1. laweʻia.
I Hollywood, nā kāne e like me ka hōʻikeʻana ua hana waleʻia kekahi no kekahi. Inā laweʻia e ka pale o nā holoholona, a laila, pili pū. Hele kekahi i kahi manawaʻuhane, mālama kekahi i nāʻanoʻano o nā holoholona, kōkua kekahi i nā keiki, aʻo kekahi e hana i nā manaʻo like. E ho'āʻo e loaʻa i kahi mea likeʻole e pili ana iāʻoe a me kāu kanaka - no laila e neʻe aiʻoe i kahi neʻeʻana i nā hōkū.
2. He kuleana.
ʻO ka hopena nui e pili ana i nā manaʻo nui. Loaʻa iāʻoe iā lākou, akāʻo ka hui kūkākūkāʻana o nā mālama no ka pō e hiki mai ana,ʻaʻoleʻo ia ka mea e pono ai. ʻO nā maka'āinana e like me ka hoʻomakaʻana i nā puaʻa - hoʻokahi noʻelua. Hiki paha iā lākou ke noʻonoʻo hou i ka kuleana o nā mākua, akā paha lākou makemake e loaʻa kekahi mea like. Ma kekahi hihia, he manawa maikaʻi kēia e nānā ai i ka hoa, a ua loaʻa iā lākou ka wā e hoʻohana ai iā Orlando Bloom,ʻo Kirsten Dunst a me nā mea'ē aʻe he lehulehu.
3. E pono.
Ināʻaʻoleʻoe i kahi manawa aloha, akā aiaʻoe ma ka huli ikaika, hiki paha iāʻoe ke hana i kekahi hiʻohiʻona mai nāʻano kaulana kaulana. Hoʻomaka lākou i nā puke i ka manawa wale nō o ka puʻuwai, akā, me ka hoʻolālā maʻamau, e koho i nā pono kūpono. ʻAʻole ia he kālā, akā, he mau meaʻike hou hoʻi, ka pilina, ka manawa kūpono e holomua ai i kāuʻoihana a loaʻa nā miliona i koe e kāu hana pono'ī. Aia kekahi huaʻai kani ma kēia, ma kekahiʻano, e nui ka pōmaikaʻi mai iaʻano pilina.
4. Noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka pono.
ʻO ka mea kaulana i ka hoʻoweliweli i ka lehulehu -ʻo kā lākou berena ia, no ka mea,ʻo kaʻoi aʻe o ko lākou makemake,ʻoi aku ka nui o kā lākou uku. Ua hoʻoholo nā helu he nui e kaʻawale loa mai ka manaʻo o ka lehulehu a ua hāpai nui ma mua o ka maleʻana. A hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻohālike iā Katie Holmes a iʻoleʻo Gwyneth Paltrow, akā i loaʻa iā lākou ke keiki i ka manawa i holomua ai lākou a inā nō lākou i hōʻole i ke kōkua mai ko lākou makuakāne, hiki iā lākou ke hana me ke kākoʻo ole. Akā, ua makaukau aneiʻoe no ka hoʻololiʻana?
5. E kau i ia.
Inā heleʻoe i kahi huakaʻi, i ka Zags, i ka pikiniki - mai hūnāʻoe, akā e hōʻike koke i ka honua e pili ana i kāu mau hoʻolālā. I kēlā me kēia hihia,ʻo kāu mau punahele e makemake ai e hana wale nō. Hōʻike lākou i ka hoʻokōʻana no ka makahiki ma mua o ka hanaʻana, e pili ana i ka maleʻana no nā makahiki heʻelua a he meaʻoleʻole inā e loli nā kumumanaʻo,ʻaʻole ka mea nui e lilo i ka lilo o ka lehulehu. I kou hihia,ʻo ka hana a nā mea pā e pāʻaniʻia e nāʻohana a me nā hoaaloha, e hoʻomaopopo iā lākou i kāu puke no nā mea pāʻani, e loaʻa iā lākou kekahi mea e kamaʻilio ai, akāʻaʻoleʻoe i kahi.
6. He nui.
ʻO kahi pukeʻano maʻalahi, i kū'ē i kāu mau ho'āʻoʻana e lilo i mea nui, alakaʻi i kahiʻahaʻaina, he mea hōʻoluʻolu. E ho'āʻoʻiʻo nā hōkū maoli e hoʻolei aku i kekahi mea ma muli o ka piliʻole o ka pilina. Ma keʻano he mauʻano likeʻole: hiki iāʻoe ke lawe i ke kāne wahine mai kahi hoaaloha, a hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻokaʻawale i nā kāne, hiki iāʻoe ke hele aku iā ia mai kāu hoa mai, aiʻole e hiki iāʻoe ke'ōwili wale i kahi hōʻino me kahi hōʻailona hōʻike o ke apo. He mea hikiʻole paha ma hope o kēia mau hana ke hele mai kekahi e nīnau iāʻoe, akā he mau manawa lōʻihi e kūkākūkā ai kou mau mākua.
7. E hoʻomaopopo i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
ʻAʻole, maiʻimiʻoe i ka wānana i loko o kou iho, no ka meaʻoi loa ia. Akā, ua lōʻihi ka manawa i hanaʻia e nā kānaka i nā laikini male e kōkua iāʻoe e wānana i kāu mea aloha, i ka mea e hiki mai ana iā ia a me kona waiwai, inā e wikiwikiʻo ia e haʻalele iāʻoe, e hoʻololi a pale paha i ka hulu hipa. E noʻonoʻo i nā'ōhū a pau o nā paio, inā paha nā mea a pau i hiki i ka wahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana ma hope o ka wāwahiʻana i nā rula, aia wale nōʻoe, aʻaʻole miliona.
Inā hahaiʻoe i kēia mauʻano maʻalahi maʻalahi, hiki koke iāʻoe iho i loko o kā lākou mau kāmaʻa: ka makaʻala, ka'ōhumu, ka hana ma hope, ka hōʻino a me ka hana no ka lehulehu. ʻO kēia nāʻano kūʻokoʻa o ke ola o kahi kanaka kaulana, aʻaʻole wale wale i kēlā mau manawa kupanaha āu eʻike nei ma ka TV. I ka hopena, hiki iāʻoe ke kali no ka māheleʻoi loa, kahi kūpono no ka hoʻoponopono kiʻiʻoniʻoni ma nā puʻu o Hollywood. Akā e hōʻoluʻolu anei kēia iāʻoe?