ʻAuhea wale nō kā mākou, aʻaʻoleʻo Iran he mea'ē aʻe. ʻO ka hapa nui o kā mākou wahine i lawe aku i kahi'āina mimiki oʻAmelika, akāʻo ka nui o nā kānaka ke ola nei. No keʻano e ulu ai ko lākou ola ma kahi'āina'ē, e haʻiʻia nā kuleana o nā wāhine ma Iran a me ko lākouʻano ola e like me kēiaʻatikala, i kūkuluʻia ma luna o nā hōʻike hōʻike.
Pehea lākou e ola nei i nā wāhine Hawaiʻi?
ʻO nā wāhine Lūkini, nā mea i loaʻa i kēia mau wahi liʻiliʻi i ka hopena, ua noho likeʻole lākou. Nui ka poʻe i hana i kaʻohana maikaʻi ma laila, hānau i nā keiki, a hauʻoli loa i ke ao malihini no mākou. ʻO Oksana, 35, e noho ana ma Tehran,'ōleloʻo ia ke makemake nei nā wāhine Lūkini nui i nā hui kūikawā, i ka wā e'ākoakoa ai lākou i kahi'ōpuni o nā wāhine wahine e kamaʻilio i kā lākou'ōlelo pono'ī, e kūkākūkā i nā lono i hōʻea mai iā lākou mai Māmālani mai, e mele i kā mākou mele a hula i ko mākou pop. I nā ahiahi e hiki ai i kahi wahine ke hoʻomaha, hoʻokaʻawale i kāna mau hiʻona hilahila a manaʻo hou iā ia iho, e like me kona'āina hānau pono'ī.
Ma luna o nā papaʻainaʻo Olivier i kaʻeha,ʻo ka uila he kukui ia a lākou e hoʻomākaukau ai, a inā e halihaliʻia, e laweʻia e nā koloka buckwheat kaulana,ʻaʻole loa eʻikeʻia ma loko o Iran. Ke nānā nei mākou i nā kī a me nā moʻolelo o kā mākou mau meaʻoihana iʻikeʻia,ʻaʻole loa i ko lākou'āina, keʻike nuiʻia nei.ʻAʻole pono i nā momona a me ka puaʻa i ka hānai keiki hipa no nā makahiki he nui o nā poʻe Mahometa.
Hoʻomanaʻoʻia ko mākou mau lāina ma keʻano kumu -ʻo ka makahiki hou, Malaki 8, e kipa aku i kaʻEkalesia Orthodox,ʻoiai paha ua hoʻokauʻia nā mea a pau e hōʻoia i ka hoʻomana. Hōʻikeʻo'Oksana he mea hikiʻole paha. ʻAʻole loa ka huhū o nā mea pili i ke kāne, akā ināʻaʻoleʻoe eʻae i ka'Islama, kokokeʻoe i ka lohe i nā hōʻino a hiki i ka hopena o kou ola.
ʻO nā kānāwai o Iran he mea ia e aneaneʻole lākou e lawelawe -ʻaʻole i'āponoʻia ma ka'āina. Pono ka wahine e noho ma ka home me kāna mau keiki, mālama i ka hale mālama, a me ke kāne no kāna kāne e mālama ai i kaʻohana. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo nā moena hou keʻae nei i nā wāhine e hana,ʻoiai,ʻo nā kālā a pau i loaʻa iā ia, e like me ke kānāwai,ʻo ia wale nō. Akā,ʻo ke kāne, ma kēia hihia, hiki iā ia ke hōʻole iʻole e kōkua iā ia ma ka hale. Inā makemakeʻoe e hana, a laila e hoʻomahaʻoe i ka hoʻomaha, ke haʻi ikaika neiʻo Iran i kona makemake e hana ma waho o ka home o kāna wahine.
I loko o Iran, heʻano kaiāulu kēlā e hui pū nei i nā wāhine a pau o ka Slavic. Kākoʻo lākou i kekahi i kekahi, kōkua i nā pilikia paʻakikī. Eia kekahi, hāʻule lākou i loko o kēia kaiaulu ma nāʻano likeʻole. ʻO wai i hālāwai i ke alanui alanui, kahi ma waena o nā hoaaloha. Ua ho'āʻo nā wāhine e mālama i waena o ko lākou mau pili,ʻoiai inā he mauʻaoʻao likeʻole lākou o Iran.
ʻO ke kūlana o ka wahine ma Iran
E maikaʻi nā mea a pau,ʻo Zoya, i hānauʻia ma Odessa, he'ōlelo pololei. ʻAe, eia kā kāua mau keiki, i hānauʻia maʻaneʻi, e ulu aʻe i Peresia. A aia nā kānāwai ma kaʻaoʻao o ka makuakāne,ʻaʻoleʻo ka makuahine. Inā haʻaleleʻoe i kāu kāne, e loaʻa iāʻoe kāu mau keiki. Akā,ʻaʻole nā wāhine a pau ma Iran i mare no ka ola. Maʻaneʻi, mai ka wā kahiko mai, uaʻaeʻia nā mareʻana o ka wā liʻiliʻi (kekahi mea e like me ko kāua pili noho kanaka). Ke hōʻoia wale nei lākou ma ka notary. He nui nā wahine e hana nei a hele i ke kulanui a noho ma kahiʻano lōʻihi. Me he mea lā me kāna kāne, a me ka manawa hoʻokahiʻole.
