ʻO ka makemake no ka makemake
I kēia lā,ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa e kūʻai aku i ka huahana e pili i ka moekolohe a me ka makemake, e hoʻokomo i nā manaʻo hilinaʻi a me nā kiʻi ma luna o ka mea kūʻai, e hoʻohālikelike i ke kiʻi o kahi kanaka makemake, aloha, makemake a koho wale i kahi maikaʻi loa. Nā hiʻohiʻona maʻamau, nā kiʻi pikala a me nā kiʻi, nā pūʻali o nā hōʻike hōʻike punahele a me nā mele. Hoʻomaka e hōʻike i nā mea superheroes me "super libido". Kiʻi kiʻi nā nasokruzhayut iā mākou i ka manaʻo o keʻano o ka hana e makemake ai, a me nā manaʻo o ka hana a me nā koi i koiʻia e hoʻomaka mākou e kānalua iā mākou iho. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ma mua, a ma hope paha,ʻike mākouʻaʻole mākou e hālāwai me lākou. Aʻo ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo kākou wale nō he kanaka wale nō,ʻaʻoleʻo ka pūʻali koa. ʻAʻole ka manaʻo nui o ka puke,ʻaʻole ka'ōlelo hoʻopunipuni maʻamau. A ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo kekahi o nā kumu maʻamau o keʻano o nā moe kolohe e loaʻa ana i ka pilikia o ka "makemakeʻole".
I kēia lā, manaʻo mākou e makemake mau mākou. A inā he "nani" kēia mea, a laila, e pono loa kā mākou makemake i kēia manawa. Mai haʻalele. Pono e hana i ka pono i kēlā me kēia lā, maikaʻi, a iʻoleʻekolu manawa o ka pule. A inā ua lohe koke mākou i ia mea i hoʻokahi pule aʻelua paha, hoʻomaka mākou e kānalua iā mākou, e piʻi mai me nā pilikia. Akā,ʻo ka māhele holoʻokoʻa, ke makemake mākou i ka wahine - a lailaʻo ia keʻano pono. He mea maʻamau. ʻO kēlā me kēiaʻano makemake e hauʻoli ai mākou ke kaulike kūpono. A inā he mea kūpono i kā kāua hoa hana, inā mākou e hilinaʻi iā mākou iho,ʻaʻohe kiʻi a me nāʻano hilinaʻi e hiki ai ke hōʻoia iā mākou.
ʻAʻole anei?
ʻO ka maʻi Haumāna
Ma ka hapanui o nā poʻe me keʻano pilikino a iʻole ka hihia o ka cyticocism e loaʻa i ko lākou mau pilikia o kaʻikeʻike. A maʻaneʻi, e hoʻoulu i nā meaʻoiaʻiʻo a pau i kaʻike inā ua huliʻia kahi mea a pau, a laila e loaʻa. Inā hāʻule koke mākou e noʻonoʻo "A inā he mea hewa wau ...", ma mua a ma hope paha eʻike mākou i nā maʻi o ka maʻi, no ka mea a mākou iʻike ai. A maʻi. Ma keʻano nui,ʻaʻole pono i kekahi ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ka ikaika o ka manaʻo o ka mea a me kona kānalua. Ma ka malu o kaʻiole, inā makemakeʻoe, hiki iāʻoe keʻike i ka holoʻokoʻa a pau. ʻO kahiʻoihana nui - he kumu hoʻokipa maikaʻi a mahalo, no ka meaʻaʻole maopopo nā kānaka i loko o lākou iho a me ko lākou mau mea hiki. No laila, ho'āʻo lākou e hōʻoia iaʻu ... he hewa kekahi mea iā lākou.
Hoʻolaha Priorities
ʻOiai inā i ka lā hoʻokahi ua manaʻo mākou he pilikia kekahi, no ke aha e hōʻole kokeʻole i kēia mai ka hoa aku? Makemakeʻo ia iāʻoe e hauʻoli, e hauʻoli me ka hilinaʻi i kou olakino. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he mea nui ka wahine no nā meaʻelua,ʻo ia hoʻi, i loko o nā mea a pau āu iʻike ai, ponoʻoe eʻoluʻolu loa. Inā pilikia kekahi mea iāʻoe, e kamaʻilio me ia, e haʻi i kou mau manaʻo a hopohopo. Ināʻaʻole i makehewa kāu mau makaʻu, ke kākoʻo o ke kanaka aloha, ka hiki ke hana me nā kuhihewa, hana i nā hoʻoholo paʻakikī, kōkua i ka hoa pilikino - he mea nui ia no kēlā me kēia. He nui nā pilikia liʻiliʻi o ka pilina pili pono e hiki ai i nā kāne ke pale iā lākou iho, me ke kōkuaʻole o ke kauka. ʻO ka mea nui ka hoʻomaopopo a me ke ahonui,ʻo ke makemake e kōkua i ke hoa pili a hoʻoholo pū i ka pilikia.
