Akā, maʻaneʻi, eʻike mau i ka noʻonoʻo.
ʻO nā kāne ma keʻano he poʻe keiki, makemake lākou e nānā i nā kiʻi nani. A inā he mea maikaʻi ka kaikamahine, he mea kupaianaha ia. ʻO ke kaikamahine maikaʻi a maikaʻi, e hoʻomanaʻo mau i ka manaʻo o nā kānaka.
Akā, no ka hoʻopaʻapaʻaʻana,ʻo ka helehelena o ke kanaka ka mea nui ma ke ola,ʻaʻole pono. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo ke hālāwaiʻoe me kahi kanaka e nānā mua i keʻano o ke kaikamahine - he meaʻoiaʻiʻo. Akā, heʻokoʻa keʻano o ka helehelena, no ka mea he kanaka koʻikoʻi ka mea nui i ka hilinaʻiʻana o ke kaikamahine no kona kūlanaʻole. Ināʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kaikamahine ma mua o Naomi Kembel, a mālamaʻia i ka manawa like me ka mea nui o ka series series TV "Mai hānau maikaʻi," a laila e paleʻia kēlā kaikamahine e kahi kāne. ʻAʻole hoʻolohe ka kāne iā ia, no ka mea ua nui kona paʻakikī aʻaʻole heluhelu kona mau maka i ka hilinaʻi i kona nani a me kona ikaika. Akā,ʻike pinepineʻoe i ke kaikamahine i nele i ka nani o kona helehelena a iʻole kona helehelena maikaʻi, ho'ākoakoaʻo ia i kahi pūʻali koa e puni ana iā ia. A no ke aha? A no nā mea a pau e maopopo ana iā ia he hikiʻole ke kūlike a me ka meaʻelua aʻaʻole hiki. ʻO ka hoʻohālikeʻana i kāu iho he mea ikaika ia e hana nei e like me kahi'ōhū'ōpala.
He aha mai nei mai? ʻO ka mea iʻikeʻia no ke kanaka,ʻaʻole ia he mea nui loa. ʻO ka mea nui,ʻo ke kūlana o ka hilinaʻi i ke kaikamahine a me kona helehelena'ōlohelohe. Hiki ke lilo i kekahi kaikamahine i mea nani, he wahi pokoldovav i kona hiʻohiʻona - he kapa nani nani, he mea make-up a he leka i kona maka -ʻo ia ka mea kaua nui a ka wahine i ke kaua me nā kāne.
A'ānō, e hoʻolālā i ke kūlana a pau a me ka. ʻO ka manawa o ka hālāwai mua:ʻike mua ke kanaka i keʻano o ke kaikamahine. Piliʻo ia i keʻano o kona paʻaʻana, pehea kona nānā, kāna kiʻi, kona akaʻaka, a pēlā aku nō. A laila, i ka manawa e ho'ākoakoa aiʻo ia i kona ikaika a pau i ka lima, a hele mai e hoʻomaʻamaʻa, e hoʻomakaʻia kekahi kamaʻilioʻana ma waena o lākou. I kēia manawa, e hoʻoloheʻole ke kanaka i ka mea āna iʻike ai me kona mau maka. E nānā akuʻo ia i nā hana, ka timbre o ka leo, ka nānā. E hoʻoloheʻo ia i ke kaikamahine. Ma kēia manawa, e like me kou hoʻomaopopo, e hele ana kou helehelena ma ke kua. I ka wā mua, e puka mai kou manaʻo pono'ī.
A he aha ka mea e hiki mai ana? Inā hoʻopunipuni wale kekahi kanaka i kou helehelena, akā, i loko o ko loko o ka honua i makemakeʻoleʻoe iā ia ma kekahiʻano, mai kaliʻoe no kahi lōʻihi lōʻihi. ʻAʻole hiki i ka helehelena nani ke mālama i kahi kanaka kokoke iā ia.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ke kūlana kiʻekiʻe. Aia kekahi kanaka meʻoe no ka mea e like pahaʻoe me he Miss Universe aiʻole he kaikamahine maʻamau i kahi hiʻohiʻona maʻamau. Inā ua hiki iāʻoe ke komo i loko o kona puʻuwai a hoihoi aku iā ia, a laila, hiki iāʻoe ke maopopo e hana maikaʻiʻo ia iāʻoe.
Ke aloha kanaka, alohaʻo ia iāʻoe ma kekahiʻano a ma kekahiʻano. E hauʻoliʻo ia e ala pū meʻoe i ke kakahiaka a nānā i kou maka hiamoe. Eʻoluʻoluʻoe iā ia, ināʻoe e hālāwai me ia i ke ahiahi ma hope o ka hanaʻana i ka wili o ka home a me nā palilo nani.
E nā kaikamāhine, he mea pono e hoʻomanaʻo i ko mākou helehelena he mea nani wale nō ia i mea e hoʻohuli ai i ka manaʻo o ke kanaka. Akā,ʻo ka nani o kou naniʻaʻole loa ia e pono ke noho wale meʻoe i ke ahiahi i mua o ka TV. Noho mākou i kahi ao maoli, kahi e mahalo ai i ke Akua, he mau waiwai kūpono maoli nō ka poʻe,ʻaʻole maikaʻi.