ʻO ka wahineʻona wahine he pilikia ia o ko mākou moku'āina no nā makahiki he nui. I kēlā me kēia makahiki, hoʻomaka ka wahine e inu mau, a i ka hopena,ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻopau hou i ka makemake o ka waiʻona. ʻO ka mea pōʻino, hiki i ka wahine wahine ke hoʻonāwaliwaliʻaʻole wale no nā wāhine wale nō, akā no ko lākou mauʻohana a me nā keiki.
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ʻO ka wahine kīkino wahine a me ka hanaʻino ma nāʻohana,ʻaʻole i pili pono. He mea weliweli ia e noʻonoʻo ai, akā, i ka makahiki 2011, ua make nā keiki he 728. Aʻekolu wale nō mau keiki i hāpaiʻia. ʻO nā mea a pau i make i ko lākou mau makuahine. A ma kahi o nā hihia a pau i nāʻohana o ia mau keiki, ua hoʻohana nā mākua i ka nui o ka waiʻona.
ʻO ka hana hoʻomāinoino i nā keiki he mea maʻamau loa ia i loko o kahiʻohana pilikino. ʻAʻole kēia he mea kupanaha, no ka mea, i ka wā o ka inu'awaʻona,ʻaʻole hiki i ke kanaka ke pane pololei i nā mea a uaʻikeʻo ia i nā hanana. ʻO ka maʻi o nā makuahine a me nā hanaʻino ka home kahi kumu nui e komo ai nā keiki i loko o nā haukapila a laila hele i nā pani keiki. Akā, hikiʻole i ke kānāwai ke hoʻopau i kēlā mau mea weliweli, no ka mea, ma ke kānāwai i loaʻa ai nā mākua i kahi manawa pōkole a iʻole e hoʻopauʻia e ka hana hoʻopaʻi. ʻO ka manawa pinepine,ʻaʻole makemake nā mākua i kā lākou mau keiki. Hoʻopilikiaʻia ka hana hoʻomāinoino i ke keiki ma o nā noi maʻalahi e hāʻawi i ka mea ai a i ka hiamoe.
ʻO ka hahauʻana o nā mākua i nā keiki
ʻO ka nui o nā makuahine e paʻiʻia e nā keiki hikiʻole ke kū i luna no lākou iho -ʻo ia hoʻi, nā kamaliʻi a me nā kamaliʻi o ke kula makahiki. ʻAʻole ia he mea maʻamau no nā hihia i ka wā e alakaʻiʻia ai e ka hanaʻino i kahi coma. He huhū loa ka wahineʻona lama, no laila,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i maopopo i kāna hana. Hiki i nā hopena i nā maʻi he nui i hanaʻia e ke keiki ma nā lima, nā wāwae a me nā mea likeʻole.
ʻOiai,ʻo ia ka mea i hana mauʻole i nā hakakā ma kaʻohana o ka wahine e inu. Nui nā hihia i ka wā e hoʻomāʻewaʻewaʻia ai nā keiki e kona poʻe hoa noho aiʻole ka inuʻana i nā hoa. I kēia wā, ua pilikia nā wāhine i nā hahauʻana, aʻaʻole paha e kū'ē i nā kāne, no ka meaʻaʻole lākou makemake e loaʻa iā lākou "ma lalo o ka wela wela." Ma ia mau hihia, he mea maʻamau ka hahauʻana o nā keiki, akā, no ka hoʻoponopono wale paha.
ʻO nāʻano likeʻole iʻikeʻoleʻia i loko o nāʻohana,ʻoiai e lohe pinepineʻia ai ka uē a me ka hoʻomāinoinoʻia mai nā hale o nā meaʻona lama. ʻAʻole hoʻolohe nā kama'āina, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe maʻamau. ʻO ka hopena, i kēlā me kēia makahiki, iʻoi aku ka nui o nā keiki heʻumi tausani a me ka make.
ʻO ka hana hoʻomāinoino ma kaʻohana o ka wahineʻonaʻole e hiki keʻikeʻole. Hiki kēia i ka wā eʻeha ai ke keiki no ka nānāʻana. ʻO ka hapanui pinepine, hāʻule nā pēpē mai nā moena, a hoʻokuʻu i nā waiʻona ma luna o lākou iho a hāʻule paha mai nā puka makani. I kēia hihia, ke kau nei ke kānāwai i ka hana hoʻoponopono a iʻole nā'ōlelo i kauʻia. Ma ke ala, inā he mau keiki'ē aʻe i loko o ia mauʻohana,ʻaʻole loa i loaʻa nā mākua i nā kuleana makua. Hāʻawi lākou i kahi keiki eʻae ai a hoʻomau i ka inu me ka hoʻohanaʻoleʻana i kahi penikala ma luna o ke keiki.
ʻO ka wahineʻona wahine he nui loa aku ka weliweli ma mua o ke kāne, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe makua kāne o nā kamaliʻi o nā wāhineʻona lama,ʻaʻohe mea e lawe aku iā lākou mai ka hale aku. ʻOiai, he mea maikaʻi loa i ka loaʻaʻana o nā kupuna wahine a makua kāne paha e hiki ai ke ho'ōla i kahi keiki mai kahi makuahine kūponoʻole i ka manawa,ʻaʻole maopopo i kāna mea e hana nei. Me ka wahine i ka ona ona,ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī ke kūkākūkā ma mua o ke kāne. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, hāʻuleʻo ia i loko o nā mea pīhoihoi a hoʻomaka e hoʻokuʻu i ka huhū ma luna o ka huhū,ʻo ia hoʻi ke keiki.
ʻO ka mea i loko o ka pīpī e lilo i mea pupule, no laila, hikiʻole ke mālama kūkākūkā maikaʻi me ia, hoʻomaopopo iā ia i kekahi mea, a pēlā aku nō. No laila, hikiʻole ke palekana i nā pilina ma kaʻohana i kahi wai inu, i ka wā paha he makuahine lāua. ʻO ka mea wale nō e hoʻopili ai i ka kuleana o nā mākua. Akā, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe hana i loko o ke kānāwai, no laila, he nui nā keiki heʻumi o nā keiki i make a make i nā lima o nā mākua i kēlā me kēia makahiki.