Ka wehewehe: no ke aha i moe ai ka male a me ke kāne me ka wahine
Me keʻano o ka pōʻino holoʻokoʻa iʻikeʻia ma ka moeʻuhane,ʻo ka hapa nui o nā unuhi'ōlelo e unuhi i kahi kiʻi like me he hōʻailona maikaʻi. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, nā kaikamāhine i moeʻuhane no ke kaʻawaleʻana, manaʻo lākou e hiki koke mai kēia ma ke ola maoli. Akā, mai hopohopo, no ka mea,ʻo ka ho'ākākaʻana ma kaʻaoʻao. Ma ka liuliu, e nui aku ka hilinaʻi a me kaʻaelike ma kāu pilina. ʻO paha paha kāu mau manaʻo e neʻe ai i kahi kūlana hou.
Ua'ōleloʻia ka haʻaleleʻana o ka kāne i kēia manawa ua hoʻoholo ponoʻiaʻoe ma luna o kēia kanaka. Eia kekahi,ʻaʻoleʻoe e haʻi i kāu kāne i ke kumu o ka kānaluaʻana iāʻoe a me kou mau manaʻo pono. Nā unuhi'ōlelo unuhi e wehewehe i kēia moe e like me ka wehewehe houʻana o ka pilina a me ka hōʻino paha me ka wahine.
Inā noʻonoʻo ka mea moe i kēia kiʻi a me ka haki ma ka pilina a me ka mareʻana i loko o kona ola maoli,ʻo ia wale nō ka mea e'ōlelo ai hoʻokahi.
Inā e hiamoe au e makemake ana ke kanaka e haʻalele
ʻO ka moeʻuhane kahi i hana ai ka mea nāna i haʻi i ka moe i ka pilina,ʻo kāu keiki'ōpiopio i ke ala e hōʻole aiʻo ia iāʻoe a iʻole kona mau manaʻo e hauʻoli. He mea hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke lilo i mea palekana no ka mālama ponoʻana o ka mea aloha. E ho'āʻo e kamaʻilio me kāu'ōpiopio e pili ana i kona mau manaʻo noʻoe.
Inā i ka moeʻuhane kahi mea aloha e makemake ana e hoʻokaʻawale meʻoe no kou kumakaiaʻana a iʻoleʻoe i kekahiʻano hoʻopunipuni'ē aʻe, a laila i kēia manawa, pono e nānā hou i kou manaʻo. Ma hope koke iho paha, makemake ka mea moeʻuhane i kahi mea maʻalahi me kahi kanaka eʻoi aʻe ka lanakilaʻoi aʻe ma mua o kona hoa kāne o kēia manawa.
ʻO keʻano o ka moeʻuhane
Pleading, nonoi noi iāʻoe e hoʻomau i ka pilina mua - mālamaʻia e like me kaʻike a me kaʻoiaʻiʻo i kekahi i kekahi. Hōʻike ia i kou aloha a me kou aloha i kāu koho.
E kāhea aku i ka moeʻuhane. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, nā waimaka, me kaʻoliʻoli a me ke kaumaha, ua unuhiʻia ma keʻano he hauʻoli e like me ka moeʻuhane a me ka lono maikaʻi. I kēlā me kēia hihia, hiki koke i kekahi hopena e hauoli aiʻoe.
ʻO ke āpau āu iʻae ai me kekahiʻano manaʻoʻole e hiki ke hoʻohālikeʻia me ka nohoʻana o kahi ola olaʻole. ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe ke manaʻo i nā hoʻololi nui no ka maikaʻi.
Ke holo nei mai ka mea i luna, a laila, he aha nā moeʻuhane o ke kaʻawaleʻana me ke kanaka, he nui nāʻano unuhi likeʻole. ʻO ka hopena hope loa e pili ana i ka hopena o ka hopena o kēia hanana i kou manaʻo, a me nāʻano āu iʻike ai i ka hanaʻana.