ʻO ka mea pōʻino, i kaʻikeʻana o kekahi kaikamahine i nā kūkākūkā o nā kāne e pili ana i ka moekolohe -ʻo ia ka huhū a hopohopo paha. Ma muli o ka hilahilaʻole o nā poʻe i ka'ōleloʻino, ka moekolohe no lākou - he mea holoholona wale nō ia, me ke alohaʻole a me ka nani.
No ke aha e'ōlelo pinepine ai nā kānaka e pili ana i ka wahine?
I mea e hoʻonui ai i ka hoʻohanohano iāʻoe iho a me kouʻano hakakā. E kamaʻilio anaʻo Guys i ka wahine, i hoʻopuniʻia e nā hoaaloha, aiʻole nā kaikamahine'ē aʻe. Ma ka noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka moekolohe, hoʻoikaika nā keiki i kekahi i kekahi i nā mea hou i loaʻa i mua o ka wahine.
Ua lohe pinepineʻoe i ka uē o ka moekolohe mai ka waha mai o kahi malihini iāʻoe. I kēia hihia,ʻaʻole hiki i ke kanaka ke nānā aku i kou mau maka. Aʻo kāna kaniʻuhū, ua like me nā'ōlelo wahaheʻe a'ōleloʻino. No ke aha e hana ai nā kāne i kēia a no ke aha lā lākou e koho ai iāʻoe i mōhai?
ʻO kēlā me kēia manawa e lohe aiʻoe i kēia mea, ke ho'āʻo neiʻoe e hoʻolei koke aku i kēia hoʻoloheʻano hoʻoloheʻole. Ke holo kikī nei nā manaʻo i loko o koʻu poʻo: no ke aha i lilo ai au i mea nānā aku i kēia scumbag? Malia paha uaʻaʻahuʻoe me ka hoʻonāukiuki? 'Aʻaʻahuʻaʻahu pokole paha a'ōniʻoni paha?
Hoʻomakaʻoe e huli i loko ou a makehewa. Aia ma kou wahi kahi kaikamahine'ē aʻe. Hāʻawi nā kānaka i kēia mau hua'ōlelo no ka mālamaʻana i ka hanohano o lākou iho a me ka hanohano aliʻi.
Ka makaʻu o nā kāne. ʻAʻoleʻoe e manaʻoʻiʻo, akā, makaʻu loa nā poʻe e hōʻike i ko lākou mau manaʻo maoli a me nā manaʻo. Ke hopohopo nei lākou i kaʻaeʻana i keʻano o ke kaikamahine i mea nui e lanakila aiʻo ia ma luna ona.
ʻAʻohe mea'ē aʻe e weliweli ai no ke kanaka ma mua o ka liloʻana i ka henpecked. ʻO keʻanoʻoi aku, he mea weliweli ia no nā poʻeʻaʻole e lilo i kauwā wahine, he mea hopohopo ia eʻike nā makamaka no ia mea. He hemolele nā hoaaloha no ke kāne aʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hāʻule i mua o ko lākou mau maka.
'Ōlelo pinepine nā kānaka e pili ana i ka wahine, no ka mea, ho'āʻo lākou e hūnā mai kā lākou mau hoa i ko lākou mau manaʻo maoli,ʻo ko lākou aloha i ke kaikamahine. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo kēia loina, he mea nui loa i nā kaikamahine a pau,ʻaʻohe manaʻo i nā poʻe. ʻO nā meaʻoi aʻe,ʻaʻole nā kānaka i kuleana eʻae aku i ka makemake i ke aloha a me ka aloha. Ināʻaeʻo ia i ka mea molowa,ʻaʻole e pili hou nā makamaka iā ia he kanaka. ʻO ke aloha a me ka aloha no ke kanaka he hōʻike ia o ka nāwaliwali. ʻAʻole hiki i kahi kanaka maoli ke lilo iʻelele.
He nui nā'ōlelo a ke kanaka e pili ana i ka moekolohe - no laila e ho'āʻo ana lākou e hōʻike i nā hoaaloha a me nā mea a pau e puni ana iā ia ma kēia kumuhana he kanaka hoʻomaopopoʻo ia he kāne maoli aʻaʻole ponoʻo ia i nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo, kahi e nānā ai nā kaikamāhine a me nā kaikamāhine.
Me nā makahiki, ua nānā nā kānaka i kā lākou hana a hoʻomaka e hana e like me nā kānaka maoli. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, i ka wā'ōpiopio,ʻo ka kamaʻilio pinepineʻana e pili ana i ka moekolohe a me ka hana maʻamau, he mea paʻakikī ia a iʻole ka hana pono e hūnā i ko lākou mau nalo.
'Ōlelo pinepine nā kānaka e pili ana i ka wahine, no ka mea hopohopo lākou e nalowale ka mahalo o kā lākou mau hoaaloha. Inā hiki iā ia ke kākoʻo i ke kumuhana o ke kūkākūkāʻana, a laila, he mea kūpono loa ia -ʻo ia ka mea kokoke i nā kānaka a pau e noʻonoʻo nei.
Ua manaʻoʻia. ʻO ka manaʻo o kēlā poʻe e pili wale ana i ka wahine. No laila, no ka ho'āʻoʻana i nā hoaaloha a pau e pili ana iā ia e likeʻo ia me lākou, e kamaʻilio mau ke kāne e pili ana i ka wahine. A laila, ke kau nei ke kānāwai o nā bipi - ma nā wahi a pau e hele ai, eia wau.
Nā kū mau kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka moekino ma nā keikikāne - he manawa hoʻololi kēia. I kēia manawa, hiki i ke kanaka ke kamaʻilio, nā hana, a me nā hana mai ia ia a loaʻa. ʻAʻole i maopopo nā keiki i nā kaikamāhine i kēlā hana -'ōlelo kū mau e pili ana i ka moekolohe - ke mālamaʻia nei e pili ana i ke kanaka. No laila, e ho'āʻo ana e like me nā mea'ē aʻe,ʻo ke kanaka e pale wale i ke kaikamahine.