Inā'ōlelo mākou he mea hewa kekahi mau hoa'ē aʻe, a laila, e hoʻomanaʻo mākou he mea maikaʻi nā mea a pau. ʻOiai paha kēia mau mea a pau i kahi kiʻekiʻeʻole a ua manaʻo mākou e hana pololei ana mākou, no ka mea, hana hewa kekahi. Akāʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole pēlā. ʻO ka lihi iki no ka mea ua loli kākou a pau i nā hemahema o ka hāʻawiʻana.
I kēia mau lā, nui nāʻano hiʻona e pili ana i ke ala e kamaʻilio ai i waena o nā mea i alohaʻia. Hoʻoholo mākou i ka pono no nā kānaka'ē aʻe, aʻo ka meaʻole. Ma ka Pūnaewele i kēia mau lā he nui nā "'ōlelo aʻo" i ka pehea e kamaʻilio aku ai i kāu mea aloha, pehea e hana ai i kēia a iʻole iaʻano. ʻO nā paio o nā ululāʻau, pinepine mākou e wehewehe i kekahi o lākou i "hewa", no ka mea he pono ke hana i ka mea'ē aʻe. He aha ke manaʻo o mākou ma ka pololei o ka hana ma kahi pilina? He pololei kēia mau rula? He aha nā kānāwai kūpono e pono ai ke nānā pono i nā mea'ē aʻe?
Me kā mākou e manaʻo ai, ua paniʻia
Loaʻa ka manaʻo nui o kēlā me kēia kanaka i ka manaʻo o nā kāne. ʻO kēia mau hiʻohiʻona e hoʻokumuʻia ana ma luna o keʻano male kāne o ke kāne "he kaikamahine e pono e wahine a like me nā kāmaʻa, aʻo ke kanaka e pono ke aloha a me ke aloha." ʻO ka nui o kēia mau hiʻohiʻona he hōʻailona ia no lākou iho, e like me ka mea e pono ai i nā wāhine i aloha ke hana. ʻO ke ala e hōʻikeʻia nei no mākou he'ōnaehana kūpono "pololei", aʻo nāʻano'ē aʻe'ē aʻe uaʻikeʻia e like me keʻano maʻamau. Eia kekahi laʻana. ʻo ka meaʻo ka hana mua e hanaʻia e ke kanaka. ʻO kahi kanaka wale nō i kā mākou hōʻike ke noi nei i kahi helu kelepona, ke kono iāʻoe e hele, a hāʻawi mai eʻike. Inā he kaikamahine e hana i kēia, hoʻomaka mākou e noʻonoʻo iā ia me he kanaka-like a he naʻaupō a heʻano'ē. He mea hewa kēia. Ma nāʻano maʻamau o nā kiʻi e hana e like me ka papahana e pono ai ke'ōlelo i kahi'ōlelo lōʻihi lōʻihi. "He mea kūpono ia, no ka mea,ʻo wau a me nā mea āpau a pau ... he mea kupanaha loa ia, akā ...", akā inā'ōlelo wikiwiki kekahi kaikamahine i ke kanaka me kaʻole o ka manawa kūkā lōʻihi, e hōʻike maopopoʻo ia i kona nele i ka makemake a kuhikuhi i ka hana kūponoʻole ... ua halaʻo ia "ʻaʻole maikaʻi . A he manawa lōʻihi loa kēia e hoʻoneʻe aku ai i kāna'ōlelo hōʻino i kaʻenemi.
ʻO kā mākou mau manaʻo e pili ana i nā pilina, e like me ka mea e pono ai lākou, e hihia me mākou. Kū pinepine mākou i ka manaʻo maikaʻi o ka pilina, ke manaʻo nei mākou e pili ana nā mea a pau a laila e hoʻomaopopo houʻia. A he mea maikaʻi nā mea a pau, akā ua nalowale kekahi mea. Nānāʻo Miss i kahi'āpana o ko mākou manaʻo, ka hoʻokōʻana i ke "hoʻolālā", i hāpaiʻia i ka wā lōʻihi loa a holo pololei nā mea a pau. Hoʻopili pū mākou i kā mākou mauʻano likeʻole. Hōʻole lākou iā mākou i kekahi mau hana e hiki iā mākou ke hauʻoli. Kū pinepine mākou i ka makaʻuʻole,ʻaʻole like me nā mea'ē aʻe, e hoʻopoina nei he mau mea pilikino nā mea a pau. ʻO ka "'ōlelo aʻo" a kekahi hoaaloha o ko kāua pilina e hiki iā mākou ke kānalua. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni a mākou eʻike nei he like nō ia, ua pololei a he aloha. Hoʻomaka mākou e noʻonoʻo: hiki iā mākou ke hana hewa?
