Manaʻo ka poʻe he nui ke aloha o ka wahine ikaika a mālama. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole pēlā. Makemakeʻo ia eʻimi i ke aloha,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e hoʻomaha. No laila,ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hōʻike aku i kona manaʻo i ke kanaka a hana e like me ka wahine iʻike i ka hana, a me ka hoʻokaeʻana.
ʻO ka nīnau inā he wahine ikaika eʻike i kona aloha, e hopohopo ana i nā wāhine he nui i hele i ke ola ma o lākou iho, akā,ʻaʻole makemake e hana kēia i ka manawa pauʻole. No laila, pehea lā e hiki ai iā kāua ke hoʻomaopopo i ka aloha nui o kēlā mau kaikamāhine.
ʻAe, he mea pono e hoʻomaopopo i ka ikaika mau o ko lākou aloha. ʻAʻole manaʻo kēia mau wāhine i kekahi mea. No laila, inā makemake lākou i ke aloha, makemake lākou i ka huhū a me ko lākou naʻau. Akāʻo kēia aloha, no kekahi kumu,ʻaʻole i mahalo mauʻia e nā kāne. He aha ka hewa o kēia wahine a pehea e hoʻoponopono ai? ʻO ka mea mua,ʻaʻole e hiki i kēia kaikamahine keʻae i kahi kanaka e lilo i kanaka maoli. ʻAʻoleʻo ia e hana ia mea no ka mea. ʻO kahi kaikamahine ikaika wale nō i hoʻohanaʻia e hoʻoponopono i nā pilikia a pau. ʻAʻoleʻo ia e kali i ke kanaka e loaʻa manawa a makemake e hana i kekahi mea nona. ʻOiai inā makemakeʻo ia a loaʻa iā ia ka manawa kūpono e hana ai i kahi mea,ʻo ka wahine i maopopoʻole ia. ʻAʻoleʻo ia e ho'āʻo e loaʻa ka manawa e kōkua ai i kāna kāne. Uaʻike kēia lede e hanaʻo ia i kāna mea maikaʻi ma kona iho. ʻOiai, ma nāʻano he nuiʻo ia e kūpono ana, akā,ʻaʻole makemake nā kāne i kēia. Makemake lākou e lilo i mau naita a me nā mea ho'ōla. A ināʻaʻole pono ka kaikamahine i kēia mea, makaʻu lākou a hoʻopiʻiʻia e iaʻano hana. Hiki ia i kahi mea emiʻole i nā kāne. No laila, ua ho'āʻo nā haumāna me kaʻikeʻole a me ka hōʻeuʻeu i kaʻaeʻana i kēlā mau kaikamāhine. ʻAʻole lākou makemake i kahi wahine e pili ana iā lākou e hana i nā mea a pau no lākou aʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o lākou. Inā ua piha kēia kanaka i kēiaʻano o ka pono,ʻaʻohe mea maikaʻi ma kēia. ʻO ka meaʻoi loa,ʻo kēia'ōpiopioʻo Alphonse a he keiki. Makemakeʻo ia i ka wā e mālama ai ka wahine iā ia a pale i nā pilikia a pau. He mea lapuwale ke kūkuluʻana i ka pilina me ia mau kāne no ka mea wale nō lākou e hoʻohana i nā wāhine ikaika.
No kaʻikeʻana i ke aloha i kekahi kanaka maʻamau, pono ka wahine e hoʻomanaʻo heʻano nāwaliwali ia a he pilikia. Mai hoʻomaha i ka lio a hele ma nā hale ahi. ʻO ka hapa kēia o nā poʻe aʻo lākou wale nō. Pono ke kaikamahine eʻae aku i kā lākou mau hana kaulike a me ka hoʻohālikeʻaʻole e hiki iā ia ke hana me ke kōkuaʻoleʻia e ke kanaka.
ʻO kekahi pilikia o nā wāhine ikaika - ke hana mau lākou i ka hana mua. ʻO nā wāhine e like me ko lākou makemake, akā, e hana wale lākou. Akā, no ka mea,ʻaʻole kēia i ka hopena maikaʻi loa. I ka manawa pinepine, i loko o ka pilina pili nā mea a pau i ka hana. Inā kāhea mua ke kaikamahine me ka kākau, e'ōlelo muaʻo ia i ke aloha a'ōlelo hoʻi e hoʻomaka e hālāwai me ia, ua'okiʻakaʻia ka mea e strangled. Ua manaʻoʻo ia ua hoʻoholoʻia nā mea a pau nona. Aʻaʻole makemake kēia poʻe i ka mea nui loa. ʻO ia ke kumu e hōʻeuʻeu ai lākou i kēia mau wāhine ae ho'āʻoʻole e ulu i ka pilina me lākou. ʻO ka mea pinepine i ka lede ikaika,ʻaʻoleʻike nā kāne i ke kaikamahine, akā he hoaaloha. ʻO ka mea pōʻino,ʻo nā wāhine ke hoʻonāukiuki iā lākou i ia mau manaʻo. Hana lākou e like me ka hana mau o nā kānaka. ʻO ka manawa pinepine,ʻike nā wāhine ikaika i ka inu, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻohiki me ka hoa, kūkākūkā i nā wāhine lapuwale,ʻaʻole makemake e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā lole a me nā mea hana. Hāʻawi mau lākou i nā mea maikaʻi i ka maka aʻaʻohe hopohopo nui no ke kanaka. Ma ke ala,ʻo kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole i nānāʻia kēlā mau kaikamāhine me nāʻaʻahu,ʻaʻole lākou iʻike i ka kohoʻana i nā mea maikaʻi a me kaʻaʻahu maikaʻi. ʻOiaiʻo ia mau wāhineʻaʻole lākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēia mau mea,ʻaʻole lākou e waiho i ko lākou mau hiʻohiʻona ma ke poʻo o nā mea a pau.
