ʻO ka pōhaku pōhaku. No laila, hoʻonohonohoʻia nā kaikamāhine e pono ai kā kākoʻo kāne, a me ka poʻohiwi a me ka hoʻomanawanui o ke kanaka. ʻO ka mea i loko o kaʻikeʻole, maopopo i ka mea e hanaʻia (mai ka pūpū i ka lolo), he "pōhaku pōhaku" (ʻoiai inā he "mika" keia pā i kahi pāpale), kahi hiki iāʻoe ke hūnā. He maikaʻi ke loaʻa ka makua kāne a he kaikuaʻana paha a mea paha i alohaʻia e mihi a maopopo. Ināʻaʻohe, aʻaʻole i hoʻokumuʻia ka pilina me kāu mea aloha, a laila heleʻo ia i ka hoʻopakele -ʻo kou hoaaloha maikaʻi, aʻoiaʻiʻo -ʻoʻoe kou hoaaloha maikaʻi loa. Hiki i kāu kama'āina ke hoʻolohe iāʻoe, hoʻomaopopo, kaʻakaʻaka a me ka mālie. Aʻo nā hōʻinoʻana mai kona mau lehelehe i kāu pane,ʻaʻole ia eʻikeʻia me ka hakakā - "Ma hope o nā mea a pau, makemakeʻo ia i ka mea maikaʻi."
Me kou "hoaaloha maikaʻi" he mau hoihoi likeʻole iāʻoe, hiki iāʻoe ke leʻaleʻa a me ka hoʻohana pono i ka manawa a me ka hōʻehaʻole kekahi i kekahi. ʻOe, inā pēlā. Akā nō naʻe - e noʻonoʻo. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, e like me kā mākouʻike,ʻike mākou i kā mākou makemake eʻike. ʻAʻoleʻo ia he hoaalohaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻoleʻo ia he "pōhaku pōhaku", inā: noiʻoe iā ia mai ka'ōlelo aʻo mai - ua noho mālieʻo ia; ʻaʻole loa e pili i kāu mau mea a me nā pilikia; ʻAlo iā ia e mahalo iāʻoe ma kou lā hānau; ke kāhea mau iā iaʻo ia ka inoa,ʻo ia wale nō ke kāheaʻo ia inā makemakeʻo ia i kahi mea (e like paha me kahi hōʻuluʻulu'ōlelo). Ināʻaʻole nā mea a pau e pili ana iā ia, ponoʻoe e hoʻonaniʻia. ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻo kāu hoaaloha maikaʻi loa. Ma kahi hua'ōlelo, he hoaaloha maoli! ʻO kahi hoaaloha e kōkua mau ana iāʻoe i nā manawa a pau a maikaʻi loa ma mua o nā kaikamāhine a pau āu e hele nei i nā papa kula e kōkua ai e koho i kahi makana no kāu pokii aloha. ʻO kāu mau "pōmaikaʻi" mai ka male kāne aloha - maopopo ia! A he aha nā pila iā ia? ʻO kou hoaaloha maikaʻi - he mau pōmaikaʻi nui kona male kāne - uaʻikeʻo ia i nā mea a pau e pili ana iāʻoe.
ʻO ke kūʻai kūpono. He mau hoaaloha maikaʻi nā Guys iā mākou no nā kumu he nui. ʻO ka mea mua,ʻo ka nānāʻana o ka wahine i nā mea he mea maikaʻi i ke kanaka naʻauao (aʻaʻole mākou he makamaka me ka poʻe naʻaupō, pololei?). ʻO ka lua, ke kaumaha, eʻoluʻolu, hānai -ʻo ia keʻoluʻolu,ʻoluʻolu. ʻO mākou, nā wāhine, ke aloha nei mākou, a ua hiki iā mākou. ʻO ke kolu, e hāʻawi i ka'ōlelo aʻo e pili ana i ka piliʻana me kahi kaikamahine (pehea e'ōlelo ai, he aha nā pua a me nā makana e hāʻawi ) -ʻae,ʻaʻohe pane! Ma keʻano pololei, ka hoʻololi lole -ʻo mākou a pau nā mea kākau a me nā mea hoʻolālā! E haʻi iā ia e pili ana i nā kumu o nā wāhine a me ka'ōlelo aʻo pehea e hiki ai ke paleʻia ... No laila uaʻikeʻoe i kāu hoaaloha, e like me he hoaaloha, he mea maikaʻi. Ma muli o kēia hoʻololi "moʻomeheu",ʻikeʻiaʻoe i nā "pōʻino" a pau o nā pilina ma waena o nā mea'ē aʻe. ʻO kēia ka mea e hiki ai ke ho'ēmi i ka hemahema i mua o ka'ōlohelohe. Akā, eia kekahi mea hiki i kāu hoaaloha - hiki i kāu lā aloha ke ho'ōki i hoʻokahi lā:ʻo ka hōʻehaʻeha i kou mau manaʻo e hoʻolilo i ka hoaaloha i mea pilikia. A ināʻoe,ʻaʻoleʻoe e pili i kēlā mea, mai kipaku aku iāʻoe akāʻaʻole maopopo nā manaʻo - akā pehea inā inā he aloha maoli kēia?