Pehea e lilo ai i mea maʻamau i nā maka o ke kanaka

ʻO ka mea a ke kanaka makemake eʻike ai nā mea a pau:ʻo kāna mea i aloha aiʻo ia he lede i loko o ka lumi noho, he haku wahine ma ka lumi kuke, a he kaikamahine maʻalahi ma ka lumi moe. Uaʻikeʻia kēia e nā wāhine a pau, akāʻaʻole lākou e hoʻohana. ʻO ka hoʻokuʻuʻana i ke kanaka huhū, he mea maʻamau wale nō ia, aʻo keʻano o ka wahine akamai. Pehea e lilo ai i mea maʻamau i nā maka o ke kanaka, ke aʻo nei mākou mai kēia puke. _ʻO ke ala i ka naʻau o ke kanaka
Uaʻike nā kānaka a pau i ke ala i ka naʻau o ke kanaka ke moe nei i loko o ka'ōpū. A heleʻo ia ma loko o kahi kino ikaika, ka'ōpū. Ke hopohopo nui nei nā kānaka e pili ana i ka'ōpū a ke nānā pono i ka hikiʻana o nā wāhine e koi i ko lākou naʻau. A iʻole e haʻi aku kāu mea aloha iāʻoe i loko o ka hoʻoponoponoʻana, no ka meaʻo ia e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ana iāʻoeʻaʻole ia he mea iā ia inā maopopoʻoe i ke kukeʻana aʻaʻoleʻole, mai manaʻoʻiʻo iā ia. A ināʻo ia i ka pō kakahiaka, ka lā awakea a me kaʻaina awakea, ua mākaukauʻo ia e mōhai no ka makemake o ka leʻaleʻa meʻoe, e kaʻu mea i aloha nui,ʻaʻole e lōʻihi kēia lono. ʻO ka liʻuliʻu e hoʻomakaʻo ia e hīmeni iāʻoe, a laila e noi mai nei iāʻoe e hānai iā ia. A inā he paʻakikīʻoe, a laila e haʻi wale akuʻo ia iāʻoe i kahi moe kolohe, e wehewehe ana i kona nawaliwali.

He aha ka mea e hānai ai i ke kanaka i ka mea o kou kuko, ke hāpai i kona poʻo mai kahi pālahalaha o ka meaʻaiʻono, a me kāuʻano pono'ī, i aloha ai meʻoe no ka wa pauʻole? ʻO ka mea mua, pono mākou e hoʻomaopopo iā mākou ihoʻaʻole nā ​​kānaka e like me mākou, he mau kānaka kūikawā lākou. ʻAʻole lākou e māʻona i ka yogurt, ka oatmeal a me kahi'āpanaʻai. ʻIkeʻoe, loaʻa iā lākou kekahiʻano physiology. Eia kekahi, hoʻonui lākou i ka ike (e noʻonoʻo i ka nui o nā mea e komo ai i loko o kahi moe kolohe). No laila, pono e hānaiʻia lākou e kaʻepekema.

Hāʻai ke kanaka i ka lawaʻana, aʻaʻole hoʻi e hōʻoluʻolu i ka pilikia (no ka mea eia kekahi mauʻaoʻao maikaʻi). ʻO nā mea a pau, he kanaka pōloli, he kanakaʻino kēia. A me kēia,ʻaʻole pono iāʻoe ke hoʻohenehene. ʻAi a me kaʻiʻo wale nō! Ināʻaʻoleʻo ia,ʻaʻole hoʻokahi kanaka (koeʻo ia he meaʻaiʻole). Aʻo kaʻiʻo wale nō ka mea maoli,ʻaʻoleʻo nāʻano meaʻai a me nā kui. ʻOi, nā huaʻalea a me nā hua laʻa - me he mea la i meaʻai i ka meaʻai maʻamau. He kāne mālamaʻole nā ​​kāne. Aia kā lākou puna punahele, hiki iā lākou keʻai i kēlā me kēia lā. No laila,ʻaʻole e halihaliʻia e nā meaʻai maikaʻi, akā, e hānai i ke kanaka me kāna mea aloha.

