Nā hapa nui o nā kaikamāhine i ka launaʻana a me ka pilina me nā kāne

Ua waihoʻiaʻoe no kahi manawa. Ua hele au i kaʻike, nā hale hoʻokipa, nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni, e kau i nā lole maikaʻi, nā mea nani i hanaʻia, a me ka hana make-up. Akā naʻe,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe keʻimi i ka mea i lilo iāʻoe i pā ahi ahi, ma waho o ka meaʻaʻohe mea e makaʻu ai. A i ka manawa koke, uaʻikeʻoe i kahi mea hoihoi, nani a makemake loaʻoe, a ua puhiʻoe i ka hale. Hoʻomakaʻoe e hiamoe me kahi pūʻulu SMS, pinepine kāhea, hōʻike i ka makemake eʻike pinepine iā ia. Ma ke kipa 'ana, e hōʻike ana iā ia, ke aloha, ke aloha, no kou makemake iā ia. Akā,ʻo ka mea maʻamau, ua hōʻemiʻia nā mea a pau ma kānaʻaoʻao, ua lilo nā hālāwai i mea emi a me ka liʻiliʻi, a, no ka mea,ʻo kāu mau hana a pau e hele i kaʻole. Ke kaumaha neiʻoe,ʻeha, hōʻehaʻoe iāʻoe iho me ka nīnau i ka hewa, no ke aha i loaʻa ai, a pēlā aku nō. ʻOiai ua'ōlelo ke kanaka iāʻoeʻoʻoe ka waina. Ua hana hewa pahaʻoe e pili ana iā ia. I mea e pale ai i ka hopena o ka pilina, ponoʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo i nā hapa nui o nā kaikamāhine ma ke kamaʻilio a me ka pilina me nā poʻe.

ʻO ka mea pōʻino,ʻo ka wahine wahine ke hōʻike i kekahi manawa i nā naivety liʻiliʻi, ai kekahi manawa,ʻo ka naʻaupō. Akā, he wahine mākou no ia. A'ōlelo nā kānaka e makemake lākou eʻike i kekahi wahine'ōpio akamai a akamai. Aʻo wai ka mea i'ōlelo ua hikiʻole i ka poʻe akamai ke maʻaleʻale a, i kekahi manawa, he waleʻa i ka manawa hoʻokahi? Akā naʻe, e ho'āʻo mākou e hoʻomaopopo i ko lākou manaʻo aʻike i keʻano o nā hewa nui o nā kaikamāhine i ka launaʻana a me ka pilina me nā kānaka - ma hope o kēiaʻike e kōkua iā mākou i ka maʻalahi o kaʻikeʻana a me ka hōʻole i kaʻikeʻole.

"Inā wau i kāhea aku iā ia,ʻaʻole ia he mea iki!"

    ʻO kēia ka hua'ōlelo a nā mea e haʻi nei i kā lākou mau hoaaloha ma hope o ka hoʻomakaʻana e hana e like me ka wā e hele neiʻoe. E nā kaikamahine aloha, he mau mea like kēlā e hiki ai ke kono i ka nui o kā lākou mau kaikamāhine e kamaʻilio, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā lākou me ka mahalo, akā,ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo no lākou e makemakeʻo ia e noho pū meʻoukou. No laila, ke hoʻokiʻekiʻe nei lākou i ko lākou kūlana maikaʻi, maikaʻi, a he kanaka maoli nō hoʻi, he mea aloha loa. No laila,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e hoʻopili i kāna kelepona, i ka home paha, ma hope o nā mea a pau, no ka mea, hiki i kona makuahine a me kona kaikuahine ke kiʻi i ke kelepona a me ka mea nīnau "pehea ke kaikamahine i kapaʻia iāʻoe", "how old is she", etc. Aʻo nā keiki o kēia oh, no ka makemakeʻole.

    E noho mālie, inā ma kahi e kokoke mai ana e hoʻomakaʻo ia e kāhea pinepine iāʻoe, aiʻole i ka lā e koho ai, a laila ua hiki iāʻoe ke pane hou i kāna SMS, akā maikaʻi eʻole e leʻaleʻa ma kēia mea. Hiki iāʻoe ke nalowale i kouʻano kūpono a hoʻomaka e hoʻonāukiuki iā ia.

    'Anoʻo nani e like me nā kānaka a pau.

      ʻO ka hapa nui o nā kaikamāhine e hāʻawi i kahi marathon no nā kāne e makemake ai. Makemake lākou eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, ka hoihoi a me ka'ōlelo. Hiki maikaʻi ke makemake ka wahine e makemake i kāna kāne. Ma kahi o ka mea e haʻi aku kahi kanaka iā ia heʻokoʻa loa ia, no ka laʻana, make-up "maka makahi" aiʻole kekahi mea'ē aʻe. He maikaʻi, e noʻonoʻo pono i kēia mea ae hoʻohana i kēlā mea kaua weliweli. Akā, inā'ōlelo kekahi mea alohaʻaʻole makemakeʻo ia e honi i ka pahu lūlū, a makemakeʻo ia i kahiʻoi o ka hanaʻana, no laila,ʻaʻoleʻoe e noʻonoʻo he mea wahaheʻeʻo ia a he huhū no ke kālā no kāu hana. Inā'ōleloʻo ia pēlā,ʻo ia nō. Keʻimi nei mākou i kahi maʻalahi lepo, a ke kamaʻilio pinepine nei lākou i ka'ōlelo a lākou.

