E hele ma ke alanui a nānā pono i nā kiʻi likeʻole o ka nohoʻana o kaʻohana.
Paʻa i ka mua. Mālama nā mākua ma mua o kekahi, a aneaneʻaʻole lākou e nānā aku kekahi i kekahi aʻaʻole e kamaʻilio pū kekahi i kekahi. E hiki paha iāʻoe ke noʻonoʻo e hele pū ana kēia mau malihiniʻelua. Ke manaʻo nei nā kānaka a pau iā ia iho aʻaʻole eʻimi e mahele i kona mau manaʻo me kāna wahine. Me he mea lāʻaʻole lākou e hoʻomanaʻo ma hope o lākou, i kahi paha he 30 mau mile,ʻo kā lākou keiki. Hiki i ke keiki ke hele me ke kaumaha ma hope o kona mau mākua aiʻole e hoʻokipa iā ia iho e like me: hiki iā ia ke kiʻi i nā'ōpenaʻokoʻa ma ke alanui, e kālai pōhaku. ʻO ka heleʻana i kahi kaʻawale no ia, he mea maʻalahi hoʻi nā mākuaʻole iā ia, a inā heleʻo ia iā lākou me ka nīnau nui loa, e kipa aku paha iā ia a noiʻole eʻaʻa.
E kiʻi iʻelua. Hiki i nā mākua ke kaʻawale i mua o ke keiki, akā i ka manawa hoʻokahi eʻike wikiwiki lākou i ka pilina ma waena o lākou iho,ʻaʻole hoʻi e hopohopo o nā mea hele ma o lākou, a pēlā aku, no kā lākou keiki pono'ī. I nā manawa pinepineʻole nā mākua e koho i nā'ōlelo i ka hōʻike o ko lākou mau aloha i kekahi i kekahi, ua piha ka'ōlelo i ka hōʻino a me ka hilahila. Pehea e hana ai ka pēpē i kahi mea weliweli? ʻAʻoleʻo ia e uku iki i kona mau mākua! Hōʻike kēia i kēia hana o ka makuakāne a me ka makuahine he mea maʻamau no ia a ma ka home, liloʻo ia i mea hōʻike pinepine i kā lākou hakakā. Aʻikeʻole nā mākua i ke keiki e ola ana i nā manawa o ke anuanu mau loa, eʻehaʻo ia ma ka nui o nā makahiki makua mai nā wāwaeʻehaʻeha, ka naʻau kūponoʻole. Inā nui ka manaʻo koʻikoʻi o nā mākua i ka pēpē, a laila hiki iā ia ke loaʻa i ka nui o nā mea nui a lilo paha i mea'ōpio "paʻakikī" i kēia mua aku.
ʻO ke kekona ke kolu. Māmāʻo Māmā i ka makuaʻona lama. Ke hele hou nei ke keiki i hope aʻaʻohe mea nānā. Ma kēia kūlana,ʻike ke keiki he mea maikaʻi loa ke haʻalele i nā mākua, no ka mea hiki i ka meaʻona lama ke pā. ʻO kēia kūlana e pili ana i ka pōʻinoʻohana. ʻO wai ka meaʻike, he mea liʻiliʻi wale nō ia, kahi iʻikeʻia o ka pilikia nui o kaʻohana, kahi e nui ai ka pilikia o ke keiki.
ʻEhāʻehā. Hele kaʻawale kekahi o nā mākua, e noʻonoʻo i kekahi mea no lākou iho, e palekana loa i nā mākua e hele pū ana me ka pēpē. Ma kēia hihia, hiki i kahi o nā mākua ke kūkā maikaʻi aku me ke keiki, hiki iā lākou ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i kekahi mea, akaaka, akāʻaʻole makemake kekahi makua e komo i loko o kā lākou leʻaleʻa, aʻaʻole maikaʻi loa mai waho mai. ʻAʻole i ho'āʻo ke keiki e hoʻokokoke i kahi makuaʻelua, no ka mea, uaʻike ponoʻo iaʻaʻoleʻo ia e kali i kekahi mea maikaʻi mai ona aku, koe wale nō ka hua'ōlelo: "e waiho iaʻu."
Paʻa i ka lima. ʻO Māmā, ka makua a me ke pēpē i paʻa mau lima. Uaʻakaʻaka lākou, a kūkākūkā lākou i ka pīkino a lākou iʻike ai ma ka kiʻimeʻa, he hauʻoli a he hauʻoli ko lākou helehelena. Hiki i nā mākua ke hāpai i ka pēpē ma luna o kona mau poʻohiwi, kahi e lawe ai i ka hauʻoli nui. Inā he nui ka hapanui o ia mauʻohana,ʻaʻole iʻike ko mākou hui kaiaulu i ka nui o nā keiki alanui, nā keiki hooligan a me nā mea hana hewa a me nā keiki pōʻinoʻole.
Uaʻikeʻoe i kekahiʻano o kāu hihiaʻohana? A lailaʻikeʻoe,ʻo nā hoʻololi o kouʻohana e pili wale ana iāʻoe iho a me ka hauʻoli o nā keiki i kou lima wale nō. ʻAʻole kūpono i ka ho'āʻoʻana e lilo i poʻo o kaʻohana, e hoʻokau i nā mea a pau a me nā mea a pau iā ia iho. Pono mākou eʻimi i nā manaʻo o kaʻike pilina me nā lālā a pau. ʻO ka paio no ka mana i loko o kaʻohana he mea kūponoʻole ia,ʻo ka hakakā liʻiliʻi paha i waena o nā mākua e hiki ke hana i ka pōʻino nui i ke kino naʻaupō o ka pēpē.
E aloha i kouʻohana a hoʻopili me nā kuleana a pau i ka hānaiʻana i kāu keiki. ʻO ka maluhia, ke aloha a me kaʻike e lanakila i loko o kouʻohana!