Mai hoʻokau i keʻano o keʻano o ke kamaʻilioʻana i ka piko,ʻo ia ka maikaʻi o ka kamaʻilioʻana i loko o ka paiʻana. Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei pahaʻoe no kēia?
ʻO kaʻike pilina
ʻO kaʻaoʻao o nā mea aloha e kamaʻilio pū kekahi i kekahi,ʻo ia wale nō. I kēia mau lā,ʻike mākou i nāʻano koʻikoʻi a me nā manaʻo i kēia manawa. Eia kekahi laʻana, he mau mea e loaʻa ai kekahi mea e kamaʻilio ai e pili ana a me nā mea makemake loaʻole e noho mālie. Aʻo ka paneʻole ka hōʻailona he hewa kekahi. Aia kekahi manaʻo e hele mai kēlā me kēia hoa i ka lā me ka hōʻuluʻulu o nā kumuhana i kūkāʻia. Akā,ʻo ka manaʻo holoʻokoʻa inā he hauʻoli ia e paneʻole - ponoʻoe e noho mālie. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ināʻaʻole i loaʻa i kahi ulāliʻi ka hikiʻole o kā lākou noho mālie, a makemake lākou e "hoʻomaha" ma keʻano,ʻaʻole anei he topo?
Nui nā manaʻo e pili ana i ka pilina o ka pilina ma waena o nā kāne a me nā wāhine. I kēia mau lā, ua kalaʻia nā wāhine i ka nui o kā lākou "moa" a me nā hewa, e kākau ana i kēia no nā kumu o waho. ʻAʻole wale i ka hebedoma o nā wāhine eʻaeʻole i ka hana kūponoʻole a ua manaʻoʻia kēia he "kūpono", hiki i nā kāne ke kū i keʻano o ka moekolohe, ka halihali, a me nā mea'ē aʻe. Hōʻalahiʻole mākou e kapa aku i nā wāhine "maniacs" a iʻole e mālama nui, hikiʻole iā lākou ke haʻi aku i ka hana haʻalulu, ke hāʻawi lākou i nā hōʻailona like me nā kāne. Inā hoʻohoho kekahi kanaka i nā hua'ōlelo likeʻole a iʻole e hana i kahiʻano hoʻonāukiuki, hoʻololi kēia i ka hōʻino iā ia. I ka wā e hele ai ke kāne me ke kaikamahine maikaʻi a mahalo iā ia ma ke alanui holoʻokoʻa, he maniac a he kanakaʻino.
Ma ka nānāʻana o ka hapanui o nā kānaka,ʻo ka wahine e'ōlelo nei me nā inoa nani,ʻo ia ka inoa, me ka inoa inoaʻoluʻolu, hana i kahi keiki liʻiliʻi a kāhea aku i ke kanaka i kāna makemake: aʻo ka iʻa, ka lapū, a pēlā aku. Inā, ma nā'ēheu o ke aloha, e'ōlelo ana kekahi kanaka,ʻo ia ke kumu e pale ai. Ke kūleʻa, ke kāne a me ka wahine e hālāwai ana me nā hewaʻole. Hoʻopili kēia i ka "sila" i ko mākou manaʻo no keʻano o ka kamaʻilio a me keʻano.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hoʻopūpīʻia nā mea a pau ma kaʻoiaʻiʻo o kēlā me kēia hoa e kū i ka pilina e like me kona makemake,ʻelua wale nō e hoʻoponopono iā lākou. ʻO ka pilina ma waena o nā mea i alohaʻia he mea pale i paʻaʻole i kahi e ponoʻole ai he wahi no nā hoʻopilikia āpau a me nā hiʻona. Ua hāʻawiʻia kēlā me kēia o kākou mai ka wā kamaliʻi i kekahi mau palena a hoʻokau i kekahi mau rula e pili ana i ka nohona. ʻO ka manaʻo o nā kānakaʻelua he manawa hou loa ia i loko o ke ola o kekahi kanaka, kahi kaʻawale lōkahi hou kahi e koho ai nā kānaka aloha wale i ka pono no lākou. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo ka manaʻo holoʻokoʻa ka mea e hauʻoli ai kekahi i kekahi me kaʻike a me ka kākoʻoʻana, e kāpae ana i nā mea a pau, e like me nā manaʻo maʻamau.