Hiki i ka sexologist ke'ōlelo pinepine i nāʻanoʻokoʻa e pono ai ka hilinaʻi, ka hana likeʻana i nā hewa, a me ka hoʻomanaʻo hou. Eia kekahi laʻana,ʻo ka hana like "Hoʻoulu ikaika". E hana i ka hoʻomaopopoʻana, ka mahalo, a me ka mālama i kēlā me kēia hoa. I kekahi hihia,ʻo ka hewa nui i hiki i kekahi ke hana i kēia hihia,ʻo ia ke mālama i nā mea a pau a me ka loaʻaʻana o nā pilikia wale nō. ʻO ka mea mua a me ka mea i alohaʻia eʻike i kou hopohopo,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e haʻi koke aku - he meaʻoluʻolu ia no kou hilinaʻi i nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo kokoke.
He mea maʻamau kēia? ..
Ke nīnau nei mākou a pau i kēlā manawa i kēia manawa: heʻano maʻamau kēia? Ke hopohopo pinepine nei kekahi e pili ana i konaʻano maʻamau i ka wahine, he mea maikaʻi ke hoʻoneleʻia i ka mea a mākou i makemake ai. A,ʻo ka hapa nui, o ka hapanui o mākou i kēiaʻano iā mākou iho i kahi mau hua'ōlelo. Ua hopohopo kekahi me ka likeʻole i nā mea'ē aʻe a pau, eʻae i ka mālamaʻana, e noʻonoʻo aʻike pahaʻoe he mau "hoʻopunipuni" kekahi, aʻo nā mea'ē aʻe ua maʻalahiʻole e likeʻole, e like me nā mea a pau, hoihoi,ʻaʻole maʻamau.
ʻO kēia mau nīnau ke nīnau nei mākou iā mākou iho i ka wā e pili mau ana kā mākou mau pilina. Ke hopohopo nei mākou i kēlā mea, akā, hiki koke mai ka hoa i ka nasenormalnym,ʻaʻoleʻo ia makemake i ko mākou mau manaʻo a makemake paha, aʻaʻole mākou e'ākoakoa i loko o ia mau mea. Ua lilo iā mākou ka hilinaʻi iā mākou iho a me kā mākou mau hana, a lilo i mea noʻonoʻo a hopohopo. E pono anei kēia?
ʻO kekahi mau kāne ke hele mai i nāʻano likeʻole. ʻO ka mea nui, e noʻonoʻo,ʻo ka hoʻokumuʻana i ka pilina. Inā pahaʻoe i kekahiʻano kūponoʻole, makemakeʻoe i nā mea maʻamauʻole a me nāʻoihanaʻole i ka moekolohe, keʻoleʻoe i "nā kaʻawale" mai ka hui kaiāulu nui ...ʻaʻohe mea āpau inā makemake lākou a pau. ʻO ka mea nui, he mea leʻaleʻa kēia aʻaʻole e hana i ka pilina. Inā loaʻa iāʻoe nā keiki me kahi penguin i ke alakaʻi, a mai kekahi mau mea i maʻaʻoleʻia no ka poʻe nui, ua maʻiʻoe ... he aha ka mea eʻoluʻolu aiʻoe? ʻO ke ala āu i makemake ai,ʻoʻoe wale nō kaʻike.
Ua hoʻomanaʻo wau i kahi maʻi hou o kuʻu kino
ʻOiai inā maopopo iāʻoeʻaʻole he mea nui e pili ana i kou hopohopo, ponoʻoe e noʻonoʻo i ke kumu no kou hoʻomakaʻana e hopohopo aʻike. He aha kou mea i hōʻoluʻoluʻole ai? E nīnau iāʻoe iho: pehea kou manaʻo no kēia mea? I ka manawa hea i hoʻomaka ai? Loaʻa pahaʻoe i kahi loulou i waena o kou mau manaʻo a me nā hanana i hiki ke alakaʻi iā lākou. ʻO nā pilikia lapuwale a me nā moe kolohe he mea kūponoʻole ia i nā pilikia koʻikoʻi, akā,ʻaʻole hiki ke mālamaʻoleʻia, no ka mea e hoʻokau mau ana lākou i ke kaumaha a me ka hopohopo, no laila, ināʻaʻole he kumu o kaʻepekemaʻepekema, pono ia e hoʻihoʻi i kāna mau huna ahi. Ma muli o ka kānalua pono'ī, hopohopo a me ka pōpilikia pinepine i ka hopena i nā pilikia nui, e like me nā aniani kukui e alakaʻi i kahi ahi nui. Mai hana i nā pilikia kūponoʻole, e mahalo i kou pilikino a aloha i kou kino.