Inā wehe ke kanaka i kona mau manaʻo i kahi wahine

ʻO ka haʻiʻana i kou manaʻo he hana kūpono aʻo kēia kaʻinaʻana ka hopena o kahi pilina pilina ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine. 'Ōlelo lākouʻaʻole makemake nā wāhine i ke kino, i kaʻuhane, akā, i nā pepeiao. Akā,ʻoiaʻiʻo, he mea maikaʻi e lohe i nā hua'ōlelo wela i kāu ala. Makemake nā kāne i ka'ōleloʻiaʻana e pili ana i nā mea nani, nani, nā mea likeʻole a ikaika. A inā e wehe ke kanaka i kona mau manaʻo i kekahi wahine?

ʻO ka hōʻike o nā manaʻo he wahiʻoi aʻe ia o ka pilina koʻikoʻi. ʻO ka mea i hele i kēlāʻaoʻao a ulu i luna, ua hōʻea i kahi kiʻekiʻe o kaʻike. He maikaʻi nā mea a pau i ka hoʻohaʻahaʻaʻana, i ka manawa e pili ana nā manaʻo, a laila he mea maikaʻi a he mea nui e hōʻike i ka wā e kūkuluʻia ai ka pilina ma luna o ka hilinaʻi, kaʻoiaʻiʻo a me kaʻike pono, e aho i ka nohoʻana o ke kāne me ka wahine. I ka manawa pinepine, ua maʻalahi nā wāhine ma kahi pilina. Hōʻike mua lākou i ko lākou nāwaliwali. Ke kamaʻilio nei lākou no nā mea a lākou e noʻonoʻo nei no ke kanaka, ua moeʻuhane lākou e pili ana i nā noʻonoʻo no ka wā e hiki mai ana. Aʻo ka nui o nā kānaka e nānā i nā mea o ko lākou manaʻo. Ke nānā pono nei lākou i nā koho a me nā hana. ʻO ka manawa pinepineʻole lākou iʻike i kahi a me pehea e komo ai i ke aloha,ʻaʻoleʻike i ka weheʻana i kahi wahine. Kū pinepine lākou i ka noʻonoʻo inā pono i kahi kanaka e wehe i kona mau manaʻo i kahi wahine?

E like me nā wahine, he kanaka kāne, heʻano likeʻole ko lākou, noʻonoʻo, hana. Hoʻololi pono kēlā kanaka kēia kanaka i kahi kūlana kūikawā, e hōʻike ana iā ia iho ma nāʻano likeʻole. Hiki ke hoʻokaʻawaleʻia nā kāne i nāʻano, nāʻano, nā papa, hiki iāʻoe ke kāhea i kekahi mea, akā,ʻaʻole e loli keʻano o ka māheleʻana iā lākou i loko o kēlā mau pūʻulu. No laila,ʻo lākou: e ke keikikāne - kekahi moeʻuhane, Casanova a he mea aloha nui, he mea hilinaʻi iā ia, e ke keonimana, ke kanaka maikaʻi. Heʻokoʻa keʻano o kēlā me kēia mea. Manaʻo a mahalo nui lākou a pau i kēia nīnau maʻalahi, inā e wehewehe ke kanaka i kona mau manaʻo i kahi wahine?

E hoʻomaka kākou, me ka manaʻo hilinaʻi. ʻO kēia keʻano o ke kanaka eʻike mau i kāna makemake a me ka pehea e loaʻa ai,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e hopohopo i nā pilikia e kū ana i mua ona. Pono nā kānaka e koho i nā mea i waeʻia no lākou, no ka mea,ʻike lākou i nāʻano pono e pono ai lākou. Inā lohi koke kahi wahine iā ia, a laila uaʻikeʻo ia e pili ana iā ia,ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke kali iāʻoe no ka hanaʻana iā ia. ʻAʻole kēiaʻano kāne e noi iāʻoe no ka'ōlelo aʻo, e hanaʻo ia. Inā loaʻa iā ia kekahi mea, e haʻiʻo ia i kona mau manaʻo, e weheʻo ia iā lākou. A he mea maikaʻi kēia, no ka mea me keʻano o kēia kanaka,ʻaʻole ia he mea hopohopo e noho a puni, uaʻikeʻoe he hilinaʻiʻo ia i loko ona a me kona hiki mai, mai ia akuʻaʻohe mea e pono ai ka manaʻo nui.