A i ka hopena, ma kou lima - ka mana o ke kanaka. A mai ka mākaukau akamai o kaʻike ma kēia wahi e hilinaʻi i ka manawa e aloha aiʻo ia iāʻoe. ʻO ka hoʻohālikelike o nā hormones male kāne e pili ana i kaʻiʻo. E ho'āʻoʻole e hānai i kāu kanaka i ka meaʻai no nā lā he mau lā - aʻo ia koke nō ka sneknet. Akā, aia nāʻano o nā loloka (honey, nuts, aʻoi aku - kūʻai a aʻo i ka pukeʻai i hoʻolaʻaʻia), me kā lākou kōkua e hiki iāʻoe ke hana i nā mea kupaianaha. Eʻole, aʻaʻole e paʻakikī iāʻoe e hoʻokuʻu iā ia!

Make i ke aloha - no laila ke mō'ī wahine
Ma ka nānā mua waleʻana, manaʻoʻia he mau mea kāne ke kāne, aʻo lākou wale nō ka wahine. Akā, no ka maikaʻi o kou hiamoe, no ka nui o kou mau manaʻo, no ka mea he aha nā mea āu e hana ai ma laila, he waiwaiʻoleʻoe, inā heʻano lōʻihiʻoe, eʻike maoliʻoe i nāʻano'ē aʻe i nā maka o ke kāne.

ʻAʻole wau makemake e'ōlelo aku i ke kakahiaka e ala anaʻoe mai kahi moe, ponoʻoe e komo i nā kapaʻaʻahu monastic, a me ka'ōlelo hoʻomana e kauʻia ma kou mau maka. He mea lahilahi nā mea a pau maʻaneʻi. E lilo i wahine a me nā hiʻohiʻona i nā maka o ke kanaka, akā, no kaʻoluʻolu wale nō, aʻaʻole e hoʻokuʻu i kona mau hoaaloha. Pono kāu kohoʻana e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i nā mea a pau e mahalo iāʻoe, akāʻoʻoe wale nō. Heʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o konaʻikeʻana iāʻoe i kahi lede (keʻoleʻoe hoʻokahi), akā ma ka manawa hoʻokahi e hoʻomanaʻo i ka hoʻokuʻuʻiaʻana me ia i ka pō nei. He mea hauʻoli loa kēia, eʻikeʻoe. ʻO keʻano maoli, ināʻaʻoleʻoe e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka hoʻomauʻana o ka pilina me ia, a laila hiki iā ia ke lawe i ka maunu ma kahi pāpale kila, a ma kāuʻaʻahu maikaʻi. Akā, ma keʻano he kūlana,ʻaʻole i manaʻo nā kāne i kēlā mau wahine i mau hoa o ke ola.

He aha'ē aʻe i kūʻole i ke kiʻi o kahi wahine? ʻO ka mea mua, nā mea likeʻole a pau: keʻano o ka lauoho o ka lauoho, kaʻokiʻana, ka papalina, ka make-up mau, ka'iliʻoki a penaʻia nā makaʻopa, nā mea momona nui a me nā meaʻono. ʻAe,ʻuʻuku ka wahine e hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā ia iho. Inā maopopo iāʻoe he nani kēia mau mea a pau, e hāpai i ka leʻaleʻa o ka manaʻo o kāu kāne, akāʻaʻole paha eʻaeʻo ia meʻoe.

A,ʻoiaʻiʻo, kāu hana. Hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻohiki i kahi moe (ʻo kekahi mau kānaka e hoʻouluʻoli nei), akā, mai ho'āʻo e loaʻa i kēia i ka lehulehu. Eʻoluʻolu a pilina me kona mau hoaaloha, a me kona makuahine paha (e like me ka mea i manaʻoʻia eʻoe) - e manaʻoʻiʻo mai iaʻu, e uku pākuʻi hou ia, a hiki iāʻoe ke maʻalahi iā ia. ʻO ka wahine i make,ʻaʻole ia heʻike i ka poʻe naʻau haʻahaʻa. E hāʻawi i kāu mea i waeʻia mai kēia, ināʻoʻoe, he lede.

