālie i nā keiki. ʻOiai aia kekahi mau hihia likeʻole, a ke kōkua nei lākou e hoʻomaopopo i ka paʻakikī o ka pilina ma loko o kahiʻohana nui. No ka hoʻomaopopoʻana i kēia kaʻoi aku o ka maʻalahi, e noʻonoʻo iʻelua mau koho no ka hānauʻana o kahi keiki'ōpio, no ka mea,ʻo ia ke kaʻina o ka makahiki i lilo i mea nui.
ʻO ke keiki me ka lōʻihi o ka makahiki
ʻO nā keiki lōʻihi ma kaʻohana nui,ʻaʻole lākou i ka nui ma ka makahiki. ʻAʻole pilikia ka manawa kahi e loaʻa ai nā keiki he mau keiki, makemake lākou e hānau hou. ʻO kēia ma muli o ka haʻaleleʻana o nā keiki a pau mai kaʻohana aku, no ka mea, ua waiho waleʻia ka makuahine a me ka makua kāne. I loko o kēia hihia,ʻo ke keiki hope loa wale nō kaʻoliʻoli i ke ola no lākou.
Ma kaʻaoʻao o nā kaikunāne, aia keʻano'ē aʻe. ʻOiai,ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke'ōlelo aku i ko lākou lili i ko lākou mau mākua, ke hāʻawi nei i ka hapa o ko lākou aloha i ke keiki'ōpiopio, akā naʻe,ʻaʻole i maopopo i kaʻoiaʻiʻo o kona hānauʻana.
Eia naʻe, ma kekahi mau mea, he mea nui loa ke kūlana. ʻO ke kumu o kēia he nui keʻano o ka makahiki , no ka mea,ʻo nā keiki a me nā kamaliʻi he aneane likeʻole. No laila, ināʻaʻole i hoʻomaka ka hānau mua a kaikuaʻana paha i kā lāua mau keiki, inā paha eʻoliʻoli lākou i keʻano o kahi kanaka hou i loko o ka hale.
ʻO kēiaʻano ma kaʻaoʻao o ka pilina me ka nui o nā makahiki he mea paʻakikī ke kapa aku i ka pīhoihoi. Ponoʻia ka hauʻoli a hauʻoli hoʻi no ka laweʻana o nā mea a pau i ka hānauʻana o kahi keiki'ōpio.
Late mau keiki me ka liʻiliʻi loa o ka makahiki
Nui loa nāʻohana nui me nā keiki nui i kā mākou mau manawa. He mau makua wale nō ka mākaukau e hana i kēia hana, e hauʻoli ana i kēlā me kēia keiki. I ka manawa like, ua lilo ka lewa i ka hale a lilo i mea nani loa.
ʻO kahi keiki i'ōpiopio i kēlāʻohana, i kahi manawa o kahi kaikunāne a kaikuahine paha mai kahi manaʻo manaʻo. ʻO ka hoʻokaʻawaleʻana o ka makahiki ma waena o kēlā me kēia keiki e hoʻohui i kaʻohana a pau, e hāʻawi ana i nā manaʻo hou o ka pilina a me ka mahanahana. E hānai hānai nā kaikuaʻana a me nā kaikamāhine i ke keiki'ōpiopio, akā,ʻo ka pilina pili loa e hōʻike iā ia.
Malia paha, e kapaʻia kēlāʻano he maikaʻi. Pēlā like, pono e holomua ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana i ka hoʻonaʻauao ma keʻano kūpono, i ka hopena ua ulu aʻe kahi keikikāne aʻo ke kaikamahine paha. No kēlā me kēiaʻohana, ponoʻoe e nānā i nā hiʻohiʻona hoʻokahi, no ka mea, he mea koʻikoʻi ka pilina a hiki i ka hānauʻana o kahi keiki'ōpio.
ʻAʻole nā meaʻelua i ka paʻakikī e noʻonoʻo, akā, he mea nui e kūkākūkāʻia ai ka hoʻouluʻana. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka'ōpiopio iʻikeʻia e like me ka'ōnaehana o loko o kēlā me kēia kanaka. I ka manawa pinepine uaʻikeʻoleʻia nāʻohana nui i ka holomuaʻole, akāʻo ka hewa nui kēia. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka hapanui o kēia mau pūnaewele o ka hapuna e hāʻawi aku i ka'āina i ka poʻe kūpono loa. ʻO ke kūpono o ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana,ʻoiai i ka neleʻana o nā mea hoʻoweliweli, hiki ke aʻo i kahi keiki e hiki ai ke hoʻokō i nā mea a pau me ko lākou mau lima a me ko lākou manaʻo.
Hikiʻole paha ke nānāʻana i nāʻohana me kahi keiki, akā, aia i loko o lākou e ulu ai ka manaʻo haʻaheo, e pili ana i nā hanaʻino. Mālama nā mākua i ka nui o nā keiki, akā i loko o kaʻohana nui,ʻaʻole nui nā manawa. ʻAʻohe mea e like ai ma waena o kahi keiki lōʻihi a me kona kaikaina a me kona kaikuahine, i lilo aiʻo ia i mea maikaʻi loa.