ʻO ka mareʻanaʻole: inā heʻelemakule ke kanaka

Alohaʻoe iāʻoe me ka hoʻomanaʻoʻole: moeʻo ia me nā makana, kono iāʻoe i nā haleʻaina maikaʻi loa, e hoʻomaha iā lākou i nā hale kūikawā. Hiki iā ia ke haʻi aku i kona mau pilikia a pau - e hoʻolohe, e hoʻomaopopo a hāʻawi i nā'ōlelo aʻo maikaʻi. ʻO kona mau hiʻohiʻona, mālama a me kaʻike, ua lanakila i kou naʻau: ua makaukauʻoe e mare i ka lāʻapōpō. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ma hope ona me he pā pōhaku lā! Akā, pehea e haʻi ai i nā mākua he iwakālua makahiki ka makahiki i kohoʻia? ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua maopopo iāʻoe he mea nuiʻole ka mareʻana o ka mare me ka nui o nā pōʻino. No laila,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kaumaha "no" a me "kū'ē" ma mua o ka hoʻopau kaumahaʻana i ke ola o ka halaʻole.
Ma keʻano laulā,ʻo ka hoʻopukaʻana i nā mareʻanaʻole he mea hihia. Loaʻa kaʻike o nā kāneʻelemakule i nā kaikamāhine: i ka halaʻana o kekahi mau makahiki i ka manawa e ho'ōkiʻole ai ka manaʻo. Heʻokoʻa keʻano'ē aʻe, i ka wā e hiki mai ana - he mea'ōpiopio'ōpiopio me kaʻili hou a he mea hoʻonani. Uaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kanaka:ʻo ia keʻike i kahi keikikāneʻelua, e huli aʻe mai kahi makua kāne makua kāne mai, a he kanaka uʻi hanohano me nā hale malumalu eʻoliʻoli nei.

Akā,ʻo ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, he nui nāʻelele o ka wahine ikaika e mare i ka wahine puʻupaʻa ma muli o ko lākou kūlana ponoʻole. Ke hana nei kēia i ka wā e ho'āʻo ai kekahi kanaka e hōʻoia i kona heleʻana i ka wā! A ua hiki iā ia ke loaʻa kahi aloha i kahi pokii.

Hiki ke hanaʻia ma kekahiʻano'ē aʻe. Ke makemake nei ke kāne e lilo i poʻo no kaʻohana, akā, no keʻano o konaʻano, makaʻuʻo ia ma ka mareʻana me ka hoa launaʻike a pilikino,ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke lawe i kēiaʻanoʻohana.

I kēlā mau hihia, uaʻikeʻo ia i kēia manawa -ʻaʻole pahaʻo ia hoʻokahi wale nō -ʻaʻole he kāne maikaʻi loa me ka wahine o kona mau makahiki. A laila, laweʻo ia i kahi kaikamahine i wahine nāna e manaʻo iā ia iho he haku kūʻokoʻa, a e hoʻoloheʻia aʻaʻole e kū'ē.