ʻO kēlā mau kaikamāhine he mau hoa maikaʻi loa a he "mau kaikunāne". Me lākou e hiki ai iāʻoe ke inu i ka beer, e kūkākūkā i nā kaikamāhine aʻaʻole e hopohopo pahaʻaʻole e maopopo i ka wahine. Akā,ʻo kēia noʻonoʻo e alakaʻi ana i kaʻoiaʻiʻoʻaʻoleʻike ke kaikamahine i ke kumu o ke aloha. Ua liloʻo ia i kanaka nona a he mea paʻakikī kēiaʻano koʻikoʻi e maopopo ai. No laila, inā huhū kekahi wahine ikaika i ka hana a nā kāne iā ia e like me kona kaikunāne, pono iā ia ke aʻo i nā mea e like me ke kaikamahine. ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e pāʻani i ka pāʻani a hōʻeha i kēlā me kēia hua'ōlelo. Akā,ʻaʻole pono kaʻakaʻaka nuiʻana i nā haʻalulu, nā kaikamāhine haʻahaʻa, kamaʻilio pinepine e pili ana i ka maopopoʻole o nā wāhine i nā noʻonoʻo, aʻo nā kānaka maʻamau wale nō ke maopopo i nā mea a pau, a kapaʻia hoʻi he kanaka. Ināʻaʻohe wahine ka wahine, e hoʻomana lākou iā ia, akāʻaʻole lākou eʻike iā ia he wahine kūpono. No ka mareʻana i ka hoaaloha o kāna hoaaloha he hewa a maikaʻi. ʻO ia hoʻi, ke noho nei kēia mau manaʻo i loko o nā manaʻo o nā'ōpio. No laila, i ke kamaʻilioʻana me nā'ōpio, pono ka wahine e hoʻomalu iā ia iho aʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻoholo i nā mea a pau a me ka hana e like me ke alakaʻi o nā poʻe. ʻOiai, ma ka hoʻomaka muaʻana o ka paʻakikī, akā, me ka manawa, hoʻohanaʻia kēlā me kēia kanaka aʻaʻole eʻike i nā mea i mālamaʻia i kēia wā. Ma ke ala, he mea pono eʻike i ka hoʻoikaikaʻoleʻana o kekahi i nā wāhine ikaika e hoʻololi iā lākou iho aʻahu paha i kahi uhi. Pono, he mea pono e aʻo e maopopo i kahi e hōʻike ai i kou ikaika, a ma hea - nāwaliwali. ʻO nā wāhine ma keʻano pilikino kūlohelohe, kahi wale nō e pono e aʻo ai pehea e hoʻohana ai. Ināʻoe e noʻonoʻo a hoʻolohe iāʻoe iho, e nānā ana i nā kāne, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo i ka manawa e pono aiʻoe e hōʻike i ka nāwaliwali a me ke aloha, ai ka wā e pono ai e hoʻomanaʻo i kou ikaika o keʻano a me ka hoʻomanawanui.
Makemake nā kāne i ka poʻe i hiki iā lākou ke hakakā a lanakila, akā,ʻaʻole lākou e haʻalele i ka pilikia a hiki iā lākou ke pale aku iā lākou iho i nā pilikia he nui me ko lākouʻike a me ke aloha. Ka ikaika a me ka nāwaliwali, ke kāne a me ka wahine, ka malu a me ka hoʻokalakupua e pono ke hui pū i loko o ka wahine. Inā loaʻa kekahi mea,ʻikeʻia e nā poʻe a me ka māhele e aloha aiʻo ia me kahi kaikamahine e emi ana a liʻiliʻi. ʻO ia ke kumu e loaʻa ai i kahi wahine ikaika ka ikaika a me ke akamai i loko ona e aʻo ai i ka nāwaliwali a me nā wāhine, e like me ka mea e pono ai kekahi kanaka maoli.