Ke aloha nei ko Peresia i kā mākou mau wāhine, nā māhele Russian Svetlana. Manaʻo lākou he poʻeʻoiaʻiʻo maoli a hoʻomaʻamaʻa hoʻi nā Lūkini. Inā he kaikamahine Hawaiʻi, i ka wā i mareʻia aiʻo ia, ke noi aku neiʻo ia i kāna wahine i ka wā e hiki ai iā ia ke kākau i kahi palapala male, a laila ua mākaukau nā kānaka e hoʻokuʻu wale iā lākou, e makemake wale ana i ke aloha a me kaʻoiaʻiʻo. Inā hikiʻole i kahi kanaka ke hoʻolako pono iā ia, a laila,ʻaʻole ia e hōʻino wale iā ia, akā, ua māʻona ia i ka meaʻuʻuku, e kōkua ana iā ia ma mua o kāna mea e hiki ai. Ma keʻano laulā, ua like ko mākou ma nā wahi like me ko mākou'āina hānau,ʻo ia ke kumu i makemake nui ai nā poʻe Komohana.
Ke nīnauʻia iā lākou pehea e pili ai i nā kuleana o nā wāhine, e'ō'ō. Ua manaʻo nā wāhine Hawaiʻi iā lākou iho, me ka nānāʻole i nā kānāwai. Aʻo nā nīnau e pili ana i ka polygamy eʻakaʻaka wale ana.
- Noʻonoʻo, noʻonoʻoʻoe no - Irina (hailing mai Ukraine) i ka nui o nā wāhine - ehia ke kālā e pono ai i ke kāne? ʻO nā mea nui, inā he wahine Hawaiʻi kēia,ʻaʻoleʻo kā mākou, a ua māʻona i ka meaʻuʻuku. Hiki i kekahi poʻe Peresia ke mare ma mua o ka 30 o ko lākou hikiʻole, no ka mea, ua pau ka mareʻana ma luna o ko lākou mau poʻohiwi, a hiki i nā kālā ke kūʻaiʻia he $ 5,000. ʻOiai ka lōʻihi e kiʻi iā ia, e lawe mai i hoʻokahi wahine i loko o ka hale! Ma kahi oʻelua aʻoi aku paha nā wāhineʻekolu!
- Loaʻa i nā wāhine he mau mīkini pepa nani, e hahai ana lākou i keʻano a me ka nīnau: peheaʻoe e hoʻohana ai i kēia mea a pau iāʻoe iho, heʻoiaʻiʻo.
- Makemake ka wahine i ka nani a me ka maikaʻi? No laila, he mea maʻalahi loa ia i nāʻano. Ma lalo o ka pale e uhi ai i kahi kāmele nui a me nā kāmele paʻa, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻokiʻekiʻe i nā hoaaloha a ka hoaaloha. A hana nā'ōpiopio. Ma ka hoʻolimalimaʻana i kahi hale ma waho, hoʻonohonoho lākou i nā mea me nā mea inu a me nā hula, nāʻaʻahu komo nani a me nā momoebivshis mamao loa mai ka mana koʻikoʻi o nā lunakahiko.
No laila, hiki i kekahi ke'ōlelo, ma Iran, ke hana mauʻia nei ke ola pālua. ʻO ka helehelena - ke koʻikoʻi, ka pona, a me ka hūnā malūʻole, aʻo ke kānāwai maloʻo,ʻaʻole ia he mea pale. ʻAʻole hiki i nā manawa ke kaumaha i nā wāhine, hiki iā lākou keʻaʻahu i nā meaʻokoʻa,ʻoiaiʻaʻole ka lōʻihi o kaʻaʻahu ma luna o nā kuli, akā,ʻaʻole iʻikeʻia nā'āpana o ke kino ma kahi'ē. Nui nā poʻe e aʻo a hana. Ma nā pūnaewele, nā keiki, nā kaikamāhine pūʻokoʻa i ka hui hoʻokahi i hiki ke hoʻololi pinepine.
No laila,ʻaʻole nā mea a pau e weliweli e like me ka kākauʻana o kekahi mau mea pāʻani,ʻo Svetlana ka minoʻaka. Hanaʻoe i nā mea a pau. Iā wau, e like paha me ka hiʻohiʻona, ka maikaʻi o ka muzhochen a me nā keiki. ʻAʻole wau e ho'āʻo i ka hōʻinoʻana i kā lākou mau moʻomeheu, a no ka hoʻomanawanuiʻana o kaʻohana iaʻu,ʻaʻohe hewa. ʻO ia wale nō ka'āinaʻo Toskapo Native, no laila,ʻo ia wale nō ka mea e lawe ai iāʻoe i ke kaumaha. A no laila, ua hoʻohanaʻia. Hoʻohanaʻia ke kanaka i nā mea a pau ...
ʻO nā kāne ma Iran he poʻe hana, mahalo, a hoʻokipa maikaʻi i nā wāhine. I loko o ka hale, ua kōkuaʻia nā wāhine a noho mālie a maikaʻi. ʻO ka mea nuiʻaʻole e kū'ē i nā wāhine aʻaʻole e alualu, e mahalo i kaʻohana, a eia hiki ke ola, - hōʻuluʻuluʻia nā kaikamāhine.