ʻO ke kanaka i ke kakahiaka aʻe ma hope o ka wahine

"A kakahiaka aʻe, ua ala lākou ..." -ʻo kēia hua'ōlelo ka mea e pili nei i ka pō ma mua loa me ka hapa lua o kēia helu hoʻopiʻi i kapaʻia "i kakahiaka ma hope o ka wahine." E noʻonoʻo kākou i ke kumuhana pilikino e like me: "He kanaka i ke kakahiaka aʻe ma hope o ka wahine," a noʻonoʻo i nāʻano kumu o ka hana a nā kāne i kēia manawa.

Ua poinaʻoleʻia ka pō, he akahai a maʻalahi i loko o nā wāwae, e hoʻokomo i nā mea a pau āu e makemake ai, e hawanawana iāʻoe i nā hua'ōlelo o ke aloha aʻo ia ke kanaka i makemake nuiʻia. Ua ho'āʻo kēlā mea kēia mea e hāʻawi i kou makemake i piha, a hoʻokomo i loko o ia me kou poʻo, e hana i nā mea a pau e hōʻinoʻole ai kekahi i kekahi. A laila ua hiki mai ka kakahiaka i kakali nuiʻia e ka huiʻana o kēlā me kēia wahine ma ko lākouʻaoʻao iho. No laila, he aha lā nā kāne i ke kakahiaka ma hope o ka moekoloheʻana a iʻole ka kāne kāne ma hope o ka pō pōʻino.

Inā lōkahi kou pilina ma mua o hoʻokahi lā, ua hoʻohana ponoʻoe i kekahi i kekahi, a laila,ʻo nā hana a ke kāne ma hope o ka moeʻana,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hoʻohilahila a me ka hauʻoli. Hiki i kekahi kanaka ke moe hiamoe, e hāpai iāʻoe, inā pahaʻaʻoleʻo ia eʻoluʻolu, akā naʻe hiki iā ia, ua ho'āʻoʻo ia noʻoe, e ka mea aloha a alohaʻia. ʻO kekahi mea'ē aʻe i ka wā e noho anaʻoe i loko o kahi lumi moe me kahi keikikāne hou nāna i lanakila mua iāʻoe ma keʻano o ka moekolohe. A ma hope iho o ka moemoeka, huli koke aʻelaʻo ia i kaʻaoʻao a hiamoe. ʻO ia kahi e hoʻopā pono i ka mea ola. He aha kahi kakahiaka me keʻano maikaʻi. A inā pahaʻoe e hōʻeuʻeu i kāu hoa noho a hāpai iā ia e pili ana i nā rula o ka hana i loko o kāu pahu,ʻaʻole mākou e noʻonoʻo i ka kakahiaka e loli ai kekahi mea ae alaʻoe i kahi hōʻoluʻolu wela.

I kekahi hua'ōlelo, male kāne e like me ka wahine, a iʻole paha i ka hōʻeha o ka hōʻeha kala i ke aloha,ʻaʻole kēiaʻano o nāʻano a pau a kēia kanaka i hōʻike ai ma hope o ka moekolohe. ʻO ka mea pili i ke kakahiaka aʻe. ʻO kekahi ma hope koke o ka wanaʻao kakahiaka e hoʻomaka i ka haʻaleleʻana i ke kahua kaua ma lalo o kekahi kumu. ʻAʻoleʻo ia e nānā pono ana i nā mea āu i manaʻo ai mai kāu macho me kaʻoluʻolu i nā manaʻo maikaʻi o ke kakahiaka. ʻO ka mea mua, mai hōʻino wale iāʻoe iho, ua hanaʻoe i kahi meaʻino a no laila ke kuʻe nei ke kanaka mai iāʻoe. E hoʻomanaʻo waleʻoe, inā paha, ua piha i nā manaʻo, aʻaʻoleʻo ia makemake iāʻoe eʻike iā lākou i kāna hana, aiʻole e manaʻo pahaʻo ia ua hana hewaʻo ia i kekahi mea (i pili pinepineʻia me ka wahine). Ma hope o nā mea a pau, e noʻonoʻo pono i kēlā me kēia kanaka, i kēlā lā i kēia lā a ma waho aku, e hana i ka ikaika o ka Hercules ikaika, ikaika a ikaika, a ma keʻano o ka haku ola. No laila,ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke nalowale i ka hoʻoikaikaʻana iā ia iho a hōʻike iā ia iho i ke aloha a me ke aloha i ke kakahiaka. No laila, i mea e mālama ai i kāna kuleana kūponoʻole, e holo wikiwikiʻo ia mai kou lumi i hiki ai ke hoʻi. ʻAʻoleʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo i ke kakahiaka aʻe, ma hope o kāu pōʻohu aʻe, e hana likeʻo ia. Ponoʻoe e hoʻomanawanui a kali a hiki i ka weheʻiaʻana o ka mea i mua o kou alo a noho i ka pō kakahiaka, a malia paha eʻailaʻo ia iā ia iho, e lawe mai iāʻoe i kahi moe.