      Inā makemakeʻoe e hele i waho o ka lehulehu, hanaʻoe i kahi hoʻolālā kūlohelohe,ʻaʻole kahi mask Papuan. ʻO ka momona o nā pastel momona e hāʻawi iāʻoe i ka hou a me ka hoʻopiʻi'ōpio. Aʻo kēia ka ala maikaʻi loa e hoʻohuli ai i ka manaʻo o kāu'ōpio. E maʻalahi.

      ʻAʻole makemake nā kāne i nā'ōlelo a me nā mea hoʻokipa.

        I kekahi manawa, pili nā kaikamāhine i nā poʻe'ē aʻe i ka wā i hala. He meaʻoleʻole inā lākou e wehe, aʻimi paha e hawanawana i kekahi i kekahi. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hiki keʻikeʻia, aʻo ka mea mahaloʻole i ke aloha. ʻOiai,ʻaʻole mākou a pau me ke koloheʻole. Hiki i nā Lunamaka'āinana ke kūkākūkā i kekahi manawa no kekahi kanaka, akā e hana maʻamauʻia kēia, me kaʻole e nānā i ka manaʻo. No laila, mai hōʻike i kou hanohano ma ka liloʻana o nā hemahema o nā poʻe'ē aʻe, no ka mea, iāʻoe kekahi.

        ʻO ka PMSʻaʻole ia he kumu no ka wāwahiʻana i kahi mea aloha.

          E nā wāhine aloha, e hoʻomanaʻo i kaʻikeʻole o kā mākou mau kāne aloha i ka mea e hiki ai iā PMS ke hoʻoweliweli iāʻoukou a me ka naʻau! ʻAe,ʻo ia. ʻAʻole lākou e hoʻomaopopo i kēia, me ka mihi nui. A inā mākou eʻae iā mākou e ho'ōho iā lākou, a laila "hoʻoiho" i kēia mau mea ma nā aʻalolo i hanaʻia e PMS, a laila ua hilinaʻi lākouʻo kēia wale nō kā mākou inoa "kumu." Auē, he mea hōʻoluʻolu pahaʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻokaʻawale i nā wahi me lākou no ka liʻiliʻi hoʻokahi hanana!

          ʻO kaʻu kelepona pūnaewele koʻu waiwai pono'ī.

            Ke huhū nei ka hapa hapalua o ka heluna o ka honua ma muli o kā lākou mau kaikamāhine e nānā nei i kā lākou mau kelepona. ʻO kēia ko lākou wahi pono'ī, ko lākou honua. Mai hoʻopili wale aku iā ia, e hāʻawi iā ia i ke kūʻokoʻa, he mea nui kēia i nā kāne. Maikaʻi ka hilinaʻi iā lākou a pau nā mea a pau. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, inā makemakeʻo ia e hoʻololi iāʻoe, e hanaʻo ia inā no ka piʻiʻana i kāna kelepona aʻaʻoleʻole.

            ʻO nā kūkākūkā ma nā kumu koʻikoʻi e hopohopo.

              Ma ka pae mua o nā pilina, ua pāpāʻia ke hoʻomaka e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kaʻohana a me nā keiki. Ua ikaika loa nā kānaka a pau i ko lākou kūʻokoʻa. Aʻo kēiaʻano'ōlelo wale nōʻo ia wale nō ka hale i wāwahiʻia. Ma mua o ko lākou mau maka, e hōʻike koke kokeʻia kahi kiʻi i kahi e hoʻomaha aiʻo ia i ka lio mai ke kauā. ʻOiai ke'ōpiopio nei ke kanaka. ʻOiai paha kēia e hoʻoweliweli i kahi kanaka a he kanakolu mau makahiki aʻoi.

              ʻO ka lili ka pepehi kanaka.

                ʻO ka mua o ka lili, he mea hoʻohenehene lākou, a laila - huhū. A inā he mea liliʻole ia, a laila,ʻaʻole e lōʻihi loa kou pilina. Maanei he mea pono e koho, a lili a hana paha i ka pilina.

                He kapu nā hoa.

                  Maʻaneʻi e hoʻomaka aiʻoe e hui, hōʻikeʻo ia iāʻoe i kona mau hoaaloha, aʻaʻole lākou makemake iāʻoe. ʻO kekahi - he hōʻino,ʻo ka lua - hōʻino ma nā hua'ōlelo a pau, maikaʻi, a pēlā aku. He hewa kūponoʻole ia inā hoʻomakaʻoe e hihia me lākou, no ka mea, he mau hoaalohaʻoe no kāu hoaaloha. Maikaʻi maikaʻi, e komo malūʻoe i loko o kāu hui, aiʻole eʻike me nā poʻe hou a hana i kāuʻoihana pono'ī. Akā, no kēia mea, ponoʻoe e hoʻomanawanui a hoʻomanawanui.

                  Maʻaneʻi ua lawe mai mākou i ka hapa nui nui o nā kaikamāhine ma ke kamaʻilio a me ka pilina me nā poʻe. Eʻike iā lākou a hauʻoli hoʻi!