Ua hāpaiʻoe, a makemakeʻoe eʻike mua i ka mea e hānauʻia, he keikikāne a he kaikamahine paha. ʻO keʻano, aia kahi hana kūikawā no kaʻike muaʻana i ka'ōpiopio o ke keiki - ultrasound a, ma nā'ōlelo'ē aʻe, keʻike i nā mea maʻamau. Akā, e kamaʻilio iki paha mākou e pili ana i kaʻike muaʻana o ka wahine o ka wahine e hiki mai ana - e pili ana i nā moeʻuhane o ka makuahine e hiki mai ana.
ʻAe,ʻoiaʻiʻo, aia nā moe no nā wāhine hāpai e hoʻoholo ai i ka wahine o ke keiki. He aha ka mea e hiki ai i ka wahine ke moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kūlana e pili ana i kahi keikikāne a kaikamahine paha?
ʻO ka manaʻoʻiʻo i nā moeʻuhane a me ka hōʻailona i ke keiki a lākou e hana nei, he hana kahiko ia i hoʻoholoʻia mai kēlā hanauna i kēia hanauna. I kekahi manawa, e moeʻuhane ana nā wāhine hāpai i kā lākou mau keiki i ka wā e hiki mai ana, a ma ka moeʻuhane eʻike lākou i ka mea i hānauʻia me lākou, he keikikāne a he kaikamahine paha. ʻO kēia moeʻuhane wau i moe ai (ʻoiai,ʻoiai, uaʻike wau i ka wahine o kaʻu pēpē hope). Ua hiamoe wau i kaʻu kaikamahine, pehea i moe aiʻo ia i loko o kahi lumi moe, i loko o kahi kapa'ahuʻula. Ma hope iho o ka hānauʻana o kaʻu pēpē,ʻike wau i ke kiʻi pololei loa aʻu iʻike ai ma ka moeʻuhane. I ka hāpaiʻana, ua moe wau i kaʻu kaikamahine e like me ia, he mau mahina ma hope o ka hānauʻana.
'Ōlelo lākou i nā wāhine hāpai e moe mau nei i kā lākou lawaiʻa. Ua moe koʻu makuahine ua hopuʻo ia a me kona makuakāne i ke kāpeka ma ke keʻa, no ka mea he hāpai keiki. Akā, e kali ana iaʻu ma lalo o koʻu puʻuwai, ua moeʻo ia i ka manu nūnū, a lele akula i mua ona. Ma ke ala, ua moeʻuhane au i kahi manu, uaʻoi aku ka pololei parakeet - a ua hānauʻia kaʻu kaikamahine!
Ua'ōlelo mua mai koʻu mau kupunawahine iaʻu inā e moe ana ka mīpī - aia kahi kaikamahine, kahi moe a ka pahi - e loaʻa i kahi keikikāne. A laila hoʻomanaʻo hou wau i koʻu'ōpū. ʻOiai ua make koʻu makuakāne he 10 mau lā ma mua o ka hānauʻana, a i ka iwa o ka lā ua moe au i ka moe, peheaʻo ia e hāʻawi mai ai iaʻu i ke apo me nā hua'ōlelo: "Hauʻoli, e ke kaikamahine!" Ma ka moeʻuhane, manaʻo wau he lā hānau wau iʻOkakopa. ... I koʻu alaʻana, ua maopopo iaʻu nā mea a pau. Ua hōʻoluʻolu mai koʻu makuakāne hope iaʻu i ka lā hānau o kaʻu kaikamahine hope loa, a hāʻawi maila iaʻu i ke komo lima i hōʻailona e hānauʻia ai kāna moʻopuna.
ʻIke wau i ka manawa hānau,ʻo ka hana pono'ī. ʻOiai, e nānā ana i kēia hanana mai kahi manaʻo o kaʻike,ʻaʻole kēia heʻano likeʻole.
Uaʻikeʻia i ka wā o ke kōkō, ua lilo i mau mea i maʻalahi, piha, aʻawaʻawa, a me ka nani. ʻO kekahi wahine hāpai heʻoi aʻe konaʻike i mua o ka uluʻana, no ka mea, uaʻike pinepineʻia nā moeʻuhane. I kekahi manawa, manaʻo kekahi wahine i ka mea e loaʻa iā ia, he keikikāne a he kaikamahine paha, me kaʻole o nā hōʻailona. ʻO nā moe ke kūpono pololei ma kēia mea. A ināʻoe e moeʻuhane i kāu keiki i ka wā e hiki mai ana, a laila,ʻo ke keiki aʻo ka wahine paha i ka moeʻuhane i 90% o nā hihia e pili pū me ka male i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
ʻO nā mea e kōkua ai e hoʻoholo i kahi wahine,ʻo ka wahine o kāna keiki i ka wā e hiki mai ana he nui loa, akā, aia lākou a pau. ʻAʻohe mālama maʻamau no nā mea a pau. No ka weheweheʻana i ka moe, pono eʻike i ka wahine,ʻo konaʻano a me nā mea kūpono e hiamoe. Mai koʻu mauʻike pono'ī, e'ōlelo wauʻaʻole e hiki i kekahi mea'ē aʻe ma mua o kou iho ke ho'ākāka i kāu mau moe iāʻoe. Hiki ke hoʻoikaikaʻana i ke kōkua.
Ināʻaʻole i maopopo ka wahine i kona'ōpū, hiki iā ia ke moeʻuhane e pili ana i kāna hanaʻana i ka wahine, hiki iā ia ke moe i ka iʻa, nā manu, ka pipi, a me keʻano o kāna mau lima. Hōʻikeʻia kēia a pau e nā loli weliweli i loko o ke kino, i kaʻikeʻana i nā hiʻohiʻona o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i nā loli i hiki mai. ʻO ka manawa pinepine uaʻikeʻia nā moeʻuhane e nā wāhine, nā mea i makemakeʻia a hoʻolālāʻia.
He aha ka manaʻo o ke keiki me kāna wahine ma ka moeʻuhane? ʻO ka moeʻuhane nui,ʻo ka mea mua, e noʻonoʻo ana i nā mea i manaʻoʻia a iʻole nā hopena o ka makuahine e hiki mai ana. ʻO ke keikikāne aʻo ke kaikamahine,ʻo ka inoa o ke pēpē,ʻo kona hiʻohiʻona kaʻikeʻana o ka wahine i ka moeʻuhane ma muli o ka physiological radical,ʻo ka hormonal, ka hoʻoulaʻana o ke kino. Akāʻo ka mea i koe maoli:ʻo ka hoʻomohalaʻana o kahi wahine i kēlā manawa o kona ola, hōʻikeʻo ia i kahi hōʻailona kūpono e pili ana i kāna "puzozhitelya" kūikawā. Ināʻoe e hāpai - e hoʻolohe i kou puʻuwai, e nānā i kāu mau moe aʻoʻoe, no ka mea,ʻoiaʻiʻo, e aʻo nui i kāu "hana mana nui" e hiki mai ana, no ka mea, ma waena oʻoe he leʻaleʻa hiki ke hoʻokaʻawaleʻia mai ka hapaiʻana a me ke ola ...