No laila, he aha ka mea a ke kāne e makemake ai i ka wahine, he aha nā hua'ōlelo e loli ai i kona pepeiao, e hauoli a hoʻokū i ka manaʻo nui a me ka waiwai? He aha kā mākou, e nā wāhine, e'ōlelo ai i kā mākou poʻe aloha e hōʻike iā lākou i kā lākou mālama, e hōʻike i ke aloha?
ʻO kēia mau'ōlelo a pau i kūpono i kēlā me kēia kanaka, ke hilinaʻi nui nei, no ka hapa nui, i kāna mea e pono ai no ke ola. Mai kēlā mau manaʻo, nā pahuhopu, nā manaʻo a me nā mea i loaʻa, aʻo ia e hauʻoli ai a hauʻoli hoʻi. Eia kekahi, he kanaka maʻamau loa: i kēlā me kēia hihia, makemake paha kekahi kanaka e lohe i kekahi mea kūikawā, akā, aia kekahi mau kumu nui i loko o ko lākou ola, eʻae ana iāʻoe eʻike i ka pane pololei i ka nīnau: "He aha ka makemake o ke kāne mai ka wahine?".
Malia,ʻo kekahi o nā mea nui nui o ke kanaka,ʻo ia kona ikaika a me kona hilinaʻi. ʻAʻole au e hoʻopaʻapaʻa -ʻaʻole i like nā kānaka a pau, akā, makemake wau e hōʻoia i kāu poʻe i waeʻia i kēia mau hiʻohiʻona nani. No lailaʻaʻole e haʻi aku iā ia no kēia mea. No ke aha e haʻiʻole aku aiʻoe ma hope ona - me he pā pōhaku lā? Ke kākoʻo iāʻoe, kou manaʻoʻiʻo i ka lā e hiki mai ana? Ke hopohopo nei mākou i kekahi manawa e'ōlelo i kēia mau hua'ōlelo. ʻAʻole maopopo: no ke aha? Ke hopohopo paha kekahi o mākou i ka "jinxing", a manaʻo kekahi e hiki i kahi kanaka ke hoʻomaha a hoʻomaha loa i ka ikaika a me ka ikaika? ʻAʻole wau iʻike,ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke'ōlelo. ʻIke wau me ka pololei pololei hoʻokahi wale nō mea:ʻaʻole e hōʻole kekahi i ka loheʻana he kōkua maoliʻo ia no ka hapalua o kāna hapa hopeʻole. No laila,ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻonele iā ia i kēia leʻaleʻa, keʻoleʻo ia ke kuleana o "Man"!
He aha ka makemake o kēlā me kēia kanaka e lohe ai i kāna wahine? ʻOiaʻiʻo, mahalo,ʻike maikaʻi a me ka maikaʻi o kona mau mākau a me kāna mau taleni. ʻAʻoleʻoe e noʻonoʻo,ʻo mākou wale nō ka mea e pono ai ka mahalo manawa, aʻo mākou wale nō ka mea i hoʻopiliʻia i ka hoʻomaikaʻi a me ka hoʻomaikaʻiʻana. Ua like nā kāne me mākou, no ka hapa nui. No ke aha lākou e makemakeʻole ai e hoʻolohe iāʻoe: "Wow, Vovochka, he kanaka maikaʻiʻoe e hele pū me aʻu! No laila, ua hoʻonohonoho koke au i ke koʻokoʻo i loko o ka lumi kuke - i kēia manawaʻaʻole holo kahe! "," E Yurochka,ʻoʻoe ka meaʻoi loa a maikaʻi loa iaʻu: ua mahaloʻiaʻoe e kāu alakaʻiʻana, aʻaʻoleʻole he meaʻole kēia mau mea a pau, . Hiki i nā'ōleloʻoluʻolu ke kūpono a mahalo pūʻia me ka honiʻoliʻoli loa e hōʻoiaʻiʻo aku i kāu kāne i nā mea a pau āna e hana ai ua pololei. A he kanaka maoliʻo ia iʻike i kāna mea e pono ai ke hana.
ʻO keʻano, aʻo ka mahaloʻia, e like me kā lākou e'ōlelo nei. No ka mea,ʻo ka haʻaheo a me ka hōkū mālamalama i ka lae "ʻaʻole i kāpaeʻia. Hoʻokomo kokeʻia lākou i nā wahi kahi e hoʻomāmā ai nā wāhine i kā lākou mau kāne me nā leudable odes. Aʻo ka meaʻoi loa,ʻo ka hoʻomakaʻana o ia mau "mikolō" e hōʻoluʻoluʻole i ka hoʻonāukiuki. A inā paha,ʻaʻole loa,ʻaʻole loaʻoe e makemake i kāna mea i hana ai: e makaʻala i kaʻino! ʻO ke kanaka i hoʻomaopopoʻoleʻia a mahalo nuiʻiaʻaʻole ia he mea weliweli ma mua o ka wahine i keʻano like.