Inā hiamoe kāu hoa ma hope koke iho o ka moekolohe, ponoʻoe e kali no ke kakahiaka a ho'āʻo e hōʻike iā ia i kāuʻano i ke poʻo. E hōʻoiaʻiʻo mai iaʻu,ʻo kēia ka hopena i nā hopena maikaʻi a me ke kanaka, eʻike ana i kona "ikaika kanaka", e pānaʻi hou. ʻO ka mea nui, e noʻonoʻo pono, e koho i nā hua'ōlelo pololei. ʻAʻole pono kāu hoʻomaikaʻiʻana e like me ka hōʻuluʻuluʻana o ka pō i hoʻohanaʻia me kahi kanaka, pono ia heʻoiaʻiʻo a lawe i ka mahalo o kekahi hoa. E haʻi iā ia i kona pilikino a nele a nele. Ma ke ala, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i nā mea a pau o luna nei, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻonohonoho i hoa hui "e hana hou i ka wahine." Eʻike i ka makemake nui o nā kānaka i ka maʻalahi o ka moekolohe i ke kakahiaka. A ma keʻano maʻamau, ma hope o ke kakahiaka kakahiaka, e lawe mai i kāu koho i ka kakahiaka kakahiaka ma ka moe. ʻO ia kahi kahi wale nō zandypletʻoe e mahalo ai a me kāna aloha.

Ma konaʻano, he kāne ke mahele o ka wahine mahele i ka nui o nāʻano me nāʻano likeʻole o keʻano. Eia kekahi lā, he kanaka hilahila i ke kakahiaka, ma hope o ka pōʻoʻoleʻa, e noho mālie. A meʻoleʻoe e ho'āʻo ai e kamaʻilio, e kohoʻo ia i nā pane haʻahaʻa i kāu mau nīnau a pau. Eia hou, mai ho'āʻo e lawe i nā mea a pau i kāu moʻokāki. E hoʻomanaʻo i kāu mea i kohoʻia e kali mai iāʻoe i ka mua o nā hua'ōlelo a me nā hana kūkala. E ho'āʻo e wehe iāʻoe iho i mua o kona alo.

ʻO ka lua o kaʻano kāne kāne i ke kakahiaka aʻe e hōʻikeʻia. ʻO kēlā mau mea, e like me keʻano, hoʻomaka ke kamaʻilioʻana iā lākou iho a hiki iā ia ke ala iāʻoe no kēia. Hiki iā ia ke kūkākūkā me nā māhele a me nā mīkini o ka pō i hoʻohanaʻia meʻoe a nīnau iāʻoe i nāʻike keu loa mai kahi kokoke mai iā ia. No laila e mākaukau e pane i kāna mau nīnau a pau. Ma ke ala, hiki iā ia ke hāʻawi i ka wahine kakahiaka kakahiaka.

ʻO kaʻano maʻalahi o ke kanaka he mea pale. I ka wanaʻao,ʻo nā kānaka me ke kaumahaʻole a me ke anu-koko. ʻAʻole nō kā lākou hana i ka hilinaʻiʻole i ka maikaʻi a me ka hewaʻole. ʻO ka mea nui, mai ho'āʻo e hoʻololi i kēlā me ka hoʻololiʻana i kāna hana.

Akā, e hui pū ka mea manaʻo i ke kakahiakaʻaʻole wale iāʻoe wale nō, akā, me nā manaʻo maikaʻi loa a me nā leʻaleʻa. ʻAneʻane hikiʻole i kēia hoa hana e hoʻopau i kekahi mea, ua loli mauʻo ia, ua makaukau a ua mākaukau no nā mea kiʻekiʻe i kāu pilina. Ma ke ala, e kali ana i ke kakahiaka e mahalo iāʻoe,ʻaʻole ia kona hopena. E hana anaʻo ia ma hope o ka moekolohe, a me kaʻoluʻolu eʻoluʻolu e kali i kakahiaka.

E hoʻomau mau ke kanaka pono i kona mau pono. ʻAʻoleʻo ia e noi i ke kakahiaka, e like meʻoe, inā pahaʻoe i makemake i ka pō e noho pū me ia. Akā no ka haʻiʻana iā ia iho, hiki iā ia mai ke kakahiaka a hiki i ke ahiahi. I kēia wā, e ho'āʻo e hōʻoia iā ia i kona hewa, e hahau iā ia me kāna mau kālā a me nā manaʻo.

Aʻo ka hope, keʻano o ke kanaka - he wahine aloha. Pono ke kanaka i kūpono i ka waiwai aʻaʻole i kahi wāwae. E ala mauʻo ia me ka honi a me ka paʻoluʻolu o kona lima. A i ka pō e noho pū ana meʻoe, e pane maiʻo ia, e like me kekahi mea'ē aʻe a me nā mea kilokilo. Me kēia kanaka,ʻaʻole pono e hoʻokolo i nā mea a pau i ka pō, e hoʻoili wale aku iā ia i kona kūlana a me ka manaʻo.

No laila, ua ninaninau mākou i nāʻano nui o kā mākou mau kānaka aloha i ke kakahiaka. I kēia manawa, ke manaʻo nei mākou e hoʻomaopopo pono anaʻoe i ke kanaka e ala mai nei ma hope ou, aʻoiaʻiʻo, ināʻaʻoleʻoe e pili iāʻoe, eʻikeʻoe iā ia e noho waleʻo ia meʻoe no kaʻaina kakahiaka, akā no ka manawa lōʻihi i kou ola. Alohaʻoe!