Malia paha he mea aloha i ko mākouʻohana i ka manawa mua, akā naʻe, uaʻikeʻia nā manaʻo e paʻaʻole. A hiki mai ka manawa ke hoʻomakaʻoe e nīnau i kāu mau nīnau, no ke aha e hana ai nā mea a pau. ʻAʻoleʻoe i hāʻawi iāʻoe iho i kumu e hōʻemi ai i ka makemake o ke kāne iāʻoe iho? Uaʻike kekahi mea kākau'ōlelo Pelekāne aʻo Philosopher Pierre Boast e " ʻaʻole ikaika nā wāhine i ka wā i hoʻokauʻia ai lākou me ko lākou kūlanaʻole."
ʻO keʻano o ke kilokilo
Hiki iāʻoe ke hālāwai aku i nā wāhine he nui wale nā hiʻohiʻona a me nā mea nani a hikiʻole ke kāheaʻia a he mau maka'āinana kā lākou mau hiʻohiʻona. Akā naʻe,ʻo kā lākou wahine wahine ka mea e makemake ai a maikaʻi i nā maka o kā lākou mau kāne. I ko mākou mau lā,ʻo ka wahine male he mea nui loa. Hoʻoholo ka wahine i kēia manawa i kahi nohona ola a paʻakikī i ka hoʻokōʻana i kāna mau pahuhopu, inā ma ke keʻaleʻa a iʻole e holomua i ka lālā hana. Akā,ʻaʻole kēia he maikaʻi, akā, uaʻikeʻoe i ka loli o kouʻano, nānā, a me nā hiʻohiʻona? E huli aʻe kāua i ka poʻe nona nā kiʻi a hiki i kēia lā e hoʻoulu ai i nā poʻe he nui e hoʻohālike.
E hoomanao i ke alii wahine o Aigupita, Cleopatra. ʻO ka makuahine o nā keikiʻehā a me ke aliʻi o kahi moku holoʻokoʻa - he kumu ia no ka hoʻohālikeʻana o kahi wahine hou? I kēlā manawa hoʻokahi, uaʻikeʻiaʻo iaʻo ka mea lanakila nui o nā naʻau o kānaka, aʻo kānaʻoihana mālama i kona nani pono'ī, ua ola a hiki i kēia lā, e hoʻomanaʻo i nā huna o Cleopatra a me kaʻauʻau o Cleopatra. Akā, he wahine maikaʻiʻo ia? Ma kēia kumu, aia nā manaʻo likeʻole. ʻO kekahi poʻe eʻike i kona helehelena me ka lōʻihi o ka ihu a me ka wili paʻa. ʻO ka nui o nā kumu i iho mai iā mākou mai ka wā kahiko mai, he manaʻo koikoi ka mō'īwahine, he kahuna nui nui, aʻo ka leo haʻahaʻa e hiki ke hana i kekahi. Noʻelua tausani makahiki,ʻaʻole i hoʻomaha kona inoa e hoʻopilikia i nā manaʻo o nā mea akamai kiʻi o nā wā likeʻole, e like me Shakespeare, Pushkin, Bernard Shaw a me nā mea'ē aʻe. ʻO nā kiʻi o ke mō'ī wahine, i mālamaʻia i nā kiʻi a me nā'āpana - heʻano likeʻole ia aʻaʻoleʻike hoʻokahi i kānaʻikepili waho. ʻOiai keʻano o ka wahine. He mea hūnāʻo Cleopatra, e hūnā ana iā mākou i konaʻike maoli ma lalo o ka pale o nā kenekulia.
Ehia mau moʻolelo e pili ana i ka Mō'īwahine o Seba? Ma kekahi o nā puke Talmud, mahaloʻia ka Midrash, kona manaʻo a me ka nani. Ua lanakila ma luna o ke aliʻiʻo Solomona. Uaʻoluʻolu loaʻo ia i ka mō'īwahine o Seba i manaʻoʻo ia ka diabolō i loko o konaʻano. No laila, ua heleʻo ia me ka maalea e ho'āʻo ai i kāna mea i manaʻo ai, me ka manaʻoʻana he mau kao kupa ia ma kahi o ka wāwae o ka mō'īwahine. I ka manawa o ka hōʻeaʻana o ka tsarina, ua kūkuluʻo Solomona i kahi hale hoʻolulu me kahi aniani aniani kahi i'ōpala ai ka iʻa a noi i ka nani e komo i loko o ke keʻena. Ua pihoihoiʻo ia i ka wā i hāpai ai ka mō'īwahine i kona lole ma luna o ka wai, e like me ka mea e hanaʻia e kekahi wahine'ē aʻe, a ma lalo iho he mau wāwae wahine maoli, akā, he mau pale a me ka lauoho,ʻaʻole maikaʻi loa. Ke manaʻo neiʻoe ma hope iho o ka makemakeʻole o Solomona iā ia? ʻO keʻano o ka mō'īwahine, me kahi pūʻali nui,ʻelua mau puʻupuʻu a me nā puʻupuʻu nani kūlohelohe, ua hahau iā ia ma kahi. ʻAe, no ka mea,ʻo ka hua o ko lākou alohaʻo kā lāua keiki.
He aha ka mea male?
ʻO ka wahineʻo ia ka hui pūʻana o ka lokomaikaʻi, hoʻoponopono a me nā pilakī. Uaʻike kokeʻia ka wahine male, e hōʻike ana i keʻano likeʻole i nāʻano hakakā ikaika o ke kanaka. Ma muli o ka wahine haʻahaʻa a palupalu, ua mākaukau ke kanaka mauna e huli, e hōʻike ana iā ia iho i kona ikaika a me kāna kāne. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo ka mea nui no ke kanaka ke hoʻomaopopo i kona mana. Uaʻike pūʻo Charles Baudelaire e "he wahine ke kono i ka hauʻoli."
Pehea e nānā ai i ka wahine?
ʻO ka mea nui loa,ʻo ia ke hōʻoia i kaʻokoʻa ma waena oʻoe a me ke kanaka. Hāʻawi i nāʻene a me nāʻeleʻeleʻeleʻele, a me nā mea a pau e hana ai i keʻano o keʻano kanaka, a me nā kaula, nā kapa a me nā mea'ē aʻe o nā lole o ke kāne. He mea maikaʻi ke hoʻokolohua ināʻikeʻoe i ka hana, akāʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻohanaʻana i nāʻano wahine - i nā hulu, i nā pāpale, i nā poho, i nā mea e hoʻoheheʻe ai.
ʻAʻoleʻoe e kala nui? Peheaʻoe eʻakaʻaka ai? Hanaʻoe i keʻano maʻamau a me ke akamai i ka nānāʻana i ka'ōnika? Ehia mau manawa e hoʻoleʻaleʻa aiʻoe? Ke mahalo nei anei lākou i kou lokomaikaʻi a me kāu mau hana? Ināʻaʻole, he pono ke nānā iāʻoe iho ma waho a noʻonoʻo. ʻAʻole i kaʻawale wale nā wāhine haʻahaʻa a haʻahaʻa. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ma ka mea mua, mahalo nā kānaka i ka noho male.