ʻO kekahi mau kaikamahine e like me nā kaikamāhine kahiko
I kēia manawa, eʻimi i ka hopena o ka hoʻokomoʻana o nā kaikamāhine i nā luna i kūpono iā lākou e like me nā mākua. ʻO ka hopena pinepine ka kumu no nā pilikia koʻikoʻi o ke kaikamahine i makemake i kekahi mea e hoʻomanaʻia a nāna e mālama iā ia. ʻAʻole ia he mea hūnā ma nā makahiki, he nui nā helehelena o nā kāne a lilo i mea maikaʻi loa: ua loaʻa ka pale kālā,ʻikeʻia kaʻike,ʻike ke kanaka i ka hoʻokumuʻana i kona ikaika me ka mālie maikaʻi. ʻO kēia,ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki ke hoʻohuli i ka nani o kahi'ōpio. Eia kekahi, no ka mareʻana i kahi mea i hiki i kahi hana e hiki iā ia ke hoʻohuli iā ia a me nā hanana i loko o kaʻohana. Eia kekahi laʻana, i ka weheʻana o ke kaikamahine i ka wahine, kū mau kona makuakāne i ka uku nui iā ia. A no kēia pauʻole o ke aloha, ho'āʻoʻo ia i kahi mea e uku ai. Ke ho'āʻo nei ke kaikamahine eʻimi i kahi kanaka e hiki ke pani i kona makuakāne, a loaʻa iā ia ma ka maka o kāna wahine makuahine. A iʻole, e'ōlelo ana, he kaikamahine kahi keiki wale nō i loko o kaʻohana a he mākua no nā mākua, he kaikamahine e pono e paleʻia ma nā koina a pau. Ua mālama nā mākua i kahi kaikamahine i nā'ōmaʻomaʻu. ʻO ka hopena, ua makaʻuʻo ia i ka piʻiʻana o kēia kahu. I nā manawa kūpono, uaʻaeʻo ia e neʻe ma lalo o ka'ēheu o kāna kāne. Akā,ʻaʻole e hiki i kēlā me kēia hoa ke hāʻawi i ka mālama like a me ka hōʻoluʻolu:ʻo ke kanaka e hiki ke pani i kona mau mākua, he iwakālua paha ona makahiki. ʻO kēia ke kumu o ka hakakā ma kēia hope aku. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻole e hiki ke hoʻoholo mau loa aku ka hana o "kaikamahine". ʻO kahi wahine'ōpiopio eʻoi aku ana ma mua o kāna. E makemake ana ka wahine'ōpio e hele hou, e ulu a ulu, e hui like i loko o konaʻohana, a hoʻoloheʻole i kāna kāne me ka loaʻaʻole o ka pono e koho.

Kōkua hihia
Ke ulu aʻe nei ke kaikamahine, uaʻelemakule ke kanaka, a he mea paʻakikī iā lākou ke noho like. ʻO ka pilikia nui o ka "mareʻanaʻole" heʻano likeʻole ia ma nā makahiki, e like me nā manaʻo, ma ka moʻomeheu o ka hānaiʻana, nā mea maʻamau, nā kūlohelohe, e pili ana i ke ola. ʻO kekahi kaikamahine i kekahi manawa e makemakeʻo ia e hele i ka pīʻani, i kahi pāʻina hauʻoli. Aʻo kahi kāne makua kāne i maʻalahi i ka noho ma ka home a noho mālie a ma mua paha o ka TV, hoʻomakaʻo ia e hana e like me ke keiki: - "ʻAe, ua hoʻowahāwahāʻoe iaʻu eʻike! ʻOiaʻiʻo, uaʻelemakule wau noʻoe. " A ke kaumaha nei au nona, aʻo wau hoʻi ...

No laila, inā makemakeʻoe e mare i ke kāne iʻoi aku ka nui ma mua ou, ponoʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea a pau - iʻoleʻoe e hōʻino i ka hopena hewaʻole, a me kāu wahine. Keʻae nei aneiʻoe a mahalo i ka makemake a me nā makemake o kekahi i kekahi?

ʻO ka mea nui,ʻaʻole ia e hoʻolilo i ke ola i ka hanaʻino ma luna o konaʻano pono'ī ma lalo o nā mea like. ʻO ia, kēia ola, hoʻokahi wale nō, a ponoʻoe e ola like me kaʻoluʻolu a me ka hauʻoli!

Hauʻoli paha no ka mea
Eia nō hoʻi he mau hiʻohiʻona he nui o nā noho male maikaʻi i waena o nā kānaka i ka nui o nā makahiki. Eia kekahi, hiki keʻokoʻa i ka manaʻo o kaʻohana. I kekahi manawa, hauʻoli nui nā hoa kāne i ka wā e noho pono ana ka wahine i ka mālamaʻana,ʻo ia ka makuahine a me ka mea mālama i ka ahi. ʻO ka mareʻana paha o ka poʻe i like me ka manaʻo hoʻokahi. Akāʻo kēlā me kēia o ka maleʻana, inā he nui keʻano i ka makahiki i makemakeʻia e ka wahine,ʻaʻole kēia e hoʻoemi i ka nui o nā pilikia, akā e hoʻopuka wale.