ʻO ke Akua wahine
Ma kēia māhele, mākou a pau e nānā iā mākou iho he mau akamai. A inā nōʻoe e kuke i ka mea maikaʻi, a nui kou makemake i makemakeʻia, i ka wahine,ʻoʻoe ka mea maikaʻi loa. Eia naʻe,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e haʻaheo. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻoiai inā ua aʻoʻoe i ka Kama Sutra a pau,ʻaʻole ia he mea e heleʻole aku ai ke kanaka iāʻoe. ʻAʻole lākou i maʻalahi e like me ka mea iʻikeʻia, aʻo kaʻoihana maʻamau no lākouʻaʻole ia ka mea nui loa. Eia naʻe,ʻikeʻoe i kēia me mākou. Makemake mākou e hoʻomanaʻo iāʻoe i nā mea e waiwai ai nā kānaka i loko o ka moe, ma kā lākou mau mea moekolohe.

Makemake lākou i ka manawa wikiwiki a me ka manawaʻole. Mai hoʻopili i kou pale (keʻole ia he mea e pono ai). Makemake lākou i kahi wahine iʻole e hōʻinoʻia e kona kino. ʻO nā mea a pau o kou mau umauma a me kou kahuna, mai hana i kēia pilikia (i mua o ke kanaka). Make kāne nā kāne i nā wāhine aloha i ko lākou kino a ke hilinaʻi nei i ko lākou kūlanaʻole. Mai pāʻaniʻoe iāʻoe iho me ka noʻonoʻo, e hūnā ana ma lalo o ka pākeke, e hūnā iā ia mai ko lākou mau pilikia. Uaʻikeʻo ia i nā mea a pau e pili ana iāʻoe. A ke aloha neiʻo ia iāʻoe e like me kouʻano, no ka mea, e hiamoe anaʻo ia meʻoe.

Makemake lākou e liloʻoe i mea maʻamau a nani. ʻO ka nani o ka lole linoʻole kahi'ōlelo. Pono mākou e'ōlelo akuʻaʻole i nā lima o ke "kupunawahine" a me ka poʻe makaʻuʻole, a me nā pīpī pilaʻole a me nā wāhine hānai! Akāʻaʻoleʻo ia wale. Hiki keʻaeʻia nā lauoho pale i ka hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni a iʻole ke keʻena, akā, ua huhū lākou i kahi moe, e like me ka meaʻala maikaʻi, nā mea nani a me nā hana. He kāne mālamaʻole nā ​​kāne. Make lākou i keʻano maoli. ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole kēia manaʻoʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke pale aku i ka lauoho (ma kahi e makemakeʻoleʻia ai) a maʻemaʻe. Makemake lākou i ka wahine eʻole e hanaʻino - hiki iā ia ke "haki i kona hale kiaʻi" a hoʻonāukiuki iā ia. Ināʻoe e koi mau i kēlā me kēia manawa ua piliʻo ia iāʻoe i kahiʻoihana misionari, a laila,ʻaʻole i loaʻa ia ia i kahi kakahiaka aʻe. E ho'āʻo e hoʻomaka e'āpono e hana i nā mea āna e hāʻawi ai iāʻoe, a laila e hoʻoholo inā makemakeʻoe e hoʻomau i ka hana.

E hoʻohana i kēia mau'ōlelo aʻo, ae aʻoʻoe i kahi e hiki ai ke lilo i ka moekolohe i mua o ke kanaka. Makemake nā kāne e noʻonoʻo i ka aloha a me ka lokahi. No laila, no ka maikaʻi o kou hiamoe, no ka ponoʻole o ka wahine,ʻaʻoleʻoe heʻeleʻele maikaʻi, inā noʻonoʻoʻo ia i aloha iā ia,ʻaʻoleʻo ia, akāʻo kāna kaʻa, hale noho a me kāleka kāleka, a lailaʻaʻole kāu mau taleni e kōkua iāʻoe. nā maalea. Ināʻole,ʻo ia,ʻaʻoleʻo ia he naʻaupō. I kaʻikeʻana i kēia mau mea huna, hiki iāʻoe ke maʻalahi iā ia.