ʻO ke aloha - kahi hōʻailona o ke kanaka?

No ke aha i manaʻo ai ka poʻe he nui ka lokomaikaʻi o ka hōʻailona o ke kanaka? Malia paha,ʻo ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo keʻano o ka "maikaʻi" keʻike pinepineʻia me nāʻano o "soft," "āpau", "he meaʻole." Akā,ʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole pēlā. ʻO ka maikaʻi ka hōʻailona o nāʻano maikaʻi, akā,ʻaʻole naʻe i ka meaʻole. ʻO nā hōʻailonaʻano palupalu o ke kanaka, he likeʻole. E kamaʻilio mākou no kēia mau mea, e kūkākūkā ana i ke kumuhana:ʻo ka lokomaikaʻi ka hōʻailona o ke kanaka nāwaliwali.

No laila, he mea pono ke hoʻomaka me ka mea, a laila,ʻo ka lokomaikaʻi kekahi o nā hiʻohiʻona maikaʻi loa o keʻano o ke kanaka. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole ia e maʻalahi ka lokomaikaʻi aʻaʻole maikaʻi nā kānaka a pau. ʻO ka mea pōʻino,ʻo ka lokomaikaʻi i ke ao hou ke lawe nei i nā pilikia. E nā kānaka aloha, e ho'āʻo e hoʻopili i ka lehulehu a me ka nui. ʻO ia ke kumu o ka lokomaikaʻi i manaʻoʻia he hōʻailona o ka mea nāwaliwali,ʻaʻole eʻike ana he mea maikaʻiʻole kēia kanaka maikaʻi no konaʻano nāwaliwali, akā, no ka mea, ua kaumahaʻo ia no nā mea a pau. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ke aloha kanaka he hōʻailona ia e hiki ai i ke kanaka ke manaʻo maoli. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke aloha wale iā ia iho, akā kekahi. Eia kekahi, he pinepine ka lokomaikaʻiʻo ia ka hōʻailona o ke koa. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole iʻae nā kānaka maikaʻi i ka ponoʻole, a no laila, e ho'āʻo pinepine e pale i ka mea nāwaliwali a hana i nā mea a pau e lanakila i ka mea pono. Me ka nāwaliwali kūponoʻole,ʻaʻole loa e lele i kahi kanaka e palekana i ka mea nāwaliwali a me ka huhū. E ho'āʻoʻo ia e peʻe ma hope o nā kua o nā poʻe'ē aʻe, ināʻaʻoleʻo ia e pilikia. No laila, ma keʻano nāwaliwali,ʻaʻole loa eʻike kahi kanaka i ka lokomaikaʻi. Eia kekahi, he kanakaʻano palupalu kekahi manawa he kanaka wahaheʻe a hewaʻole e ho'āʻo ana e ola ma kekahiʻano a ua mākaukau hoʻi e hele i nā mea a pau iʻole e hoʻopāʻia e kekahi. Inā maikaʻi ka naʻau o ke kanaka,ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo heʻulu ia e hikiʻole ke ea i kona poʻo a hana i nā mea a pau āna e kauoha ai. ʻAʻoleʻo ia,ʻaʻole nā ​​kānaka maikaʻi ke kū malie. ʻO ka maikaʻiʻaʻole ia e pale aku i ka wikiwiki, kaʻikeʻana i ko lākou mau pilina, me ka huhū a me ka huhū. ʻAʻole loa e hōʻeha kekahi kanaka maikaʻi i ka meaʻole. Akā naʻe,ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo inā e noho mālieʻo ia ināʻikeʻo ia i ka ponoʻole aiʻole inā e kūʻole kekahi i ka'ōleloʻana iā ia aiʻole i konaʻohana. He nui nā kumu no ka mea he mea ponoʻole i ke kanaka maikaʻi ke hāʻawi i ka loli. ʻO ka noʻonoʻoʻana i kēlā mea,ʻo kēlā me kēia no kekahi kumu no ke keiki'ōpiopio a'ōpiopio, e hoʻopili mau ana i ka makani e like me ke kumu lāʻau wīwī. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hewa loa kēia manaʻo. Heʻanoʻoluʻolu nāʻano Bodybuilders a me nā ukana. A ināʻaʻole iʻikeʻia e ko lākou helehelena,ʻaʻole ia heʻanoʻino ka poʻe i ka honua holoʻokoʻa a ho'āʻo pinepine i ka uha i kekahi, aiʻole i ka pepehi. Eia naʻe, ke mālama mau nei lākou i ka hoʻopono a me ka hana hoʻomāinoino i kahi wale nō e pono ai. Ma ke ala, hiki i nā kānaka maikaʻi ke hanaʻino. ʻAʻole kēia he mea lapuwale. Hiki i ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa a me ka lokomaikaʻi ke maʻalahi i ka pilina o ke kanaka hoʻokahi. ʻO nā poʻe wale nō e hōʻike ana i kā lākou hana hoʻomāinoino,ʻaʻole pinepine i ka manawa aʻaʻole i nā mea a pau. Uaʻike lākou pehea e pale ai iā lākou iho, iʻole e hōʻino i ka poʻe i hewaʻole i kekahi mea. Akā,ʻo ka hoʻopaʻi o ka hoʻopaʻi mau loa i ka hoʻopaʻi. ʻO ka mea hewa i mua o kēlā kanaka,ʻaʻole loa ia e koho heʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ia keʻano maikaʻi.

ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, he laʻa maikaʻi nā kaikamāhine i loaʻa i ka maikaʻi. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka poʻe maikaʻi e pili mau ana i kā lākou poʻe i aloha nui, e ho'āʻo i kaʻoluʻolu, e hoʻolohe i nā makemake a me nā manaʻo. No kekahi kanaka maikaʻi, nā mea aloha a me nā pilikua,ʻoi aku ka nui o kona waiwai ma mua o kona iho. No laila, ua mākaukauʻo ia e hoʻohuli i nā kuahiwi a hoʻololi i ke ao nei, inā wale nō i ka poʻe e noho pū ana me lākou, he meaʻoluʻolu, maikaʻi a hoʻoluʻolu. No nā kānaka maikaʻi, maikaʻi ka pōmaikaʻi o kekahi. ʻO kēia mau kānaka e pale ana i nā malihini mai kahi hooligans a hoʻololi i nā kupuna wahine ma'ō aku o ke alanui. Ke hana nei lākou i kēiaʻaʻole e hōʻoia a hōʻoia i kekahi mea, akā, no ka mea ua aloha lākou no ka poʻe. Hana wale lākou ma ka lokomaikaʻi o kaʻuhane aʻaʻole loa, mai noi aku i kekahi mea. ʻO kēia ka hiʻohiʻona nui o nā kānaka maikaʻi - e hana i kekahi mea me ka naʻauʻole aʻaʻole hoʻi e huhū ke loaʻaʻole iāʻoe kekahi mea e like me keʻano o ka pani. Eia kekahi,ʻaʻole hiki i ke kanaka maikaʻi ke hāpai i kona lima i kahi kaikamahine aʻaʻole ia e hōʻino iā ia, ke alakaʻiʻoleʻo ia iā ia i kahi wela keʻokeʻo. He kāne maikaʻi loa kēlā mau kāne a me nā hoaaloha nani. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻolohe mau, e ho'āʻo e hāʻawi i ka'ōlelo aʻo. Kōkua a kākoʻo. ʻAʻole nā ​​poʻe i pani a hōʻole i nā pilikia paʻakikī. ʻAʻole lākou i manaʻoʻiʻo i ka'ōlelo hoʻoweliweli aʻaʻole lākou e hilinaʻi i nā lono. ʻOiaʻiʻo, inā maikaʻi maoli lākou, a hūnāʻole ma lalo o kēlāʻano uhi. Aia kekahi poʻe e hoʻohālike ana i ka naʻau maikaʻi e lanakila i ka lokomaikaʻi o nā kaikamāhine. Hiki i kēlā poʻe'ōpiopio ke mahalo i ka natura, kāpala i nā pipi a me nā puppies, aloha i nā keiki a keʻimi mau nei i ka hana i ka maikaʻi. Akā, hiki kēia mau mea a pau no ka hōʻike. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ke haʻaheo nei lākou, no ka hoʻokō i kā lākou pahuhopu. No laila, mai hoʻololi wale i kahi kanaka maikaʻi loa a me kekahi mea e ho'āʻo nei, e hoʻokomo i ka manaʻo o kahi kaikamahine.

Pono nā kānaka maikaʻi e kūpono aʻaʻole hoʻi e hoʻohana i ko lākou lokomaikaʻi, no ka mea, ua hoʻokaumahaʻia kēlāʻano i loko o ke ola a ua wāwahi i lalo. Hiki paha i ka mea maikaʻi ke makemake e hōʻino a hōʻole i kēiaʻano iho. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻohe mea hiki ke hōʻole loa, akā, hiki i nā kānaka he nui ke hūnā i ko lākou lokomaikaʻi. A he mea kaumaha loa ke nānāʻana,ʻoiai ke kanaka e hoʻopaʻi iā ia iho a hao i ka manaʻo o kekahi poʻe e pili ana i kona kino.

A inā e hikiʻole i ke kanaka e pili ana iāʻoe ke hana i kekahi mea, hopohopo a hopohopo i nā mea a pau, mai kapa aku iā ia he "ʻano." ʻAʻole ponoʻo ia. He mea liʻiliʻiʻo ia a maʻalahi hoʻi ka maʻalahi iā ia e hoʻokomo i kekahi ma lalo o nā pālepa ma mua o ka ho'āʻo a hoʻoponopono i ke kūlana. ʻO nā poʻe, pinepineʻole,ʻaʻole maikaʻi. ʻAʻole lākou i lawa i ka ikaika,ʻaʻole ia e mālama ana iā lākou iho. Aʻo nā kānaka maikaʻi, he nuiʻole ka poʻe akamai, aiʻole lākou e noho mālie,ʻaʻole kēia no ka hopohopo, akā, no ka meaʻaʻole lākou e makemake e hōʻemi i ka ikaika ma ka mea kūponoʻole.