Ke keiki haʻahaʻa, aiʻole hiki ke kapaʻia he moeʻuhane i kekahi ala'ē aʻe. He mau haʻahaʻa, pololei, maʻalahi, aloha, he mea maikaʻi e noho pū me lākou i ka paʻaʻana a noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Uaʻike kēiaʻano o ke kanaka i ka hanaʻana i ka pilina ma kāu pilina, no ka mea, he hapaʻo kona aloha. He maikaʻi nā kānaka,ʻo ia hoʻi kekahi manawa. ʻO lākou, heʻano, heʻano like i nā'ōpena liʻiliʻi, e noi ana e hoʻopiʻiʻia a hoʻopiʻiʻia, akā, akā, ua nani loa lākou. ʻAʻole kēiaʻano e nīnau inā he wehewehe kahi kanaka i kona mau manaʻo i kahi wahine. He mea hou paha kou e kahāhā ai ma ka hui mua, ma nā hālāwai mua, e haʻiʻo ia iāʻoe ma kona aloha nui a maʻemaʻe. Ua makaukau au e hakakā, no ka mea he pinepine kaʻikeʻana i nā kaikamāhine i ke aloha, no ko lākouʻano pilikino a me ke aloha. Akā, e wikiwiki paha ia e pilikia iāʻoe, no ka mea,ʻo kahi haʻahaʻa,ʻo ka naʻau pōpilikia,ʻo ia hoʻi, he wahine, ua lawa i loko o kaʻohana.

No kēiaʻano o nā kānaka e like me Casanova a he mea aloha nui, he leo nui, inoa kaulana, inoa, inoa ma keʻano o nā kānaka, makemake lākou e hoʻopunipuni iā ​​lākou iho. ʻAe, ua like lākou i nā kope mai ka Hale Ula, he mea nui loa i ko mākou manawa. A ma hope o nā mea a pau, eʻimi i ka meaʻike wahine i ka maikaʻi, pehea a me ke wā e hoʻounaʻia aiʻo ia, a ua māʻonaʻo ia. He maikaʻi kēia mau kāne i keʻano e manaʻo lākouʻaʻole wale i ka mea e leʻaleʻa ai iā lākou iho, akā, i kā lākou hoahana. ʻAe, no keʻano o ka wahine,ʻaʻole paha lākou he poʻe hoʻokūkū,ʻaʻole lākou e maʻalahi, makemake nui, uaʻike nui lākou i kēia mea. Inā wehe ke kanaka i kona mau manaʻo i kahi wahine? ʻAʻoleʻo ia e nīnau i kēlā nīnau iā ia iho a me kona mau kākā'ōlelo. ʻAʻole kēiaʻano kanaka eʻimi e noho me kekahi no ka wā pauʻole, e noʻonoʻo i kahiʻohana nui a hauʻoli. Ua māʻonaʻo ia i ka loli mau o nā hoa. A no ke aloha o kekahi o lākou,ʻaʻoleʻo ia eʻae aku, koe wale nō e hiki iā ia ke hoʻowalewale i kēlā hua'ōlelo i mea e huki ai i ka mea i loaʻa ma luna o ka moe. Akā,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e hōʻike i kona manaʻo i kahi wahine,ʻo ia hoʻi, ma mua o kona kiʻekiʻe. Malia hopohopo paha kēia mau kānaka i ke koʻikoʻi o ka pilina, e hopohopo i ka nele i ke kuokoa, makaʻu i ka loli,ʻaʻole lākou i ulu aʻe a hana e like me nā kamaliʻi e makemake wale ana e loaʻa nā mea hana hou.

ʻO kekahi mea he mau luna. He mākaukau lākou i nā mea a pau, inā heʻoihana lākou, he hoaaloha wale nō lākou, a he mau pilina paha me kekahi wahine. ʻIke mauʻo ia i kahi e'ōlelo ai i kekahi mea, i kekahi manawa e hāʻawiʻo ia i loko,ʻaʻole wale nō e hana i nā mea hilahila. ʻO ka nīnau inā he kanaka e hōʻike i kona manaʻo i kahi wahine, inā he hiki ke maʻalahiʻo ia. E weheʻia kēlā mau mea iāʻoe, inā lākou e noʻonoʻo pono ai, aiʻole e hoʻomaopopo paha i kahi mea e pehu ai i loko o ia mau mea. ʻOiai, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻomaopopo i ko lākou manaʻo, e wehe aʻe i mua o ka wahine, e hōʻike i ka mea like lākou a pau, he mea pono e hana mua lākou. Ke mahalo nei aneiʻoe i ka hana hoʻoikaika?

ʻO nā kānaka hope loa o ke kanaka kūpono loa. ʻO kēia kahi kahi a mākou i hilinaʻi ai a kali i ka wā'ōpiopio. ʻO ke aliʻi koa kēia e holo ma luna o kahi lio keʻokeʻo a hoʻopakele i ke kaikamahine maikaʻi mai kahi paʻa. ʻAʻole aliʻi'ē aʻe,ʻo mākou keʻano i kēia kūlana i kēlā me kēia kanaka. Nolaila, aole makou i ike ina he kanaka e hoike aku i kona manao i kekahi wahine, ina aole pela, a aole pela.

ʻAʻole ia he mea nui keʻano o ke kanaka āu i koho ai. He meaʻole ia, e haʻi iāʻoe i kou mau manaʻo i loko o hoʻokahi hebedoma a hoʻokahi paha mahina, he mea nui e weheʻia i mua ou a e like ia me ka makana, a me ka makana maikaʻi o ka lani. ʻO ka mea nui no ke kāne,ʻaʻole ia e kaomi a hoʻomaopopo i ka mea e hiki iā ia ke hōʻike iāʻoe.