Nolaila, e hooholo kakou pela. Maanei ua hanaʻo ia i kekahi mea i ka honua a me ka mea i manaʻoʻoleʻia, akā he mea maikaʻi loa - mahalo iā ia, mai hoʻokau i nā hua'ōlelo maikaʻi. Maanei ua hanaʻo ia i ka hopena maikaʻi,'ōleloʻiaʻo ia he lolo maoli, he kumu nuiʻo ia, akā, uaʻanoʻelemakule e hoʻomaha ai, no ka mea,ʻoi loa ia i luna o ke alapihi hana (maikaʻi,ʻaʻole paha i kahi lōʻihi, akāʻo ke ala, e like me kā lākou e'ōlelo nei. ). A iʻole hoʻi, ua hoʻomaʻemaʻe wau i ka hale,ʻaʻole iʻike muaʻia ma mua - he kanaka maikaʻi loa hoʻiʻo ia! Ponoʻoe e nānā mau i ka mea maoli iʻikeʻoe i kou mahalo i kēia ola olaʻole. A no laila, ma lalo o ka leo, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻomaha mālie,'ōlelo lākou, "pehea lā wau, e ke aloha, e luhi ai i kēia hoʻomaʻemaʻeʻana: uaʻeha ke kua, a ua hala ka wāwae ... a ke hauʻoli neiʻoe!". Eia kekahi hōʻailona: hiki paha iā ia ke weheʻia mai kēia manawa aku? A eia hou kekahi kumu e mahalo ai: ua hele maiʻoe mai ka luhi luhi, aʻoʻoe - kaʻaina ahiahi, ka hue o kāu waina punahele aʻo ia, keʻano haʻahaʻa a haʻahaʻa. Hoʻomaʻamaʻa ponoʻo ia iāʻoe, hānai iāʻoe, hana i kahi hoʻonani maikaʻi, waiho i loko o kou mau lima i loko o ka lumi moe, hōʻike hou i ka ikaika o kona aloha, a hele e holoi i nā meaʻai a hemo i kahi o ka aloha. Pono, e hana pinepine ia - akā inā e hiki mai, no ke aha eʻimiʻole ai i ke kakahiaka iʻole eʻoluʻolu iki iā ia: "Mahalo no ke ahiahi, e kaʻu mea aloha, naniʻoe!". E manaʻoʻiʻo mai iaʻu,ʻo ia mau'ōlelo a me kou mau maka hauʻoliʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ia ka mea maikaʻi loa e hana hou i kēiaʻano wikiwiki! A laila, pehea ka nui o nā wāhine, i ka pō a pau me ka makemake nui, i kaʻona me ke aloha, i ke kakahiaka nui hou iki. A ke hoʻomaka nei ka "wīwī",'ōlelo lākou, a uaʻona ka waina, a ua holoiʻia nā kīʻaha,ʻaʻole i maikaʻi loa ma luna o kahi moe. A laila, ua'ōhumu aku nei mākou: ke'ōlelo nei lākou,ʻAuhea lā i hele ai ko kāua aloha, kahi i hele ai nā mea a pau?
ʻO ka mea hope loa i kā mākou papa inoa, akā, paha,ʻo ka mea nui loa i ka'ōlelo nui e pili ana i ke aloha. ʻAe, ma ka nānā muaʻana,ʻo ka banal a me ka sugary reka: "aloha wau iāʻoe" a "makemake au iāʻoe", pū kekahi,ʻaʻohe mea i hōʻole. ʻOʻoe iho, me kaʻole o kēia mau'ōlelo, pehea kou manaʻo? ʻAʻole lākou e noʻonoʻo i ka manaʻo,'ōlelo lākou, ināʻaʻole lākou e'ōlelo, malia paha ua hina lākou i ke aloha aʻaʻole lākou makemake eʻike hou iaʻu, i ka hopohopo? Pēlā nō ia i nā kāne: e hana lākou i nā pōhakuʻala ma mua a me ka hoʻopaʻapaʻaʻana he "babus slobber"ʻaʻole hoihoi a makemakeʻole, akā i loko o kaʻuhane (aʻaʻole paha e like me ka makemake e hōʻike) no laila makemake lākou e lohe mai iā mākou i kā mākou aloha a mahalo nui iā lākou! A no ka hāʻawi pinepineʻana iā lākou i kēia manaʻo me nā hana i kākoʻoʻia e nā'ōlelo haʻahaʻa,ʻo kā mākouʻoihana kiʻekiʻe (akā, iā lākou hoʻi kā lākou hana,ʻoiai lākou e hoʻopoina pinepine iā lākou).
Pono ka wahine a naʻauao a ikaika, pono iā ia ke mālama i ke kanaka me kaʻikeʻole, alakaʻi iā ia, alakaʻi iā ia i ka ala pololei. ʻAʻohe,ʻaʻole wau e kamaʻilio no ka mālamaʻana i ka makapō makapō -ʻaʻole hiki i nā kauā ke pāʻani i kēia manawa, akā i kekahi manawa ua mākaukau nā kānaka e hana i nā hanaʻano pupule, kahi e pono ai kā mākou e hōʻole. A ma laila, he mea pono e loaʻa nā'ōlelo kūpono a pololei e hōʻeha aiʻo ia iā ia wale nō, akā ua koiʻiaʻo ia e noʻonoʻo i ke kuhikuhi e pono aiʻoe.
ʻO ia ke kumu e pono aiʻoe eʻike: he aha ka makemake o ke kāne mai ka wahine, he aha nā'ōlelo e hiki ke hōʻoia iā ia i kekahi mea, kū, kuhikuhi. A pēlā nō iʻike ai kou kanaka i ka hiki iāʻoe ke "lawe" iāʻoe. Aʻaʻole maikaʻi,ʻaʻole ia i ka hoʻopili - he ola ola wale nō ia, he mau nuances e kōkua e mālama i ke ao nei.